La iyaye Ya banbanta ga kowace mace da kowace uwa, tana rayuwarsa ta wata hanyar daban. Kodayake zuwan dan shine daya daga cikin abubuwan ban mamaki a rayuwaGa mata da yawa yana iya zama da yawa. Akwai canje-canje da yawa da dole ne a fuskanta kuma babu wata shakka cewa mahaifiya ta zama ƙalubale a cikin yanayi da yawa.
Kowane mutum yana fuskantar yanayi daban-daban kuma daidai yake faruwa da mahaifiya. Yana da asali fuskantar duk canje-canje ta hanya mai kyau, don jin dadin sabuwar rayuwa a matsayin uwa. Akwai yanayi da yawa waɗanda za ku fuskanta, wasu ban mamaki wasu kuma ba su da yawa, amma a ƙasan dukkansu ɓangare ne na mahaifiya kuma suna sanya farin ciki.
Iyaye da yawa sun rasa "littafin koyarwar."«, Jagora na asali don taimaka muku shawo kan kowane sabon ƙalubale. Amma wannan, a yau, wani abu ne wanda babu shi, abin da kuke da shi shine ƙwarewar ku, ƙwarewar ku da mafi girman ƙarfin da ke wanzu. Amma ban da halayyar da kuke fuskantar duk waɗannan canje-canje, akwai wasu dabaru da zasu taimaka muku rayuwa cikin uwa a cikin farin ciki da annashuwa.
Yarda da kanka da kuma ilhami
Kamar yadda muka ce, mafi kyawun jagorar jagora shine ilhamarku na Uwa. Ku da kanku kuna da alaƙa ta musamman da ta musamman tare da jaririn kuma bai kamata ku yi shakkar halayenku a kowane lokaci ba. Zai yiwu cewa yanayi mai rikitarwa da mawuyacin hali don jurewa sun bayyana, amma dole ne kuyi dogaro da kanku kuma zaku sami maganin kowane matsala.
Yi aiki akan kwarin gwiwar ka da ƙudurin ka a rayuwa, kada ka yi shakkar ikonka a matsayinka na mahaifiya. Amma kar ka manta da neman taimako lokacin da kuke buƙata, saboda hakan ba zai sa ku zama masu rauni ba ko kuma mummunan uwa ba.
Mafi kyawun uwa ga ɗanka shine kai
Mata sukan fi dacewa da daidaita mahaifiya kuma idan lokacin gaskiya ya zo, sun fahimci cewa ba duka bane kamar yadda suka zana ta. Babu manyan uwaye, karka kwatanta kanka da sauran mata haka nan, bai kamata ku kwatanta ɗiyanku da sauran yara ba. Duk yadda waccan matar ta aikata, kai da kai kawai, kai ne mafi alherin uwa ga ɗanka.
Littlearamin ku zai kula da sanar da ku ta hanya mafi kyau, tare da kaunarsa mara iyaka.
Nemi lokaci don kanku
Idan baku karaya ba kuma baku jin daɗin wani lokaci don kanku, ba zaku sami cikakken jin daɗin uwa ba. Gajiya zata kai ka ga shawo kanka, zaka zama mai saurin fushi da haƙuri kuma wannan zai haifar da miss babban lokacin uwa. Yi ƙoƙari ku huta sosai, ko ta yaya gidan yake, tufafin da suke buƙatar a goge su ko kuma idan akwai wata cuta.
Yana da muhimmanci cewa nemi lokaci don kanku kanta, don kula da kanka, hutawa da aikata abubuwan da kuke so. Karanta littafi, ji daɗin wanka na fiye da minti 5, tafi yawo ko ganin shaguna, duk wani aikin da ya dace da kai. Bayan yin wani abu da kuke so, zaku ji daɗin more rayuwar mahaifiya ta.
Yarda da ma'auninku
Abu ne na al'ada wasu mutane suyi muku nasiha da ra'ayoyi game da komai, daga lokacin da kuka sami ciki. Wani lokaci waɗancan ra'ayoyin zasu iya sanya ka shakkar hukuncin ka kuma ta wannan hanyar, zaku iya tunanin cewa ba kwa yin sa daidai. Yana da mahimmanci kayi aiki akan kwarin gwiwar ka, kayi imani da kanka da kuma kyakkyawan tunanin ka yayin yanke hukunci.
Yi tunanin cewa, koda kuna kuskure, zaku yanke shawara bisa ga ma'auninku kuma saboda haka, kowa zai mutunta shi. Koyi jin abin da zasu ce maka saboda ladabi, amma ga zauna da abin da zai iya amfanar ka kawai.
A takaice dai, rayuwa mai cike da farin ciki uwa ce mai yiwuwa idan ka dauki halaye masu kyau game da duk abin da kake shirin rayuwa. Kasancewa mahaifiya abin ban tsoro ne kuma yana yiwuwa wannan yanayin zai kasance tare da ku tsawon shekaru. Amma uwa ma abin birgewa ne, kin kirkiro rayuwa a jikinki, kin kawo rayuwa cikin wannan duniyar, jikinki yana iya kirkirar abincin da jaririnki yake bukata. Shin kuna buƙatar wani abu don shawo ku?