Kuʻu pēpē iaʻu. No ke aha ia e hana ai a he aha kaʻu e hana ai?

kuʻu pēpē iaʻu

Kuʻi, hānai, a nahuʻu paha nā pēpē i ko lākou mau mākua i kekahi manawa. ʻAʻole hōʻeha kāna kumu akā e hōʻike i kou huhū ma kekahi ʻano. He ʻōpio loa lākou a ʻaʻole hiki ke hōʻike i nā huaʻōlelo i ka mea e hana nei iā lākou.

Pinepine He mea kaumaha loa kēia kūlana no nā mākua i maopopo ʻole ke kumu e paʻi ai kā lākou keiki inā ʻaʻole lākou i kuʻi iā ia.

No ke aha e paʻi ai nā pēpē?

Ke ulu aʻe nā pēpē, ʻoi aku ko lākou ʻike i nā mea āpau a puni lākou, akā naʻe ʻaʻole aʻo e mālama i ko lākou naʻau. ʻO ka huhū, ka huhū, a me ka hauʻoli hiki ke hoʻopau iā lākou, a ʻo ka smack kahi koho maʻamau. ʻO ka paʻi ʻana, ka nahu ʻana a i ʻole ke ʻoki ʻana he ʻano ia o kā lākou ulu ʻana a me ke kaʻina aʻo maʻamau.

Pehea ka lōʻihi o ka manaʻo?

Nā pēpē ma lalo o 12 mahina ʻAʻole lākou e hāʻawi i kekahi mea koʻikoʻi i ka puhi ʻana a me ka nahu ʻana. Ma luna o nā mea a pau, ke ʻike ʻole mākou i kahi e hiki mai ai kēia ʻano hana ʻino inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i nānā. ʻO nā pēpē maoli i kēia makahiki inā hana lākou no ka mea ʻo ia kekahi o kāna mau neʻe ʻino, kahi ʻaʻohe manaʻo koʻikoʻi. ʻOiai ʻaʻole lākou i hiki ke kamaʻilio linguistic, ʻo kā lākou ala maikaʻi loa e hōʻike ai iā lākou iho ma ka hōʻike ʻana iā lākou iho a me ke kamaʻilio ʻana ma o nā manaʻo ʻē aʻe, e like me ka ʻono, hoʻopā, neʻe, uē...

ʻO nā pēpē ma kahi o 12 mahina ʻo ia ka manawa e hiki ai iā lākou ke hana pēlā. Inā lākou e hahau iā mākou me ka manaʻo, ʻoiaʻiʻo nō e nānā i kā mākou hana. No ka mea, ma muli o kā mākou pane, he mea nui ia pehea e hoʻomau ai lākou e hānai i kēia ʻano.

kuʻu pēpē iaʻu

Mai 12 mahina, ʻO kekahi mau pēpē i paʻi e hana me ka manaʻo, akā me ka manaʻo ʻole e hoʻokau. Ua like like e ʻimi ana lākou i kahi ala ala, akā hāʻawi ʻia i kēia ʻoiaʻiʻo, pono e hoʻokō ʻia kekahi ʻano hoʻoponopono. ʻAʻole pono e lawe ʻia ka mea nui, ʻoiai ʻaʻole lākou i ʻike, akā pono e noʻonoʻo ʻia, no ka mea hoʻomaka lākou e paʻi ikaika a nahu ikaika.

He mea nui ke aʻo ʻana i nā keiki ke ʻoi aku ka nui o lākou ʻaʻole pono e hoʻopili ʻia. No ka mea he pēpē lākou hiki iā lākou ke aʻo ma ka hoʻohālike a hoʻomaka kā lākou ʻano ma muli o ke ʻano o kā mākou mau mākua e pane ai i nā kūlana koʻikoʻi. Inā mai ko lākou wā ʻuʻuku loa e hōʻike aku mākou iā lākou he pono ʻoe e paʻi a uē, he ʻano hana ia e hoʻohālike ai i ka wā e nui ai.

He aha kaʻu e hana ai ke paʻi ka pēpē iaʻu?

ʻOiai ʻo kēia ʻano i loko o ko lākou ulu ʻana, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e nānā ʻole iā lākou. Pono ʻoe e hana a hoʻāʻo e hoʻoponopono iā lākou. No laila, ma waho aʻe o ka hoʻoponopono ʻana i ka hana ponoʻī, e aʻo pū ana ʻoe i kāu pēpē e hoʻokele i kona mau manaʻo. Eia nō naʻe, lohi a mālie ka loaʻa ʻana o nā mākau e hoʻomalu i nā manaʻo, no laila ʻaʻohe koho akā e hoʻomanawanui.

ʻAʻohe hewa i ka hoʻoponopono ʻana i kā lākou ʻano a kau i nā lula a me nā palena. Eia kekahi, ʻoiai ʻaʻole like me ia, pono maoli lākou no ka mea kōkua ia iā lākou e loaʻa ʻoi aku ka palekana a me ka hoʻoponopono. E kau ʻia kāna palena ma ka hana ʻole ʻana i nā ʻano antisocial i ka wā lōʻihi, no ka mea, loaʻa iā ia nā pilikia pilikino i ka wā e hiki mai ana.

kuʻu pēpē iaʻu

Nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e hoʻoponopono i nā hana i makemake ʻole ʻia i loko o nā pēpē

  • E noho mālie ʻo ia ka mua a me ka poʻokela. I kekahi manawa paʻakikī kēia e hiki ai iā lākou ke hōʻeha iā ʻoe. Hiki i ka hopena ikaika ma kāu ʻaoʻao ke hoʻokūpaʻa i kēia ʻano o nā lawena mai kāu pēpē.
  • E hoʻāʻo e hoʻokomo iā ʻoe iho i ko lākou wahi. ʻAʻole maʻalahi ka lawa ʻole o ka ʻōlelo a i ʻole nā ​​mākau e hōʻike i nā mea e hana nei iā ʻoe.
  • E kau i nā huaʻōlelo i kou naʻau. Hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻōlelo i kekahi mea e like me "maopopo iaʻu huhū loa ʻoe"
  • E nānā no nā koho ʻē aʻe i hiki. E hoʻonoho i kāu pēpē i kahi hiki ʻole iā ia ke hōʻeha iā ʻoe i kēlā manawa ʻoiai ʻoe e haʻi iā ia me ka leo koʻikoʻi akā me ka mālie e like me ka hiki: ʻAʻole oʻu makemake e paʻi ʻoe iaʻu, ʻeha ʻoe iaʻu. A laila e ho'āʻo e hoʻohuli i kou manaʻo i kekahi mea ʻē aʻe
  • Hōʻole i ka hana, ʻaʻole ka pēpē. Pono ʻoe e hōʻalo i ka ʻōlelo ʻana i nā huaʻōlelo e like me "hewa ʻoe", "ʻaʻole au aloha hou iā ʻoe", etc.
  • E poina e pili ana i nā pane kolohe. Manaʻo paha ʻoe ma ka hoʻihoʻi ʻana i kou papalina e aʻo ʻoe ua ʻeha a ʻaʻole pēlā e hana hou ai ʻoe. Heʻoiaʻiʻo ʻole kēia. ʻEllinglelo hē ʻana a i ʻole ka pā ʻana i ka pēpē (ʻoiai inā palupalu ia) mea hana ʻole. Pono e hoʻoponopono mau i nā hakakā me nā huaʻōlelo. Inā kuʻi ʻia kahi keiki no ka mea ua pā ʻo ia, ʻaʻole ia e hoʻomaopopo.
  • He mea nui ia i ka wā e hoʻokūkū ʻia ai ʻoe ua hooki ʻia ka hōʻike ʻana i ka ʻAʻole, paʻa a hoʻoholo. Pono ʻoe e koʻikoʻi, akā ʻaʻole huhū. He mea nui ka ʻike ʻana i ko mākou mau helehelena, no ka mea, ʻike lākou mai ka wā ʻōpiopio i ke ʻano o kā mākou mau hana. Ina e akaaka kakou, akaaka lakou; inā mākou e koʻikoʻi, pēlā nō lākou.
  • Ina ua pa a i ole ia, ʻaʻole e hoʻihoʻi i ka hopena like, no ka mea hiki iā ʻoe ke lawe iā ia ma ke ʻano he pāʻani a hoʻohana pinepine i ka ʻenehana like no ka leʻaleʻa.
  • mai akaaka, ʻaʻole hoʻi e hoʻomaikaʻi i kēia ʻano hana.
  • Mai paʻi i kou mau lima a i ʻole ma ka waha, ʻoiai he mea pāʻani liʻiliʻi paha ia, hiki iā ia ke hōʻeha iā ia.
  • ʻAʻole pono e kapa ʻia ke keiki "ʻino" i ke alo o kekahi a oi loa aku na keiki. Hiki i kāna ʻōlelo hou ʻana ke manaʻoʻiʻo i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe ʻo ia ka mea e kapa ʻia ai a kau ʻia kēlā lepili ma luna.

He mea nui e hoʻohana nā mākua a me nā ʻohana ʻē aʻe a i ʻole nā ​​​​mea mālama i nā ʻano hana like i ʻole e paʻi a nahu ke keiki a pēpē paha. Inā ʻakaʻaka lākou ma ka ʻaoʻao o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i kā lākou ʻano hana, hiki iā ia ke huikau iā lākou. No ka mea, ʻoiai e ʻāhewa ana kekahi iā ia, hiki i kekahi ke ʻakaʻaka i kona ʻano a hiki ke hoʻohilahila iā ia.

kuʻu pēpē iaʻu

He aha ka hana inā hahau ke keiki i nā keiki ʻē aʻe?

ʻO nā keiki maʻamau ke hahau lākou i nā keiki ʻē aʻe Hoʻokomo pinepine ʻia kēia ʻano ma ke ʻano he manawa kikoʻī He ʻāpana ia o kou manaʻo. Eia nō naʻe, inā lilo kēia ʻano hana i mea maʻamau a hoʻopaʻa paha i nā mea āpau, ʻo ia ka manawa āu e aʻo ai iā ia e hoʻokele i kona mau manaʻo.

E like me ka logic, pono mākou e hōʻike ua hewa kā lākou hana, he hewa a he pololei ole ka hana ana. Inā mākou e pane ikaika a me ke aloha liʻiliʻi, ʻaʻole pono kēia mau ʻōlelo, pono mākou e hoʻāʻo mau e hana loaʻa ke kamaʻilio maʻamau.

He mea nui e ʻike ʻoe i kēlā pono ʻoe e kala mai, aka e pili ana ia i ka makahiki. ʻAʻohe pono e hele i nā haʻiʻōlelo no ka mea ʻaʻole lākou e hoʻolohe i kēlā, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hele ʻana i ka leka i ka manawa kūpono a kikoʻī. A ʻoiaʻiʻo, ma ke ʻano he hoʻopaʻi, ʻaʻole e paʻi iā lākou.


Hoʻopili ka ʻike o ka ʻatikala i kā mākou kumumanaʻo o ka hoʻoponopono hoʻoponopono. E hōʻike i kahi kaomi hemahema ʻaneʻi.

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