Idan kun kasance uwa, tabbas a lokuta da yawa (ba faɗi kowace rana), kun yi korafin rashin samun lokacin kanku. Lokacin da yara suka isa, lokacin sirri baya ɗaukar kujerar baya, a zahiri ya ɓace daga jirgin. Wace uwa ce ke da lokaci don ta ɗan huta don ɗan hutawa, karanta littafi kafin ta yi barci, fita zuwa wasanni?
Rashin lokacin mutum tausayawa yana shafar iyaye mata da yawa, waɗanda ke fama da asarar ainihi, aƙalla a farkon shekarun rayuwar yara. Lokaci yana tashi a kowace rana tsakanin diapers, lullabies da duk kulawar da yara ke buƙata. Idan lokacin sirri ya yi karanci, lokacin hutu tabbas babu shi.
Irin wannan jin daɗin iyaye mata ne ke raba shi a duniya, har ma an ƙirƙiri wani lokaci wanda zai bayyana shi daidai. KASHE, yana nufin MOther tare da NO Personal Lokaci, wanda aka fassara zuwa Mutanen Espanya yana nufin "uwa ba tare da lokacin sirri ba."
Uwa ba tare da lokaci na sirri ba
A halin yanzu, mata kalilan ne suka dukufa wajen kula da yara da kuma gida. A yau, mata suna da burin aiki, burin kansu, don zuwa ganin duniya, a takaice, mata suna so zauna bayan bangon gida huɗu. Saboda wannan, mata da yawa suna komawa aiki bayan hutun rashin lafiya don iyaye.
Amma samun lokaci don yin aiki a waje da gida, har ila yau gudanar da gida da nauyin kula da tarbiyyar yara, yana nufin a mafi yawan lokuta barin lokaci na kai. Domin idan kana so ka sami minti a kanka, ya kamata ka bar wani abu daban, kuma wannan kusan ba zai yiwu ba.
Kodayake maza suna daɗa shiga cikin kula da yara da ayyukan gida, gaskiyar ita ce a mafi yawan lokuta kada ku ɗauki alhakin farko na waɗannan ayyukan. Kuma ba tambaya ce mai sauƙi ba game da machismo, lamari ne mai zurfin gaske dangane da ilimi.
Don cin nasara lokacin mutum
Abu ne da ya zama ruwan dare gama gari ga mata suna da ji da kansu cewa su ke da alhakin gida. Jin cewa idan baku kula da kanku ba, abubuwa ba za suyi daidai ba. Kuma wannan kawai yana haifar mace tana da nauyin aiki da nauyi. Amma neman wannan lokacin da cin nasara da sararinku babban aiki ne na sirri wanda kowace uwa dole ne ta yi aiki akansa.
Wakilai mabuɗi ne, wakili a kula da yara, ayyukan gida, girki, aiki, da duk wuraren da ba na mutum ba. Ya zama dole ayi wakilai domin sakin jakar aikin ka, wannan ita ce kawai hanyar da za a tarkace kowace rana na 'yan mintoci kaɗan kuma a mayar da ita lokacin ku.
Mata da yawa suna jin wata kishi idan suka ga abokiyar zamanta tana kwance tana kallon talabijin, har ma sun wuce gona da iri yi fushi idan ya ga yana da lokacin hutu, lokacin da basu ma da lokacin yin wanka. Wannan lamari ne mai sauki na neman lokacin, maza suna da ikon samun lokutan kyauta cikin sauki. A gare su, gidan koyaushe cikakke ne, abinci na iya jira kuma yara za su iya wasa na ɗan lokaci kaɗan.
Suna da ikon rabu da damuwa kuma kada ku sha wahala daga rashin samun komai har zuwa yau, duka cikakke. Idan aka ba da wannan, mata suna hukunta irin wannan ɗabi'ar, amma ba haka ba ne.
Nemo kuma sami lokacinku kyauta
Wannan aiki ne na mutum, kowace mace sai ta nemi lokacin ta. Organizationungiya, tsarawa, wakilta da manta game da kamala. Nemi lokaci don kanka kowace rana, kaɗa aan mintoci kaɗan a agogo don yin wanka, lokacin yin komai. Amma a, lokacin da kuka same shi, kada ku ji daɗin tunanin duk abin da zaku iya yi.
Kun cancanci samun ɗan lokaci don kanku ayi abinda kake so ko ayi komai. Jikinku, lafiyar jikinku da lafiyarku ya dogara da shi kuma ƙari, zaku sami damar rayuwa a farin cikin uwa.