Amfanin yin bacci tare

Mama da jariri suna aikin bacci tare

"Co-sleeping" an fahimta a matsayin gaskiyar raba gado da jariranmu, bar shi ya kwana tare da mu a gado ɗaya ko cikin gadajen da aka haɗa. Magoya bayan wannan aikin, sun wadatar da karatun da ke tabbatar da cewa yin bacci yana da fa'idodi da yawa kan ci gaban 'ya'yanmu.

Wasu daga cikin wadannan fa'idodin su ne: re yana rage yuwuwar cututtukan mutuwa kwatsam, yana rage saurin gidan kwana na jariri, yana fifita ciyarwar dare yayin shayarwa, yana haɓaka haɗin kai tsakanin iyaye da yara, da dai sauransu.

Kwarewata tare da kwanciyar bacci

A halin da na ke ciki, na fara yin bacci don al'amarin rayuwa, jariri na kimanin watanni 4, ya fara tashi sau da yawa a kowane dare, ba shi yiwuwa a bar shi a gadon sa, Na kwana a farke, zaune kan kujera, ina kallon karamin nawa yana bacci cikin nutsuwa a hannuna. Wani lokaci rashin bacci mai kyau yana sanya kayi la'akari da yin bacci koda kuwa baka taɓa tunani game da shi ba, hutu yana da mahimmanci!

Na shafe sama da shekara kamar haka, mafi yawan lokuta ban ma kwanciya ba, saboda ba lallai ne na sake tashi ba. Har lokacin bazara ya zo. Saboda dalilan jin dadi, a lokacin hutun na kwashe wasu 'yan kwanaki ina kwanciya da jaririna a gado daya, Ga mamakina sai ya zamana cewa 'ya'yana sun yi bacci kusan dare, cewa ya farka kuma kawai yana buƙatar taɓa ni don komawa barci.

Ba zan iya gaskata shi ba, da zarar na koma gida, ban yi tunani game da shi ba kuma na haɗu da gadona zuwa gadon gado, tun daga wannan lokacin na raba sarari da ƙaunataccen ɗa tare da ɗana. Na gano yadda abin birgewa shine yin bacci in farka kusa da shi, jin ƙanshin sa, 'Yan kananan hannayenshi na shafa cikin da ya dauke shi tsawon wata 9.

Yanzu a gida, duk muna barci lafiya

Na dawo bacci, wani abu da nake matukar buƙata na sami damar komawa bakin aiki da rayuwa gaba ɗaya. Myana ya ci gaba da tashi a cikin dare, amma kawai yana buƙatar in riƙe shi, don sanin cewa mahaifiyarsa tana wurin, don komawa barci.

Tun daga wannan lokacin, duk lokacin da na tattauna da sauran mahaifiyata, nakan ji tsokaci da ɗana zai saba da shi, kuma ina mamaki, Shin da gaske sharri ne gare shi ya saba da shi? Ina ganin babu kyau a gare shi ya saba da wasu abubuwa, kamar barin shi ya yi rashin biyayya ko sanya shi sabawa da samun abin da yake so da kamewa, misali.

Bana tsammanin sabawa da mama ta cutar da jariri. Akasin haka, Ina fatan in more shi har tsawon lokacin da zai yiwu, kowane mataki yana da ban mamaki, yana wucewa da sauri kuma ba shi da tabbas.


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