Kuranga mwana kunoshanda kana zvikaitwa nemazvo, sekureva kweAmerican Psychological Association

Kuranga mwana kunoshanda kana zvikaitwa nemazvo, sekureva kweAmerican Psychological Association

Mumakore apfuura, mabhuku mazhinji akabuda pachena ayo anoparidza kushanda kwe zvakanaka kuvabereki uye "hapana mutambo". Izvi zvinogadzira kuvhiringidzika kwevabereki vazhinji, kunyanya kana nharaunda yavo ichiramba ichishandisa iyo kurangwa nevana vavo kunyangwe ivo vasingade (kutanga nechikoro) kana kana vasingazive zvekuita kuti vawane zvavanoda pasina kutyisidzirwa uye kutsiva. Muchirevo chechinyorwa chino, pagungano regumi nemaviri regumi nematatu regungano reAmerican Psychological Association nyanzvi dzakatsanangura kuti kuranga mwana kunoshanda, chero bedzi kuchiitwa nenzira kwayo. 

Ndine urombo kuti chirevo changu chinotevera hachina kugadzikana nezvematongerwo enyika, asi zvirokwazvo kune vazhinji izvi hazvisi zvitsva. Zvino, ndechipi chirango chinoshanda mukudzidzisa mwana? Sezvauchaona pazasi, nyanzvi dzinofunga izvo zvavanoziva sechirango nguva yekumirira. Ngatione zvinofungwa nenyanzvi. 

Yakanaka chirango vs. yekumirira nguva

Pane imwe yemusangano wekongiresi, muongorori weOklahoma State University Robert Larzelere akatsanangura kuti nzira dzakanaka dzekuranga dzinoshandiswa nevabereki dzinogona kushanda. Zvisinei, sekutsanangura kunoita nyanzvi iyi,  Zvirongwa zvesainzi zvinotsigirwa nesainzi zvirongwa zvekurera vana zvakawana kuti nguva dzekumirira uye mamwe marudzi emaitiro ekuzvishingisa anogona kushanda kana akagoneswa nemazvo.

Mukupa kwake, Larzelere akati timu yake yekutsvagurudza yakabvunzurudza vanamai 102 vakapa tsananguro dzakadzama dzezviitiko zvishanu apo vaifanira kuranga vana vavo pavanorova kana kurova vamwe, kuratidzira, kuvadenha, kuyedza kutaurirana, kana kusateerera.

Tora kukanganisa ndiyo yaive nzira inoshanda kwazvo yekuvandudza maitiro, zvisinei nemhando yemaitiro. Kufunga ndiyo yakatevera mhinduro inoshanda zvikuru apo vanaamai vaiita zvinyoro-nyoro kune hunhu hunogumbura, hwakadai sekutaurirana kana kuratidzira.

ari kuranga, sekupedza nguva kana kutora chimwe chinhu kuenda, zvaive zvinoshanda kupfuura kufunga kana zvasvika pamwana aiita kudenha. Nekudaro, kuranga yaive nzira isinganyanyoita pakubata nekukakavadzana kwevana uye kuchema, uye kufunga kwakange kusingashande kana kuchishandiswa nevanoshora kana 'peggy' vana.

Asi mhedzisiro yenguva refu yakaratidza imwe patani. Vanaamai pavakabvunzurudzwa mwedzi miviri yakazotevera, avo vaipa kukanganisa kakawanda kuvana vanorova kana kurova zvakanyanya kana kuita zvakashata vakati vana vavo vari kuita zvakashata, akadaro Larzelere. Kukurukurirana, zvisinei, kwaive kwakanyanya kushanda munguva yevana ava, kunyangwe yaive mhinduro isinganyatsoita pakarepo. Kushandisa zvine mwero zvenguva-yekubuda uye zvimwe zvirango (isingasvike 16% yenguva) zvakakonzera maitiro akazoitwa nani, asi chete kweavo vana vanozvidza.

Kuranga mwana kunoshanda kana zvikaitwa nemazvo, sekureva kweAmerican Psychological Association Kuranga mwana kunoshanda kana zvikaitwa nemazvo, sekureva kweAmerican Psychological Association

Kushandiswa kwakakodzera kwenguva

Mune imwe mharidzo pahurukuro imwecheteyo, Ennio Cipani, anobva kuNational University, akadaro chikonzero chekuti nguva dzekuvhara dzisingashande kana kutarisirwa zvisizvo imhaka yekuti hadzishandiswe nemazvo. Cipani nevamwe vake vakakwanisa kucherechedza, munguva chaiyo, zvikanganiso zvinogona kuitwa nevabereki pakushandisa nguva yekupedzisira, akadaro Cipani. Semuenzaniso, vabereki havafanire kutora sarudzo dzinofambiswa nekusimudzirwa kwechinguva kushandisa nguva yekubuda. Pane kudaro, vanofanirwa kuudza vana vavo pamberi penguva maitiro ekuti (semuenzaniso kurova, kupopotera vamwe vana) kunozovamisa uye vagare vachienderera mberi.

"Zvatinowana kubva kumakiriniki zviitiko zvakaratidza kuti nguva yekumirira inoshandiswa nguva dzose kune mamwe maitiro uye mamiriro ezvinhu, zvichideredza zvakanyanya matambudziko ehunhu nekufamba kwenguva," Cipani akadaro.

Kuranga mwana kunoshanda kana zvikaitwa nemazvo, sekureva kweAmerican Psychological Association

Kurapa kwehunhu hwevana

Kurapa kwehunhu hwevana kunogona kubatsirawo vabereki nevana vane kukakavara kuri kuenderera.maererano naDavid Reitman weNova Southeastern University naMark Roberts weIdaho State University. Roberts akaburitsa ruzivo nezve nzira yeHanf yekuva mubereki, zvichibva pabasa raConstanza Hanf, iyo inobvumidza danho rekutanga rerango rakanaka (kureva kuti, vana vanopihwa mubairo wehunhu hwakanaka) uye pakupedzisira vanoenda munzira dzevabereki. Chiremera (kureva nguva yekuzorora) .

Sekureva kwaRoberts, Kubvumira mwana mukana wechipiri wekuteerera mirairo yevabereki nekupa yambiro yekusatevedzera zvakaratidza kuti kunobatsira. Sekutaura kwenyanzvi iyi, nekufamba kwenguva vabereki vanodzidza kupa rairo neyambiro zvinobudirira, zvichideredza kudiwa kwenguva yekumirira kana paine kusaita.

Reitman akataura kuti vabereki vevana vanowanzo kukura vangangotarisa maitiro ekurapa sekuranga chete, asi sechinhu chakakosha mukusimudzira kukura kwevana kwakanaka.

Reitman akatsanangura kuti vanhu vari kutsoropodza zviito zvevarapi havanzwisise kuedza kwavo kuendesa kuvabereki kukosha kwekubatana kwakanaka nemwana wavo.. "Varapi vanogona kubatsira vabereki kunzwisisa dambudziko, kufambisa shanduko munharaunda, uye kubatsira vana kuwana hunyanzvi hwavanoda kuti vabudirire." akatsanangura.

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