Iceland ce ke da mafi ƙarancin adadin aure a cikin Turai kuma Kamar yadda na sani, kashi biyu bisa uku na zamantakewar aure suna ƙarewa a cikin saki, akwai kuma yawan haihuwa a waje da aure (kashi 2) kuma ya zama ruwan dare ga ma'aurata masu 'ya'ya ko marasa' ya'ya su zauna tare tsawon shekaru kafin suyi aure. A gefe guda kuma, ba bakon abu bane ga 'yan mata masu kananan shekaru suyi ciki, kuma wannan ba yana nufin cewa sun katse karatunsu na karatu ba kuma suna ci gaba da karatun jami'a, wannan saboda jihar tana bada tallafi ga haihuwa a wadannan yanayin.
Rahoton 2012 da NGO mai zaman kansa Save the Children ya shirya ya sanya wannan ƙaramar jihar tsibirin da ke kan gabar Atlantic, a matsayin ƙasa ta biyu mafi kyau ta zama uwa kuma farkon wanda ya zama yaro. Menene mabuɗan wannan ƙungiya mai kama da daidaito?
Wataƙila dalilai na kowane nau'i sun haɗu, daga cikinsu gaskiyar cewa ba ƙasar addini ba ce, don haka babu wani nau'in tabbaci na ɗabi'a me yasa kasancewar uwa a shekaru 21 ya zama abin kunya, ko kuma hakan ke haifar da son zuciya ga uwayen da ke da yara da yawa daga ma'aurata daban-daban. Bugu da kari, ana iya cewa wannan kasar ta Viking kusan mace ce ta dabi'a, kuma tabbas, kodayake mafi kyawu a koyaushe akwai yiwuwar, sun yi nesa da sauran kasashen Turai, balle Gabas ta Tsakiya ko Gabas ta Tsakiya.
Galasar da ba ta dace ba wacce ke raƙuman haihuwa.
A shekarar 1980 ne lokacin da Vigdis Finnbogadottir ya zama mace ta farko da ta zama shugabar kasa a Turai, duba ko shekaru ne da yawa kuma a Spain ba mu iya cimma hakan ba har yanzu (abin da ya kamata mu ci gaba). Ta kasance uwa daya tilo wacce ta kwashe shekaru 16 tana wakiltar ‘yan kasar Iceland, kuma ba ta yin kasa a gwiwa wajen danganta rawar da ta taka ga gwagwarmayar da’ yan uwanta suka yi a shekarar 1975 don daidaito.
Mata ne masu ƙarfi kuma masu zaman kansu waɗanda babban zakararsu shine yarda da kansu. Amma gaskiya ne cewa an samu mahimman nasarori waɗanda Gwamnati ta ɗauka, sauƙaƙa musu zama cikin al'umma, kuma masu himma wurin aiki, yayin da suke uwaye. Baya ga taimakon da aka ambata a baya, Iceland na iya yin alfahari da doka game da tashin hankali na jima'i wanda, idan ya faru a cikin abokin tarayya, kare wanda aka cutar ta hanyar tilasta mutumin da ya kai harin barin gida.
Yana da kyau a lura cewa kamfanonin da suke da aƙalla ma'aikata hamsin dole ne su tabbatar da mafi ƙarancin wakilcin kashi 50 cikin ɗari na ɗayan jinsi biyu a cikin Kwamitin Daraktocin, ma’ana, a shari’ance ba zai yiwu su kasance duka mata ko kuma duk maza ba.
Kuma duba: hutunda aka biya lokacin da aka haifi jariri watanni 9 ne wanda 3 suke don jin dadin mahaifiya, wani 3 da baza'a canzawa mahaifinsa ba, kuma sauran da zasu iya rarrabawa yadda suka ga dama. Wannan yana tabbatar da kasancewar mahaifin a cikin watannin farko na rayuwar jariri.
Bestasar mafi kyau don zama a ciki?
Barin yanayi ko yanayin ƙasa, da alama wuri ne mai kyau, a zahiri akwai uwaye marasa aure daga wasu ƙasashe waɗanda aka karɓe su sosai a can. Tabbas, yawanta yana kusan mazauna 320.000 sun bazu sama da murabba'in kilomita 100.000. Aasar wayewa ce, tare da yawan kuɗaɗen shigar mai shigowa, wanda mazaunanta ke rayuwa tsawon shekaru. Ban ce cewa wuri ne mara kyau ba, amma yawancin halayensa kyawawa ne.
Koyaya, matan Icelandic waɗanda za a iya kwatanta su da Italiyanci, Pakistan, Fotigal, Ba'amurke, Filipino, ko Ecuador, ana kwatanta su da maza: hakikanin daidaito ba ya kasancewa a aikace kuma duk da cewa ba a ba da izinin nuna bambancin albashi ba, yana faruwa. Bugu da kari, na karanta a wasu wallafe-wallafen cewa wani lamari mai tayar da hankali ya fara faruwa wanda zai iya daidaitawa - a kalla a fagen mu'amala da juna - ma'auni: batun batsa ne (manufar da za mu fadada a wani yanayi na daban) ),, kuma a zahiri An riga an riga an gabatar da kamfen na Ilimin Jima'i ga matasa game da wannan.
Hotuna - Helgi Halldórsson / Fredd, Anne Ling a cikin New Yorker