Many parents decide when their children should sleep alone in your room, but they still don't know when to change the baby in their new room. We know that for many it is an evolutionary step and that causes a great weight, since we do not know if this change can cause many nocturnal awakenings.
Many of the attempts end up being unsuccessful when parents decide to change their child's room and the child does not accept it. The lack of sleep and the daily torture of suffering from insomnia ends with many parents giving in to it. is practiced co-sleeping. We must analyze why it has happened and when it is time to change our son so that these events do not happen.
When should I change the baby to his room?
Without further ado is the great doubt of many parents, because for various circumstances and of how collective life is at home, many factors will depend in order to create this change. During breastfeeding, a great bond is created for the baby and that can slow down this process much more. Why is this happening?
Because between mother and baby has been created a little attachment and this kind of dependency makes it retract more and more over time. It usually happens that for comfort the baby is close to sleeping and when demand the chest is offered without further ado. This fact creates a routine habit and makes having it close much easier and does not have to move to another room.
But this is just one of the most common examplesAt least when you are considering moving the baby to your room and never know when the time comes. Hence the co-sleeping that can come to last from months to years, perhaps even when the child decides that he needs to become independent.
There is data confirming that a baby is not going to feel that attachment or anxiety by separation before seven or eight months. This upturn tells us that before that age is when we can raise more solvency and try to our son change rooms.
It is a decisive approach and that it becomes part of both the parents and the baby himself. The moment to create this plan comes hand in hand when, due to a series of circumstances, we believe that we are all prepared. Although it may not seem like it for many parents, this moment does not come because they need to co-sleep and stay together, because they like it. It is a fact that occurs in many homes and many families are often silent, but it is real.
How to help our baby sleep alone?
There are multiple of tactics and tutorials to make an attached child sleep alone. It is a decision that many parents want to happen for the good of all and for the child have your own independence. It is not known for sure if both co-sleeping or making the child sleep in his own room are events that compete for the benefit of all. Each has its own benefits and drawbacks.
If the child is already a little older it can be explained that it is time for tI fooled him to sleep in his room. It is not a question of using the words 'you are going to sleep alone' since it can be a bit radical, but yes lovingly discuss this new situation.
If you are afraid to sleep alone because of the separation or because there is darkness all this can be appeased with pretty words. It should be noted that there is only a small separation between one room and another, but that the parents are still very close. If there is fear of the dark, a small light can be left in the room. Nearby stuffed animals or toys from great company also make feel much more protected.
When your child is a baby, the idea of change works with other guidelines. Being smaller change may be more practical. The transfer can be gradual, laying him down in the room little by little and getting used to his mobile for the crib and everything that surrounds him. These little tactics, with time and patience you can make the baby become independent in your room.