Suddenly our children get older and the age of adolescence gets into a more difficult path to educate. Parents are the sustenance for all children when they begin their journey and have to grow up. The worst can happen when our children are adults and they become rude boys.
In order for your child to consider himself rude, you have to know if his attitude is defiant. Misprocesses many of the comments, criticizes everything without reason and without expectations of whether it can harm, does not have family attachment and does not value the authority of anyone who comes before him; then has a major behavior problem towards his parents or anyone who wants to have authority towards him.
Why are rude children created?
It all starts at an early age. Children around 10 years of age they no longer need their parents so much and in a few years they are already beginning to enter the stage of adolescence. They are much more independent, they just need some kind of romantic relationship when they feel in a hurry.
If your child was raised under a type of permissive education and at home there have been no specific rules, children may not respect their parents in the long run. The rules can always be interposed, with caution and in the same way and respect that you would do it with someone you trust. You have to educate in a quiet environment, if yelling or hitting, and above all without using hateful words.
After the rules you can let the severe punishments come. After many punishments, many parents do not really focus on how much they are being created. They come to impose without talking about the consequences. There must be an end to be fulfilled in order for them to become autonomous adults.
How to correct rude adult children
A child of adulthood turns into a rude boy when the words get out of tune and turn into contempt. This attitude should not reach disrespectfulThey are painful words and they do not have to be heard by anyone or by your own child.
If now is the time to make rules, ask your child to try to abide by them with respect. You have to comment on the rules that are imposed and you have to negotiate in how to fulfill them. It can be explained to him that complying with the rules equates to leading a better life for everyone, that in the long run if he does everything as it should be, it will be much better for him to earn his freedoms.
You should always try to talk to your son, from closeness and respect, in this way the relationship will be mutual. Start by identifying your emotions so that you feel close to what others feel, but also listen to their emotions if they show them at any time. The important thing is to rule respect, since we all like that condition and it is something that must be enforced.
If you can't get their rudeness and rudeness down, you'll have to set an emotional goal for yourself so that it does not affect your health. Everything has a limit and if the fight is tireless a subsection will have to be taken. Try to find another type of closeness and make your time precious. You can try to tell him that your time with him will be a privilege, that it is no longer looking for a simple company. In this way it can denote your interest as a mother or father.
A big child turned into an adult, although he may seem physically important, deep down he is still a child who it needs affection, understanding and above all acceptance. If you have had difficulty in childhood to be able to follow an order, now at this stage you can still lower his rudeness and give him a second chance.