Danilo A. Canales, ndibaba vechiChilean avo kubva pa Facebook nhoroondo yavo vanotsanangura kuti: "Kuva baba vemusikana kwakaita kuti ndive mukadzi"... "uye ipapo ndakaona kuti vakadzi vari parumananzombe, vakagara vakaiswa mukutya" ... "Ini nguva pfupi yadarika ndakaverenga dzimwe nyaya uye ndakabika nehasha uye nekunyara, nekuda kwehunhu hwangu, uye nekuda kwechimiro hunhu hwekurumbidza- Kunetswa kunounza kutya zvakare kuvasikana vakuru, ndakapotsa ndarutsa nehasha ndichifunga kuti zvingamboitika kumusikana wangu mudiki "..." Kunyange hazvo zviine mhirizhonga kuti iwe udanidzirwe nekuti watumira rumbidzo kukushungurudza pasina mvumo, Kumwe kunoshungurudzwa musikana nemazana evasungwa mutirongo, mumwe anofa akarovererwa muArgentina, uye apa baba vokurera vaive neumbozha hwekuveza nekuviga musikana ane makore 9 "...
Ini ndawana zvirevo izvi ndichitsvaga ruzivo rwekunyora ichi chinyorwa nezve # Nhema Chitatu, uye nezve hukadzi; kwanhasi zuva rekuratidzira vachipesana nemhirizhonga pakati pevakadzi rakadaidzwa kuArgentina. Vakadzi vakamira kweawa, meseji yaitenderera paTwitter yaiverenga seizvi: "Kana hupenyu hwangu husina basa, gadzira pasina ini"; vakadzi nevanasikana vasingapfuuri gumi nemanomwe vakapondwa pamaoko evarume mwedzi uno munyika iyoyo kune rimwe divi reAtlantic. Uye kwete nguva refu yapfuura vakadzi vacho vanga vatofora mumigwagwa yeArgentina, asi kuuraya macabre kwaLucia muna Gumiguru 8 kwapedza kushivirira kwedu.
#Niunamenos #nosqueremosvivas # Nhema Chitatu, ndiwo mamwe ma hashtag atakaverenga akanyanya kufanana neiyi musoro. Izvo hazvisi kuitika chete muArgentina nekuti tiri kutaura nezvehuwandu hwepasirese hwe65.000 vakadzi vanourawa nekuuraya vakadzi gore rega. Ini ndinonyorera kumazwi e Amai vaLola Chomnalez, ane makore gumi nemashanu mukomana wekuUruguay uyo akapondwa mukupera kwegore rapfuura, ndiani inodaidzira zvirongwa zveveruzhinji kudzivirira mhirizhonga pakati pevakadzi 'uye inodaidzira nzanga inomira kuve muoni wedambudziko iri.
Lucía Pérez anourawa uye iyo # Nhema Chitatu inodaidzwa
Lucia anga aine makore gumi nematanhatu uye muna Gumiguru 16 akatambudzwa pabonde izvo zvakaoma kwazvo kutsanangura: akaenda kumba kwevamwe vanhu vanosvika vatatu varume vakamudhakisa kana kumumanikidza kutora zvinodhaka, vakamubata chibharo uye 'vakamuroverera' nekumusuma iyo iyo 'yaigona kunge iri tsvimbo' kuburikidza nepanhengo. Hutsinye husina humwari hwakakonzera kunyanyisa kweiyo vagal reflex iyo yakakonzera kusungwa kwemoyo: kurwadziwa kubva pakarovererwa kwakakonzera kufungidzira kwakadai. Muchuchisi munyaya iyi anozivisa kuti akange asati amboona 'dzakadai dzakateedzana zviitiko'.
Vakamurwisa vakamushambidza uye vaida kuti vatende kuti anga afa nekuwedzeredza. Zviise iwe mushangu dzake, mune iya yaamai vake, baba vake, mukoma. KuArgentina, uye pakati pa2008 na2015, kushungurudzwa pabonde kwakawedzera ne78%. Zvisinei, mhirizhonga kuvanhukadzi iri pamusoro penhamba uye manhamba nekuti ndezvekurwadziwa, kuparara kwemhuri, kutambura, kurangwa, kutadza kuwana nzanga inowirirana, kururamisira, ... Kuti hapachina 'Lucías'.
Nhasi, zvese kune obelisk. #Hapana kana kushoma #WednesdayBlack pic.twitter.com/Sh1HBnQ7bK
- RUDZIMU (@LANACION) 19 2016 October
Tiri vanaamai, tiri madzibaba… uye tine vanasikana nevanakomana.
Ndeupi mutoro, handiti? Uye kushaya rubatsiro kwakadii kuziva kuti zvese izvi zviri kuitika munyika imwechete mavanotenderera vakasununguka mukati memakore mashoma.
Tinoda here yakasununguka uye yakaenzana nzanga yevanasikana vedu nevanakomana?
Mukukosha, 'feminism' ndiyo pfungwa yekuti vakadzi vanhu, asi iyi itsananguro yakaipa kwazvo uye hapana kana zano rimwe chete rekurarama kwechikadzi, asi kune chinangwa chimwe chete: kubvisa kusaenzana uye kupedza chisimba chinogadzirwa nehutongi hwevakadzi. Iye zvino tinogona kuvhota nekudzidza, asi ivo vanotiuraya; Isu hatigare takakomberedzwa mukati memadziro mana eimba, asi mamwe mhirizhonga yakavanzika inoitirwa isu.
Rosa de Luxembourg aive wezveMarxist theorist akazvarwa muhafu yepiri yezana ramakore rechiXNUMX, akarwa "Kwenyika uko takaenzana munharaunda, sevanhu vakasiyana uye takasununguka zvachose": kwandiri irondedzero yakakwana yehukadzi, sezvo ichitipa rusununguko rwekusiyana pakati pedu pachedu, uye panguva imwe chete tichienzana… asi pamusoro peZVEMAHARA.
Asi mwanasikana wangu achasununguka sei mumakore mashoma kana iwe uchitya kuenda pasi nemugwagwa wega? Ari kuzonzwa SEI SEZVIMWE nevamwe vese kana akatongerwa kupfeka zvikabudura zvipfupi? Ini ndinofunga zvakanaka zvino, yave nguva yekumisa hutsinye uhwo vamwe vanotoedza kuzviruramisa: "Varume vese havana kuenzana", "varume vanotamburawo nemhirizhonga", "musikana haafanire kuenda ega", "dzidzisa vanasikana vako kuti vasatsamwise".
Kwandinopindura:
- Ichokwadi kuti havana kufanana, kune varume vazhinji vanotitsigira munzira uye mukurwa; kunyange isu tichifanirawo kusimbisana.
- Isu tese tinogona kuitirwa mhirizhonga, asi mhirizhonga yechikadzi haina kufanana nechikamu chemhirizhonga chakaitika kumurume. Ivo havana rusaruro, havatambure gakava remubhadharo, havashungurudzwe pazere vanhu, nezvimwe.
- Musikana anogona kuenda ega, semukomana anogona kuenda ega… Kuenda wega kana kunwa kana kutora chero chinhu hachisi zvikonzero zvekuratidza kubatwa chibharo
- Pfungwa yekuti vasikana 'vanotsamwisa' inonyadzisa uye inobuda mupfungwa dzinorwara, usazvitende. Vakadzi vane kodzero izere yekurarama pabonde pasina izvi kuturikirwa sekusvotwa.
Uye isu tinotaurira chii vakomana nevasikana?
Zvatinovaudza uye zvatinoita, nekuti isu tiri magirazi avo: mukomana mudiki anoona baba vake vachipopotera amai vanogona kubereka maitiro emunhu mukuru; musikana mudiki anoona hanzvadzi yake mukuru achizviisa pasi apo mukomana achiedza kumudzora kuburikidza newhatsapp, ari kudzidzawo maitiro ane ngozi kwaari.
Vana vana, hama, shamwari, vazukuru, makunakuna ... evakadzi, uye amai nababa vanogona kuita kuti mwana wega wega apfeke magirazi epepuru kuti anzwisise nyika. Tinofanira kutaurirana zvakanyanya semhuri uye kufumura hunhu hwedu, kubvisa rusaruro, uye pakupedzisira toisa patafura kudiwa kwenzanga yakaenzana. Mukomana anofanira kuziva kuti haakwanise kubata musikana pasina mvumo, hatichakwanise kudzidzisa vasikana kumhanyira kumba, vakafukidzwa zvakakwana uye vachitarisa kumashure pese pavanobuda kuenda kumafaro.
Duramazwi reRAE rinotsanangura nzanga se "seti yevanhu, vanhu kana nyika dzinogara pamwe chete pasi pemitemo yakafanana" kana "boka revanhu kana rakabvumiranwa revanhu, rakarongeka kuti vabatane mukuzadzikiswa kwezvimwe zvinangwa." Semaonero angu, kana tisingakwanise kupedza mhirizhonga pakati pevakadzi (kubva pabonde nemurume kusvika kumukadzi) tinofanira kurega kuzvidaidza kuti 'nzanga'. Uye nenzira, ndinopedzisa posvo neinobatsira infographic kuti tiise.
Mifananidzo - Romina Lerda (Kavha), twitter (# Nhema Chitatu)
Vhidhiyo - La Nación