We all want to be beautiful always, but beauty is always relative And sometimes, depending on the occasion, whether or not our appearance is suitable can determine that others, or even ourselves, look or do not look pretty.
However, this is the aesthetic definition of beauty, being beautiful at a certain moment, in a period of time and space. Actually, What can we do to always be beautiful?What is really being pretty?
Definition of the Royal Spanish Academy
Handsome.
From lat. vappa 'rascal, rogue'; cf. handsome 'quarrelsome man'.
- adj. Good looking.
- adj. Groomed, well dressed.
- adj. place Courageous, bizarre and determined, he despises dangers and takes them on.
- adj. place U. in vocative, empty of meaning, as an expression of affection, sometimes with a tinkle or with a tone of irritation. Shut up a little bit, handsome.
That is, if we pay attention to the etymology of the word, being beautiful has more to do with a talkative, lively and determined character than with the perfect features or the size that we wear.
Does that mean that you should not put on makeup or dress well to be beautiful?
It means that it is not entirely necessary, because within the definitions, being good-looking and being well-groomed or well-dressed falls within the definitions. What is important to note is that being beautiful is also related to your character. You need to be daring and cheerful, a cold and sad woman, she is not really a pretty woman.
The really important thing to be pretty is to feel good about yourself. To be beautiful you need to have fun and interact in a healthy way with your children, with your partner, with your friends and co-workers.
You can be pretty with pants and a shirt at the office, or with the oldest clothes you can find to be at home playing with the little ones and painting. Your partner will not care if you wear silk or cotton stockings, as long as they make you feel good and you want to look good in their company.
Since pregnancy, your body has changed so much that you don't really feel comfortable with yourself.
No matter how much your body changes, it is essential that you take care of that body and your self-esteem above your physical appearance.
A pregnancy changes us inside and out, we are no longer that person who did not have children and we must accept that this includes physical changes. Sometimes they are even temporary changes, since there are diets and exercises that can help you, if not to look more like the one before, at least to feel better about yourself.
Why is it important to feel like a beautiful mother?
Because our children will learn from our example, and your self esteem it will be linked to how we show them that we feel about ourselves. If we give in to social pressure that tells us we are too fat or skinny or tall or short, they will too.
It is very important that the child feels that their friendly nature, their games and joys are respected since their education begins from birth and their aesthetics is part of their personality and therefore of that nature. If we evoke Rousseau's pedagogical project, it is important that we highlight his claim to respect human nature in its freedom and spontaneity. That is why it is essential for your children to have the correct example, that you respect your own freedom and that you be spontaneous. It is essential for its development and also, that is what true beauty consists of, being natural, yourself, happy and satisfied with your appearance and your life.
But just because I look pretty doesn't mean that others are going to do it too
This is not the case at all, for the following reasons:
- Your son will always think that you are the most beautiful mother in the world, because he sees in you all that beauty that exists in every good gesture you have with him.
- Your partner is going to see you beautiful for exactly the same reason, because he sees every gesture of love you have and values it, that makes him see you as the most beautiful woman in the world.
- Your friends will see you beautiful because you make them have good times and because they appreciate that you are also in bad times.
Because you must remember that being pretty is much more than pretty hair, a doll's face, and killer legs. To be really pretty, you just have to be you and enjoy it.