Halin kowane mutum ya bambanta sosai, kowane ɗayan yana yin abubuwa daban-daban yayin fuskantar irin wannan yanayi. Hankali shine ikon rayayyun halittu don fahimtar canje-canje da abubuwan motsa rai ta cikin azanci. Amma ba duk mutane ke jin daɗin matakin na hankali ba. Wasu mutane suna amsawa ta hanyar da ba ta dace ba don motsa jiki.
Madadin haka, akwai wata sananniyar halayyar halayyar da ke bayyana mutanen da ke fahimtar irin waɗannan matsalolin a matakin mafi girma. Wannan halin shine kiran Babban Mutum mai hankali kuma yana shafar kashi 20% na mutanen duniya.
Menene Halin Mutum na Babban Sensitivity (PAS)?
Mutanen da ke da halayen Babban ƙwarewa, suna da jerin abubuwan da ke cikin kwakwalwarka. Irin wannan halayen yana ɗauka cewa mutumin da yake da su yana karɓar abubuwan haɓaka da fahimta ta hanyar da ta haɓaka.
Wannan halayyar an tabbatar da ita a kimiyyance kuma tana da takamaiman halaye wadanda zasu taimaka wajan gano mutum mai tsananin fahimta (PAS). Wadannan halaye sune:
- Intensearfin ƙarfin fahimtar abubuwa samu daga muhalli. Zasu iya ɗaukar bayanai dalla-dalla game da bayanan da mutane da ke da ƙwarewar fahimta ba koyaushe suke ɗauka ba.
- Tsarin tunani da yanayi a cikin mawuyacin hali da zurfin fahimta.
- Yanayin son warewa samarwa ta hanyar motsa jiki, irin wannan tsinkayen na iya haifar da gajiya ta jiki da ta jiki.
- Una babban iko don jin tausayi. Mutane ne masu tallafawa kuma tare da son koyaushe sanya kansu a madadin ɗayan.
Ta yaya Babban Soshin hankali ke Shafar Iyaye mata
Uwa uba abin birgewa ne na abin mamaki da motsin rai. Canjin yanayi yana da mahimmiyar rawa, amma babban aikin an ɗauke shi ne ta hanyar iyaye. Kulawar jariri da ƙaunatacciyar soyayya wanda wani lokaci yakan zama mai lalata shi. Halin mahaifiya yana shafar ci gaba da girma na yara. A hanyoyi da yawa gaskiya, amma kuma mara kyau.
Halaye na iyaye mata masu hankali shine:
- magajin tasiri a cikin rashi lokaci na sirri. Jariri yakan zauna koyaushe da kowane sarari, musamman ma ga uwa, aƙalla a cikin watannin farko. Mahaifiyar da ke da matukar damuwa suna zargin asarar sararinta, yanayinta.
- Kwanciyar hankali na ma'auratan stag. Gabaɗaya, iyaye maza da mata suna da sabani game da renon yara. Iyaye mata masu matukar damuwa na iya zama wadatattu kuma saboda haka suna keɓe kansu, babban ikonsu na tunani na iya haifar da uwa ta ƙaura daga ma'auratan.
- Rashin iya jurewazuwa matsin lamba na zamantakewa. Yanayin yana cike da mutane waɗanda, da kyakkyawar niyya ko mara kyau, koyaushe suke yin sharhi kan yadda ya kamata uwa ta kasance. Wannan matsin lambar zamantakewar don zama mafi kyawun uwa na iya zama da yawa ga uwa mai matukar damuwa.
Kyakkyawan halaye na iyaye mata masu ƙwarewa
Aya daga cikin fa'idodi mafi girma na rayuwar mahaifiya tare da halayen ƙwarewa mai girma shine tausayi. Wannan halayyar zata taimaka muku sosai wajen fahimtar yaranku a cikin wasu matakan balaga da zai rayu tsawon rayuwarsa. Babban ƙwarewa yana ba mutane ikon fahimtar fasaha da kiɗa tare da motsin rai na musamman. Halaye masu mahimmanci don haɓaka, haɓaka, fasaha da haɓaka tunanin yara.
Uwa tana cike da motsin rai da jin dadi, mai kyau da mara kyau. Halayyar ku da yadda kuke aiwatarwa akan yanayin rayuwa ana watsa su ga yara. Amma babban ƙwarewa bazai buƙatar tasiri ba don ci gaban yaranku ta wata hanya.
Koyaya, kamar yadda muka fada a farkon, kashi 20% na yawan mutanen duniya ne kawai suka sami (PAS). Wannan yana nufin cewa mutane 2 cikin 10 ne kawai ke da wannan halin. Idan kuna tunanin cewa saboda halayenku zaku iya dacewa da wannan nau'in halayen, lallai ne ku aiwatar da jerin gwaje-gwaje don taimaka maka ƙayyade.