Samun ɗan'uwa yana ɗaya daga cikin kyawawan kyaututtuka na rayuwa na iya ba ka. 'Yan'uwan Abokan rayuwa ne, abokai na farko da mutane waɗanda ke koya muku mahimman darussa kamar haɗin kai, jinƙai, rabawa ko yanayin kariya, da sauransu. Kodayake a wasu lokuta, yayin da suka kai ga girma thean uwan sun daina samun abubuwan da suke so tare, gaskiyar ita ce gabaɗaya, soyayyar da kake ji wa dan’uwa ko ‘yar’uwa yana da wuyar kwatantawa.
A yau, 5 ga Satumba, ana bikin Ranar Brotheran’uwa ta Duniya, muhimmiyar rana don tuna mahimmancin wannan adadi a rayuwar kowane mutum. Shin kana son sanin cikakken bayani game da wannan bikin? Anan muna gaya muku duk cikakkun bayanai, tun daga yaushe kuma me yasa ake yin bikin har ma da wasu abubuwan neman sani. Domin koda rayuwa ta dauke ka akan hanyoyi daban-daban, dan uwa yana daga cikin mahimman lambobi a cikin rayuwar kowane mutum.
Ranar 'Yan Uwan Duniya
Ana bikin ranar 'yan uwa ta duniya a ranar 5 ga watan Satumba a kusan dukkan kasashen duniya, banda wasu banda kamar Argentina, wacce ke bikin ranar 4 ga Maris. Wannan rana an zaba shi ne don girmama Uwar Teresa ta Calcutta, wacce ta mutu a ranar 5 ga Satumba a cikin 1997. Wannan matar ta sadaukar da rayuwarta don gudanar da ayyukan zamantakewar daban-daban a wasu wurare mafi talauci a duniya.
An haife ta ne a Albania sannan daga baya ta zama Ba’amurkiya, ita ce ta kafa kungiyar mishan na kungiyar agaji a Calcutta a shekarar 1950. Tare da ‘yan uwanta mata daga taron, Uwargida Teresa ta Calcutta ta sadaukar da rayuwarta wajen taimakon wasu, don kawo zaman lafiya, soyayya da kwanciyar hankali mutane mafi buƙata. Fiye da shekaru 45, yana kula da marasa lafiya, yara marayu, matalauta da mutanen da ke mutuwa, yayin aiwatar da aikin faɗaɗa ikilisiyar da ita kanta ta kafa.
Dalilin da yasa aka zabi wannan rana don bikin ranar dan’uwa shine don a ba da muhimmanci ga aikin da wasu mutane suke yi wa wasu. Domin babu 'yan uwan jini kawaiAmma menene, wasu mutane suna ba da ƙaunarsu, ƙaunarsu da haɗin kansu ga sauran mutane. Saboda wasu abokai sun zama mafi kyawun yanuwa a duniya, koda kuwa jini daya baya gudana ta jijiyoyin su.
Yadda ake bikin wannan rana
Rayuwa tana gudana cikin sauri, wajibai na yau da kullun, aiki da duk ayyukan da dole ne a aiwatar don ci gaba, tashi freean lokacin kyauta don sadaukarwa ga abin da mahimmanci. Ji daɗin dangi, abokai da mutanen da suka fi tasiri a rayuwar ku. Wadannan mutane sune waɗanda suka kawo lokuta na musamman, waɗanda sune zasu kasance tare da ku har zuwa lokacin ƙarshe kuma sabili da haka, yana da mahimmanci a keɓe lokaci don ƙarfafa waɗannan alaƙar.
Mutane da yawa suna ɗauka da muhimmanci cewa wasu sun san yadda suke ji game da kansu, abokai, 'yan'uwa, har ma da yara. Ba koyaushe bane yake nuna soyayya da kalmomi, amma don ɗayan yana da muhimmanci a saurare shi lokaci-lokaci. Don bikin Ranar iban’uwa ta Duniya, babu wani abin da ya fi kyau fiye da ɗaukar minutesan mintoci don kiran ’yan’uwa ko abokai da suka zama’ yan’uwa, kuma gaya musu yadda kuke ƙaunarsu. Kuna iya jin daɗin sakin saƙo, amma a wannan yanayin ba batun jin daɗi ba ne, amma game da yin ƙoƙari na gaske don saka wa ɗayan.
Koda kuwa kana da damar kai musu ziyara, ji daɗin kamfanin su tare da kyakkyawan kofi, kayan zaki na gida da tattaunawar rana tuna lokacin rayuwa. Musamman a wannan mawuyacin lokaci na annoba, yana da mahimmanci ku kasance tare da mutanen da kuke so. Tabbas, tuna da kiyaye tsaurara matakai, runguma tare da idanunku, amfani da gaskiyar cewa bai kamata ku sumbaci wasu mutane don aminci ba don bayyana da kalmomin duk abin da kuka ji.