Tabbas a lokacin balaga mun sha kunya lokacin da wanda muke so ya zauna kusa da mu. Ko mun ji daɗi saboda ba mu iya gyara batun da muke jira ba. Duk waɗannan halayen da suka gabata suna da alaƙa da motsin rai na biyu. Shin kun san menene motsin rai na biyu kuma menene mahimmancin su?
Yau ana ƙara ba da lafiyar ƙwaƙwalwa muhimmanci da kulawar da take buƙata. Don wannan dole ne mu fara aiki don sanin menene da yadda muke ji. Idan kanaso muyi maka karin bayani, ka cigaba da karantawa.
Menene ainihin motsin rai ko asali?
'' Robert Plutchik, masanin psychologist Ba'amurke, postulated cewa asali motsin zuciyarmu su ne farin ciki, amincewa, tsoro, mamaki, bakin ciki, juya baya, fushi da kuma tsammani. Waɗannan motsin zuciyar sune abubuwan da muke da su ta ɗabi'a, ma'ana, a innati. Su ne motsin zuciyar da jariri zai fara yi yayin da yake girma.
Plutchik ya bayyana kowane irin waɗannan motsin zuciyar kamar haka:
- Murna: Yanayin gamsuwa da walwala tare da kai da yanayin da suke rayuwa.
- Amincewa: Matsayi mai ma'ana wanda muke da tabbacin cewa babu cutarwa ko nuna bambanci da zai same mu, a cikin halin da aka ba mu, ko kuma bayan mun ɗauki mataki.
- Tsoro: Rashin tabbas mara dadi, wanda ke da alaƙa da tsammanin inda za mu wahala ko cutarwa.
- Mamaki: Yin martani ga wani aiki da ke faruwa a cikin yanayin da ke kewaye da mu. Yana da mahimmancin motsa jiki.
- Baƙin ciki: Yanayin yanayi yana raguwa wanda yawanci yana buƙatar tallafi na zamantakewa.
- Juyawa: Kin amincewa ko kaucewa a gaban wani abu ko wani.
- Je zuwa: Amsawa ga wani laifi
- Jira: Fatan da dan adam zai kirkira daga gogewa da bayanan da ya gabata daga abubuwan da suka gabata.
A kan waɗannan motsin zuciyar akwai abubuwan haɗuwa da yawa waɗanda ke haifar da na biyu motsin zuciyarmu
Menene motsin zuciyarmu na biyu?
Motsa jiki na sakandare sune waɗanda ke haɓaka daga asali. Kasancewa mai rikitarwa, mutum yana buƙatar samun digiri na haɓaka ci gaban don samun damar yin bayani dalla-dalla. Waɗannan suna fara haɓaka kusan shekaru 2-3.
Su motsin zuciyarmu ne waɗanda ke tashi a cikin yanayin dangantakar mutane, ma'ana, su ne waɗanda ke haɓaka daga ƙwarewa. Sakamakon haka, ana tsara su ta hanyoyin koyo da zamantakewa.
Menene motsin zuciyarmu na biyu?
Saukakken Wheel na Makarantar Sakandare ta Robert Plutchik
Robert Plutchik ya wakilci yadda haɗuwar motsin zuciyarmu ke haifar da motsin rai na biyu. Don yin wannan, ya gabatar da kyakkyawan bayanin abin da ya kira dabaran motsin rai.
Motsa jiki na biyu bisa ga haɗuwa sune:
- Amor (Farin ciki + amincewa)
- Ƙari (Ji daɗi + Murna)
- Miƙa wuya (Dogara + Tsoro)
- Ƙararrawa (Tsoro + Abin mamaki)
- Damuwa (Abin mamaki + Bakin ciki)
- Nadama (Bakin ciki + juyawa)
- Raini (Nesa + Fushi)
- Tsanani (Fushi + Tsammani)
- culpa (Murna + Tsoron)
- Girman kai (Murna + Fushi)
- Son sani (Amincewa + Abin mamaki)
- Fatalism (Amincewa + Tsammani)
- Fidda rai (Tsoro + Bakin ciki)
- Kafirci (Abun mamaki + Gyarawa)
- Kishi (Bakin ciki + Fushi)
- Zagin kai (Bijirewa + Tsammani)
- Ni'ima (Farin Ciki + Mamaki)
- Rashin Lafiya (Farin Ciki + Juyawa)
- Jin zuciya (Dogara + Bakin ciki)
- Mamayar (Amincewa + Fushi)
- Kunya (Tsoro + gyama)
- Damuwa (Tsammani + Tsammani)
- Fushi (Abin mamaki + Fushi)
- Damuwa (Bakin ciki + Tsammani)
Sabili da haka, motsin zuciyarmu na biyu waɗanda suka fi ƙarfin haɓaka cikin halayen kowane mutum zai dogara ne akan girman kai, na sanin kai, da na ainihin mutum. Bugu da kari, waɗannan yankuna za su sami tasirin gaske daga dabi'u na zamantakewa abin da aka koya masa, na iyali da na zamantakewa. Wani babban nauyi a kan motsin zuciyarmu shine yanayi da aka samu a halin yanzu.
Shi ya sa, Yana da mahimmanci tun daga ƙuruciya muke koyawa yara su daraja kansu, su san juna, don cusa musu halaye na zamantakewa da muhalli dangane da girmamawa ba akan mahaukaciyar gasa ba.
Takaitawa da fim daga Disney & Pixar mai taken «Koma baya« yana wakiltar da kyau yadda motsin rai ke aiki. Sabili da haka, muna ba da shawarar ga dukkan dangi su gani. Kuma muna fatan kunji dadin wannan post din.