Koyar da yaro ya saurari wasu yana da muhimmanci a gare su su koyi magana. Wani abu da ke da alama yana da mahimmanci galibi ana yin watsi da shi. Ana koya wa yara magana, karanta, koyi ƙamus da kowane irin kayan aiki da wanda za a yi magana. Amma wani abu mai mahimmanci kamar sauraron wasu ba koyaushe ake koyarwa ba, kuma bayan lokaci, komai ya zama babbar matsala.
Kamar komai, dole ne a fara wannan koyo tun lokacin ƙuruciya. Yara kanana soso ne, ba magana ce kawai ba, tabbataccen gaskiya ne. Ƙwaƙwalwar yara tana ƙarewa kusan shekaru 6 ko 7. kuma har sai lokacin yana da matuƙar malleable. Tun daga wannan shekarun yana da wahala a haɗa ra'ayi, dole ne kwakwalwa ta ƙara yin aiki tuƙuru donta. Don haka yana da mahimmanci a yi amfani da mafi kyawun ƙarfin kwakwalwar yara ƙanana
Koyawa yaro ya saurare
Akwai babbar wahala a cikin koyon sauraro, kuma shine cewa don wannan dole ne ku sami sha'awa da lokaci. Ga yara koyaushe akwai abin da ya fi jin daɗi fiye da sauraron wasu, sai dai idan wani abu ne da ya ɗauki sha'awar su da gaske. Matsalar ita ce sauraro fasaha ce ta asali Don haɓaka ikon sadarwa, da kuma sauraron, ba koyaushe ake samun mahimmin mahimmancin abin sha'awa ba.
Abin da ya sa yana da matukar muhimmanci a koya wa yaro sauraron wasu tun yana ƙarami, tare da ayyuka da wasanni waɗanda ke ba shi damar haɓaka wannan ƙwarewa daga wasan. Tare da dabarun da za su taimake ku ya dauki hankalin yaron kuma da kadan kadan zai horar da kwakwalwarsa da lamirinsa don sanin yadda ake sauraron wasu. Waɗannan wasu maɓallai ne don koya wa yaro sauraron wasu.
Ikon kalmomi
Kalmomi suna da ikon jawo hankalin mutum ko yaro a cikin wannan yanayin, kamar yadda zabar kalmar da ba daidai ba zai iya sa ka rasa sha'awa nan da nan. Ga yara ƙanana, yana da kyau a yi amfani da gajerun jimloli, tare da kalmomin da yaron ya sani kuma zai iya haɗuwa da sauri. Yi amfani da sharuɗɗan da ke haifar da sha'awa, launi da aka fi so, abincin da kuka fi so, shirin da kuke son yi, wasu misalai ne.
Ba tare da tsangwama ba
A matsayinmu na manya, yana damun mu sosai idan aka katse mu lokacin da muke magana, wani abu na yau da kullun saboda rashin girmamawa ne. Yanzu ka tambayi kanka wani abu kuma ka amsa wa kanka gaba daya, shin kuna yawan katse yaranku idan suna magana? Lallai ka amsa da eh, domin Abu ne da iyaye suke yi ba tare da sun sani ba.. Amma shi ne na farko, rashin girmamawa ga yaro da kuma na biyu, a total sabani idan muna so mu tabbatar da cewa ba ya katse wasu lokacin da suke magana.
Babu karkacewa
Don ɗaukar hankalin yaron yana da mahimmanci a kawar da duk wani abu da zai iya haifar da damuwa. Ko tattaunawa ce mai mahimmanci ko karanta littafi kawai, yana da mahimmanci cewa yaron ya kasance cikakke sosai. In ba haka ba, zai rasa zaren kuma yana da wuyar saurara yayin da kuke magana. Ki dora kanki a tsayinsa, ki dube shi cikin ido, ki nuna sha'awar kowane kalamansa, kamar yadda kike tsammanin yaron zai yi da naki.
Wasanni don koyan sauraro
Ɗaya daga cikin waɗancan wasannin na tsawon rai waɗanda ba za a iya ɓacewa a wurin bukukuwa da taro tare da abokai ba shine wayar da ta fashe. Cikakken aiki don yin aiki akan sauraro mai ƙarfi tare da yara. Wasan yayi kokarin sauraron tambayar da daya daga cikin yan wasan zai fada. Sannan dole ne ka amsa wani dan wasa, amma ba tare da cewa menene tambayar ba. Manufar wasan shine ƙirƙirar jumla marar ma'ana gaba ɗayaban dariya da hauka. Kyakkyawan aiki don ciyar da rana na wasanni tare da yara don haka koya musu sauraron wasu.