Vulva da azzakari: amfani da sunaye na ainihi don sanya al'aura

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Akwai iyayen da zasu tausasa tasirin kalmomin da ke sanya al'aura "mara" ko "azzakari" sun fi son amfani da wasu sunaye "marasa ƙarancin sha'awa" amma sam bai dace da sanyawa al'aurar yaransu suna ba. Suna iya zama kalmomi kamar "churrita", "chichi", "chochete" "toto", "colita", da dai sauransu Amma a zahiri, babu ɗaya daga cikin zaɓin in ban da kiransa da sunansa wanda yake kyakkyawan zaɓi.

Dole ne yara su koyi yin suna daidai da sassan jiki kuma kamar yadda kuke kiran hannu da “hannu”, azzakari dole ne a kira shi “azzakari” da mara, “mara”. Amfani da wasu kalmomin bashi da kyau muddin yara sun san ainihin sunayen waɗannan sassan jikinsu.

Ba lallai ne ku jira har sai ya girma ya fara ba, da zaran ya fara koyan sassan jikin ya tambaya ko ya zama yana sha'awar wadannan sassan, dole ne ku sanya musu suna.

Kuna iya amfani da bangarorin yini don samun damar sanya masa suna, kamar lokacin da kuke sa masa sutura, canza zanen jariri ko a banɗaki, amma ya zama dole ayi shi ta ɗabi'a.  Misali, "yanzu zan sabulu azzakarin ku", ko "ku kalli kwayan ku, bari mu tsaftace su."

Wajibi ne ga yara su fahimta a zahiri cewa wannan yanki na jiki ana kiransa wancan, zamani. Idan kun taɓa yin magana da ƙarfi game da azzakarinku, kuyi amfani da wannan lokacin don yin magana game da kusanci da ladabi, kuma cewa al'aura wani abu ne na kusanci wanda babu wanda zai taɓa shi sai mahaifiya don wanke shi ko warkar da shi ko likita in dai hakan ya tabbata zama dole. Wannan kuma zai taimaka wajen samun iyaka da girmama kansu da na wasu.

Guji yin taboo a gidanka game da jima'i, wannan yana hana yin shiru idan akwai lalata…. Kuma yana farawa da sanya al'aura da sunan da suke da shi, babu kari, ba kasa ba.


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