Samartaka yana buƙatar haƙuri da amincewar iyaye, waɗanda ke da aikin jagoranci da ba matasa damar tallafi suke bukata, don ingantawa da haɓaka su girman kai, kodayake wannan ba sauki ba ne, saboda tawayen da ya ɓace a lokacin samartaka.
Tabbatar da wannan fahimtar kai da ganin girman kai shine babban mahimmin yanayin lafiyar mutum na kowane mutum, har ma fiye da haka lokacin samartaka. Wasu kayan aiki, littattafai, fina-finai da shirin gaskiya, na iya taimaka muku kuma ku taimaka wa yaranku don ƙarfafa darajar kansu, da kuma samun yarda da kai ta hanyar lafiya.
Shin matasa suna karanta littattafan taimakon kai tsaye?
Yawancin littattafan taimakon kai tsaye tsofaffi ne suka rubuta su kuma aka tsara su don su, waɗanda suma sukan kusancesu a lokacin rikici. Koyaya wasu, kuma wasu masu sana'a ilimin halin dan Adam da taimakon kai sun kasance na musamman a samartaka kuma sun rubuta litattafai da matasa zasu karanta. Wannan baya nufin cewa suma suna samun damar iyaye, kuma suna yi musu hidima mafi fahimta Matakan da yaranku ke ɗauka wa matasa.
Matasa suna da yadda suke magana, don haka ana ba da shawarar su kusanci littattafai tare da salon sadarwa ya dace dasu. Wannan sanannun marubuta ne, ko Mutanen Espanya ko baƙi, kuma wannan shine cewa samartaka abu ne na duniya, kodayake yana da halaye daban-daban a cikin kowace al'ada.
Tabbas a cikin shawarwarin da muka baku mun bar wasu, amma muhimmin abu shine cewa saurayi ya kusanci karatun waɗannan littattafan taimakon kai tsaye, don su sanin kai, da tunani. Kuma ku tuna cewa dole ne mu ba da shawara da ba da shawara ta hanyar kaɗan-hanyar mamayewa. Abinda muke ba da shawara ga iyaye mata koyaushe.
Littattafan da ke inganta girman kan marubutan kasashen waje
Ofaya daga cikin litattafan littattafai waɗanda aka ba da shawarar ga matasa shine: 6 mafi mahimmancin yanke shawara a rayuwar ku, by Briton Sean Covey. Wannan littafin yana mai da hankali kan magance waɗannan mahimman shawarwarin matasa. Marubucin ya yi ma'amala da abin da ya ɗauki mahimman bayanai guda 6 da kowane saurayi ko yarinya za su fuskanta kuma ya koya musu su yanke shawara mafi kyau. Asusun labaran rayuwa na gaske don nuna yadda ake cin nasara a makarantar sakandare, yadda ake samun abokai na gari.
A cikin wannan layi shine Hanyoyi 7 na Matasa masu Tasiri sosai, by guda marubucin, wanda akwai ban dariya vignettes don sanya shi mafi kyau. Yi amfani da maganganu, labarai na gaskiya, da labarin ban dariya. Jagora ne don ƙarfafa halin saurayi a cikin mahimman wurare kamar surar jikin mutum, abota, ƙawancen zumunci, saita manufa, matsin lamba daga abokan aiki, amincin Intanet, da ƙari.
Abin sha'awa sosai Da dabara ta fasaha na ba da shit (kusan komai), by Mark Manson. Yana yin tsauraran bincike da nishaɗi game da cin nasara da jin cewa baku isa ba. Shin sosai shawarar ga matasa waɗanda suka kafa ƙa'idodi masu kyau don kansu. Abu mai ban sha'awa game da littafin shine cewa ya canza abin da ya shafi inganta kansa. Jagora ne mai matukar ban sha'awa don ginawa da haɓaka girman kai.
Marubutan ƙasa waɗanda ke haɓaka girman kai na samari
Mun yi sashi don littattafan da marubutan Sifen suka wallafa, saboda suna da mafi kusa tunani abin da 'ya'yanku na iya rayuwa. Saƙon kai tsaye a ciki Tashi yaro: Ta yaya ba za a dakatar da amfani da lokacinku a cikin makarantar ba, by Pablo Poo. Sunansa zai zama sananne a gare ku saboda tashar YouTube tana ɗaya daga cikin waɗanda aka fi bi. Tare da yare kai tsaye kuma an daidaita shi sosai ga ƙarami, yana kira da motsawa don yin karatu da ƙoƙari.
Marubucin nan mai koyar da ƙwaƙwalwa Antoni Bolinches ya rubuta Sirrin girman kai, tunanin kowa, amma musamman matasa. Babban abin da aka fi mayar da hankali shi ne cewa rayuwa game da jin daɗin lokacin kirki ne da koya daga mummunan abu. A ciki ya kafa tushe don sabuwar ka'idar tsaro.
Bookaramin littafi don childrenaagea na teenarama. Daga Josep López Romero, an rubuta shi cikin tsari mai kyau kuma tare da kyakkyawan tunani ga matasa. Suna kama da kamfas a kan batutuwa daban-daban, gami da ban dariya ko godiya tsakanin wasu.