Mikana yakaenzana pakati pevakadzi ndechimwe chezvirevo zviripo muma manifesto ese eiyo Zuva reMadzimai eMarudzi ose.
Nzanga yanhasi ichiri kuchengeta vazhinji zvinhu zvinotadzisa kukura zvizere kwevakadzi: kusaenzana kwemubhadharo, mhirizhonga pakati pevakadzi nevarume, kushomeka kwebasa-rekuita mumabasa epamba, nezvimwe.
Kuona mikana yakaenzana yevakadzi kunoreva kuenda kune a huwandu hweruzhinji rwevanhu uye kukurudzira a yemagariro modhi yakavakirwa pavanhu uye kwete pabonde ravo.
Dzidzo yekuenzana inotangira kumba
Dzimwe nguva, sevabereki, isu hatizive kuti iwo mabasa atinopa vana vedu uye tsika dzatinovapa kwavari havadzidzise zvakaenzana. Izvi ndizvozvo nekuti ndizvo isu takagadziriswa mukati medu kubva paudiki hwedu. Kuenzanisa bhatani:
- Musikana akanaka sei, iwe uri mambokadzi!
- Mwanasikana, usanyanya kutamba.
- Chenjera, uchava wakasviba.
- Vakomana havacheme.
- Iva murume.
- Nursing? Kana iri basa revasikana.
- Unomhanya semusikana.
Mukomana kana musikana. Kurapa kwakasiyana uye zvinotarisirwa
Aya musiyano kurapwa anotanga panguva yekuzvitakura, kana tangoziva bonde remwana wedu anotevera. Takatanga kufunga nezveyake room nehembe dzake, pink or pastel colours zveshuwa zvevasikana. Bhuruu kana yakajeka toni yevana.
Chii chatinotarisira (kunyangwe nekusaziva) kubva kumusikana?
Tinoshuvira vasikana vanotapira, vakanaka uye vakadzikama, kunge ngano madzimambo. Kuti vanofarira kutamba imba nemakicheni nemadhora avo. Anoda kupfeka zvishongo nezvishongo. Tora hanya nechitarisiko chako uye uite zvekutamba. Uye dzidzira ballet, skating kana artistic jimunasitikisi. Mune vasikana, zvinowanzoita potentiated kunzwisisika, rudo uye kuteerera.
Chii chatinotarisira kubva kumwana?
Dai ndave anoshingairira, akasimba uye akashinga, sevapambi. Nehunyanzvi hwekutamba nhabvu (Ndibaba vapi vasina kumbobvira vafungidzira nezvekuve nenyeredzi yenhabvu kumba?). Kunamata kwemitambo, mota, midhudhudhu uye ekuita mafirimu. Mune varume isu tinopa simba, kunyangwe zvisina kunangana, kukwikwidza, kuzvimiririra uye hukasha.
Maererano nenyanzvi hapana mhando yemakakatanwa ehupenyu anotsanangura aya mutsauko.
Tingaite sei kudzidzisa vana vedu mukuenzana?
Vakomana nevasikana wana hunhu hwavo kuburikidza nekudyidzana nharaunda yavo.
Vana vedu vanofanira kunzwa vakasununguka kuratidza uye kusarudza zvavanofarira uye zvavanofarira. Bonde harifanirwe kunge rakagadzirisa chero zvodii. Mumwe nemumwe wevana vedu, angave mukomana kana musikana, munhu akasarudzika mudiki. Havasi vese vakomana vakaenzana, uye havasi vese vasikana. Zviri pachena! Havasi vese vasikana vanoda kuve machindakadzi, uye havazi vese vakomana vanoda kuita zvembavha.
Chii chatingaite kumba kusimudzira dzidzo mukuenzana?
- Zvakakosha zvakanyanya tungamira nemuenzaniso.
- Tizai mutauro and of the maitiro epabonde muzuva redu kusvika nhasi.
- Tora hanya nerudzi rwematoyi uye nyaya iyo yatinopa kwavari. Kurudzira mhando yematoyi anovandudza fungidziro, hunyanzvi, dzidzo yemanzwiro uye kufunga zvine musoro.
- Tenga mbatya dzakanaka uye dzisina unisex.
- Ita a kugoverwa zvakaenzana yemabasa epamba uye zvisungo.
- Bata vana vedu mu zvinoenderana nezera rako uye idiosyncrasy, kwete zvichibva pahunhu hwako.
Kana iwe uchida kufarira kupinda mune ino musoro, ini ndinokurudzira iro bhuku Kwete madzimambo kana vapambi. Bhuku rekudzidzisa vakomana nevasikana murusununguko »(Eumo Edhisheni, 2016). Munyori waro, Nuria Solsona, ndiye purofesa wefizikiki uye muongorori mune coeducation. Mubhuku rino, anopa zvinonakidza nhungamiro uye marongero edzidzo mukuenzana, panguva dzakasiyana mukukura kwevana, achidzivirira mafungidziro evanhukadzi.