Pehea e mālama ai i ka pilikia ʻo Oedipus

Pehea e mālama ai i ka pilikia ʻo Oedipus

Ke kamaʻilio nei mākou Pākuʻi ʻo Oedipus ke keiki ma waena o 3 a me 7 makahiki manaʻo ʻo ia i ke aloha maoli no kona makuahine a he paio pu me ka makuakane. 'Ōlelo ke keikikāne e makemakeʻo ia e mare i kona makuahine aʻo ia wale nō kona makuahine, e hōʻike ana i ka waiwai. He mea maʻamau ka hele ʻana o ka poʻe liʻiliʻi i kēia pae a ʻo ka mea maʻamau ka hoʻokuʻu ʻana me ka ʻole o ka hopena hou aku, akā pono e hana ʻia nā ʻano hana i lanakila maoli ai.

Pono ʻoe e e noʻonoʻo i kēia pae ma ke ʻano he mea maʻamau no laila ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hopohopo nui, he mea nui ʻaʻole ʻoe e hoʻohenehene iā ia a me kēlā mai komo i kāna pāʻani nona ʻoe. Pono ʻoe e kau i nā palena maopopo loa ma mua o kā lākou ʻano ponoʻī, akā mai ke aloha a me ke aloha. Pono ʻoe e loaʻa nā manawa pili me kāu hoa a pono kāu keiki e mahalo a hoʻomaopopo iā ia he mea maʻamau.

Pehea e ʻike ai i ka complex Oedipus

ʻOiaʻiʻo ua ʻike mākou a pau i ke ʻano maʻamau "mamitis" ʻike pinepine ʻia e nā keikikāne a me nā kaikamahine. He hihia ia e makemake mau ai kekahi o nā kāne ʻelua e launa pū me ka makuahine a i ʻole ka makua kāne. ʻO ka maʻamau, ʻo ka "Oedipus complex" kahi manawa ʻoi aku ka nui, kahi i kēia hihia ke keiki kāne hoʻokumu i kekahi mau manaʻo pono mākou e hoʻāʻo e pale aku.

I nā hihia hea mākou e hopohopo ai?

La "mastitis" a i ʻole "papitis" aia nō, akā, ma ka nui o kēia mau ʻano, ua unuhi ʻia ma ke ʻano hanohano. Hele loa ka hopohopo ke hoʻonui ʻia ka mahalo, He aloha nui kona i ka makuahine a hoʻokūkū me nā kāne pili ʻē aʻe, ʻO ka mea maʻamau me ka makuakāne. ʻAʻole lākou he ʻikepili maikaʻi, no ka mea hiki ke ala mai ka manao inaina a me ka inaina a manaʻo ʻo ia i kona makua kāne he hoa hakakā.

Pehea e mālama ai i ka pilikia ʻo Oedipus

Pēlā nō e hiki ai ke nānā aku ke kaikamahine i kona makuahine i ka leo like i wehewehe ʻia. I ka hihia o nā kaikamahine, kapa ʻia ia “Electra complex”. I ka manawa hea mākou e hopohopo ai?

  • Ke haʻalele ka makua kāne a me ka makuahine a uē ʻino nā keiki.
  • Ke hanaʻia hoike i na hana lili inā ʻike lākou i ka launa pū ʻana o nā mākua me nā hōʻailona o ke aloha.
  • A i ʻole i ka wā e ʻōlelo ai kekahi o nā kāne ʻelua, i kēia hihia, nā keiki, i ka wā e ulu ai lākou e mare i ko lākou makuahine, no ka mea "naʻu ka makuahine".

ʻOiai ʻo ka Oedipus complex Hiki ke loaʻa mai 3 a 7 mau makahiki. Aia ma kahi o 5 mau makahiki ke ho'ōki ka makua kāne i ka hoʻoweliweli a hoʻomaka liʻiliʻi e lilo i kumu hoʻohālike e ʻike me ka mea a ka makuakāne e hōʻike ai.

Akā inā ʻoe e ʻike ua hoʻomaka kāu keiki e loaʻa a hana aloha loa i ka makuahine a me ka hōʻole ʻana i ka makua kāne, pono ʻoe e hana maʻalahi. Mai poina he hana maʻamau ia o ka hoʻomohala ʻana a inā e hana ʻia ʻaʻohe hopena nui.

I ka manawa hea e hoʻomaka ai a pehea ka lōʻihi?

Hiki i ke keikikāne a kaikamahine paha ke hoʻomaka e hōʻike i kēia paʻakikī. ma waena o 3 a 5 mau makahiki ma kahi o. Ke hiki aku na keiki i na makahiki ma waena o 6 a 7 makahiki hoʻomaka i ka hoʻoholo maʻamau. Mai keia wahi aku ua makaukau lakou e haalele i ka wahi i nohoia e na makua. ʻOiai inā hiki i nā keiki i ka wā ʻōpio, hoʻomaka kā lākou mau hormones a me nā manaʻo wahine e makemake e kuhikuhi iā lākou i ko lākou kaiapuni.

Pehea e mālama ai i ka pilikia ʻo Oedipus

Pehea e hana ai ke ʻike ʻia ka complex Oedipus?

I kekahi manawa, hiki i ke keiki ke huhū mau a ho'ōho i ka makuakāne, makemakeʻo ia e hoʻomalu i ka makuahine a lili loa, he mau moeʻuhane kāna, a pēlā aku. Ma keia mau hihia e pono ai e mālama mālie i ka ʻOedipus complex a penei:

  • ʻO ke ahonui ka mea e noho aliʻi ai i kēia mau kūlana, E kōkua iā mākou e lanakila i nā mea āpau ma kahi ala maikaʻi aʻe, akā e kaupalena ana i kekahi mau ʻano.
  • Ke hana ke keiki penei ʻaʻole pono e hoʻohenehene. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e hāʻawi koʻikoʻi i kāna hana, ʻoiai he leʻaleʻa a he ʻakaʻaka paha, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e ʻakaʻaka i kāna hana.
  • Mai hoʻonāukiuki i nā kūlana e hiki ai i ke keiki ke hoʻonui i kona lili, akā pono e aʻo ʻia lākou e mahalo i ka wahi pili o nā mākua, e like me ka lumi moe.
  • Ke kamaʻilio ke keiki no ka "mare ʻana i kona makuahine" pono ʻoe wehewehe ʻaʻole mare nā keiki i ko lākou makuahine, a eia kekahi, ua mare mua kona makuahine me kona makuakāne. Pono e hāʻawi ʻia kēlā me kēia kamaʻilio ma ke ʻano hoʻomaha, me ke aloha piha, pono ʻoe e kōkua iā ia a ʻaʻole e hoʻomāʻewaʻewa iā ia.
  • Paipai i ka manawa leʻaleʻa me ka makuakāne ma ke ʻano he kumu leʻaleʻa i mea e hōʻoki ai ʻoe i ka ʻike ʻana iā ia he ʻenemi.
  • ʻAʻole ʻoe e hoʻomāʻewaʻewa, hoʻohewa a hoʻokolokolo paha i ka hana a kāu keiki.
  • Hōʻalo i nā hana hoʻokūkū i ka makuahine, no ka mea, e hoʻonui wale ana kēia i ka pilikia. Inā makemake ʻia nā manawa pili, pono ʻoe e aʻo iā ia e pono e ʻae a mahalo iā ia.
  • Inā loaʻa i ka male kekahi pilikia e noho nei, kahi e hiki ai ke hoʻopau i kahi kaʻawale, he mea nui e hoʻomaopopo i ke keiki ʻaʻole ʻo ia ka hewa. Pili nā pilikia i nā mākua a ʻaʻole hiki ke kuleana ke keiki ma ke ʻano he hoʻokūkū.

Pehea e mālama ai i ka pilikia ʻo Oedipus

Loaʻa ka hopena o ka Oedipus a i ʻole Electra complex. He mea maʻamau ia e hana maʻamau i kēlā mau makahiki a hōʻike ʻia iā ia iho me ka loli o ka ʻano a me ka ʻano i loaʻa ʻole i nā hopena he nui.

I ka nui o kēia mau hihia ʻo Oedipus complex hoʻoholo maʻamau a he manawa maʻamau. Inā ʻaʻole hāʻawi ʻia kekahi o kēia mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo i mea koʻikoʻi a hoʻohana ʻole ʻia, hiki ke kumu i nā hopena i ka wā e hiki mai ana. hoʻomohala ʻana i ke keiki psychosexual. ʻO nā pilina e hiki mai ana e loaʻa paha iā ʻoe ke komo i nā pilikia koʻikoʻi i ka mālama ʻana i kahi pilina olakino.

I kēia mau hihia, aia kekahi mau kaikunāne o ka wahine hoʻokahi e hana like a kū i kekahi mau hakakā ma waena o lākou. Eia naʻe, pili nā hōʻailona i nā keiki ʻelua. E ʻike ʻoe me kēia mau ʻōlelo aʻo a ma hope o ka manawa, e ʻike hou kāu keiki i ke aloha like i nā mākua ʻelua.


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