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Life is full of conflicts and if you are a parent, you may have noticed that relationship problems are quite common. But a conflict with your children does not have to be seen as something negative, if not as a great opportunity to get closer to them ... If you do not see it that way, you will start to move away from them almost without realizing it, and worst of all ... They will also move away from you emotionally almost without realizing it.
Children need your guidance, but punishing him whenever you think it's necessary can erode your relationship. If you punish your children indiscriminately, your child will most likely behave worse in the future. It is necessary to be consistent with the actions, calm down before making a decision and above all take a deep breath before having too punitive behavior. Remember that your children learn from what they see.
Small fissures can also accumulate, generating relational problems in the family and major conflicts that will turn into wounds that are difficult to heal. If something is wrong between you and your child, you must find a way to resolve it in a positive way. The decision to leave your side (unless it is temporarily and strategically) will only increase the emotional conflict and your child will withdraw emotionally, really. Every conflict should be an opportunity to get closer… and not to create distance.
That is why after each conflict it is so important to work to reconnect with your children. Parents are the ones who must provide security and emotional shelter, they are like the anchor for their children, like their best compass so that they know how to orient themselves in this world that does not stop changing. When children are separated from their parents they will need another figure of reference to turn to at times necessary to continue growing.