Kune vabereki, imwe yenzira dzekunzwisisa kuti vana vanokura sei pabonde ndeyekuti yakafanana nechero imwe mhando yevana nevechiri kuyaruka kukura. Unoda kutsigira mwana Asi usafunge kuti zvaunotaura kana kunzwa nezve chimwe chinhu rimwe zuva ndizvo zvauchanzwa nezvazvo.
Nepo mamwe marudzi ekuzivikanwa, senge kuziviswa kwevakadzi uye kuita zvepabonde kweungochani, kuchiratidzwa kuve kwakajeka kune vamwe vana pakutanga kwekukura kwavo. Iko hakuna akadaro data pane asexuality, ndiko kuti, nekududzirwa, maitiro vanhu vanouya mushure mekusvika pakukura pabonde.
Zvepabonde hukama uye kukura
Udiki uye kuyaruka, kune rimwe divi, zviri, nekududzirwa, mamiriro ekuyerera uye kwete mamiriro ekukura. Iko hakuna chikonzero chekufungidzira kuti mwana kana muyaruki uyo akataura zvishoma kana kusatombofarira kufarira kurara nevamwe vanhu haakwanise kukura.
Izvo zvakaratidzirwa kuti zvinosiyana zvakanyanya uye hazvina kuenzaniswa maererano nezera rezvakaitika (zvichireva kuti ane makore gumi nematatu anogona kuve nemanzwiro akasimba ekunyepedzera uye chishuwo chebonde, nepo mumwe ane makore gumi nematanhatu angangove asina nekuti havana asi yasvika pakukura pabonde).
Tsvaga yako wega bonde chishuwo
Vakadzi, kunyanya, vanogona kuwana uye kutanga kunzwisisa yavo pabonde chishuwo nguva refu gare gare. Kana mwana wako akataura maonero avanonzwa seasexual, zvine musoro kuita nhaurirano yakafanana nechero mwana kana muyaruki nezvebonde inosimbisa kuti havafanirwe kumbonzwa kumanikidzwa kuita chinhu chebonde chavasingade. Bonde rinofanira kugara riri sarudzo, ingave ngochani, yakatwasuka, bi, kana asexual.
Izvo zvakakosha kuti uve unoremekedza uye wakasvinura-pfungwa pamusoro pazvo, uku uchiri zvakare kuvhurika kuti uenderere mberi nehurukuro uye uchivarega vachiramba vachikura uye vachichinja sezvavanokura uye zvitsva zviitiko kana manzwiro anogona kana kuti asingamuke. Iwe unofanirwa kuyeuchidza vana vese kuti ivo vane mutsa uye vane rudo., zvisinei kuti chii chavanosvika pakudzidza nezvehunhu hwavo hwepabonde kana hunhu.