Mumhanzi Therapy chikamu chevacheche naJuanma Morillo
«Ini ndinowanzo tsanangura mimhanzi seyakateedzana ruzha uye zvinyararire munguva, ine chimiro chakatsanangurwa, pamwe nechinangwa uye zvinoreva, zvese kune avo vanozvisika uye kune avo vanozviteerera. Zvangu, mumhanzi chiitiko chevanhu chinotibatanidza nehunhu hwedu uye nemanzwiro akadzika, kupfuura pfungwa nemazwi, zvine chokwadi".
Takasangana imwe masikati echando, uye mashiripiti akaitwa. Ini ndanga ndaenda, nemwana wangu, kuchikamu che mimhanzi therapy yakarongedzwa neboka rekurera iro raaive chikamu mune yaive nharaunda yedu. Kusvikira panguva iyoyo ini ndaive ndakaimbira mwana wangu panguva yepamuviri, pandanga ndichimubata… kubva ipapo ndakaisa mimhanzi kune ese manzwiro nemaitiro, uye isu takatamba nekutamba. Ndokusaka nhasi ndinoda kuti uridze orchestra yekuverenga Juanma Morillo.
Juanma Morillo akatanga zvidzidzo zvake zvemimhanzi achiri kuyaruka, asi akazvisiya paakatanga kudzidziswa nezvehutano kuyunivhesiti. Hupenyu hwakamutungamira kuti abatanidze zvese zvakaitika uye ruzivo mu kudzidzisa, the kutarisira and the kuperekedzwa kwevanhu, kupedzisa kudzidziswa mu mimhanzi therapy mamwe makore apfuura, chiitiko chayo chikuru nhasi. Perekedzai vanhu vakuru vane hupenyu hwakasiyana mamiriro uye vanamai vane vacheche. Ichi chekupedzisira chinhu chiri kumutungamira kuti awedzere kudzidziswa kwake mu nzvimbo yekuzvarwa.
Juanma Morillo
Mumhanzi, vacheche!
Madres Hoy: Ndezvipi zvinobatsira zvemimhanzi muhupenyu hwevacheche?
Juanma Morillo: Vacheche vanonzwisisa zvakasikwa manzwiro uye akakosha zvinoreva mimhanzi. Chikamu chinonyanya kudetemba chinobatana nemoyo yavo chaipo, uye kana tikateerera, vanaamai vanowanzo taura nevana vavo nezwi rakawanda remumhanzi pane rinotaurwa. Zvakaratidzwa kuti Kunangisa vacheche nekuimba kunovabatsira zvirinani kugadzirisa pamoyo pane kutaura navo.
Kune rumwe rutivi, chikamu chine rwiyo chemumhanzi chinobatana zvakananga nekufamba, uye vacheche vanonzwa kudiwa, kuziva kana kusagadzikana, kufamba, kutevedzera iwo mutinhimira unouya kuburikidza nenzeve dzavo uye unobatana zvakananga nemota yavo, uye nemanzwiro ekunzwa vapenyu.
Zvakare, ichi chikamu chine rwiyo chinobatsira wedzera kusimudzira mutauro, kunyanya kana ichibatanidzwa nemashiripiti muchimiro chekudzokorora chiri chakasimba kwazvo kukwezva kwevacheche.
Rwiyo rwaamai uye kutaura kwemanzwiro
MH: Vacheche vanotaura zvavanonzwa kuburikidza nemumhanzi here?
JM: Chokwadi. Kana iri mimhanzi mhenyu yatinonanga kwavari, pamusoro pezvose, kuimba, vanoinzwisisa senzira yekutaurirana, ye mutauro, uye inovabatsira kudzikama kana kumisikidza, zvinoenderana nerudzi rwemimhanzi, uye zvakare kuratidza mhere nekufamba kwakabatana zvakanyanya nemamiriro avo epamoyo.
MH: Inonzwa sei - iwe unofunga kuti inogona kunzwa sei - mwana paanonzwa amai vake vachiimba?
JM: Kana iwe ukaimba, iwe ukatarisa mumaziso ake, ndinofunga ndicho chimwe chezvipo zvikuru amai zvavanogona kupa mwana wavo. Iyo inosimbisa a moyo kune moyo kutaurirana chiteshi, mwana akazaruka zvachose kuti anzwe manzwiro ake. Ivo kazhinji vanoteerera zvakanyatsoteerera, dzimwe nguva vanonyemwerera, dzimwe nguva vanochema kubva pamanzwiro makuru avanonzwa. Zvese izvi ndinofunga zvakabatana nekunzwa kukuru kwerudo.
Kusimbisa chisungo
MH: Ko hukama pakati paamai nemwana hunogona kusimbiswa sei kuburikidza nemumhanzi?
JM: Kana kutaurirana pakati pavo kuri kuburikidza nekuimba, semuenzaniso, kudzokorora nenzira isiri nyore zvavari kuita, kana amai vachitsanangura manzwiro avo kumwana wavo, a kwakadzama kubatana muna amai kunovhura pfungwa nemoyo wake kupfuura mazwi, uye kunomubatanidza zvakanyanya nemwana wake mudiki. Zvakare kufamba, kutamba nemwana chishandiso chakakura chekubatanidza, kunyanya kana paine mukana wekutarisana mumaziso mune "yakakosha" yekutamba.
MH: Uye pakati pababa nemwana? Pane nzira dzakasiyana here kana dzakafanana?
JM: Chokwadi ndechekuti baba vacho vanowanzo kanganwika. Nekudaro, vabereki vakawedzera uye vanouya kumapoka emimhanzi evacheche, uye kuvhurika kwavo kubatana nevana vadiki kunoonekwa. Pamwe vanonzwa zvimwe zvipingaidzo zvekutaura kuburikidza nezwi ravo nemuviri wavo, asi inova nzira yekuti vanozopedzisira vavhura uye vofunga kuti kusimbiswa kwakakosha muhukama nemwana wako, uye zvine chekuita nemwana wako wemukati. Nezve maitirwo, iwo akafanana.
Kuziva kwepamoyo
MH: Ndechipi chiitiko chako chaunofarira mumimhanzi yekurapa kirasi naamai nanamai?
JM: Pakupedzisira kwezvikamu, ini ndinowanzo bvunza mubvunzo wekupedzisira ndichiimba negitare, zvine hukama nemanzwiro avo zvine chekuita nemwana wavo, mushure mezvo amai nababa vese vanopindura nekuimba nenzira isina kugadzikana, kana vachinge vabatana nemoyo yavo .
Nguva zhinji ndinoshandira kumibvunzo yekufananidzira, semuenzaniso: "Ndeupi mwaka wegore uyo mwana wako anokuyeuchidza?", Kuti vagone kuve vakasununguka kutaura nenzira yekufananidzira izvo zvinowanzo kunetsa kutaura zvakananga. Vacheche vanowanzo ziva kuti vari kutaurwa nezvazvo, uye ivo vanoteerera kana kutsvaga pekuhwanda kwevabereki vavo, vachivanyengerera pamusoro pavo.
Ini ndinoiona senge yakapfava nzira yekurerutsa kuziva kwepamoyo kwaamai navanababa maererano nevana vavo, kuitira kuti vafambise kutaura nekudzora kwavo kwekushushikana sezvo vadiki vanokura.
Kubvunzurudza kunopera mune matatu neana nekuti isu tinoramba tichitamba. Juanma, chiuru chekutenda nemumhanzi wako mumashoko, chiuru chekutenda nerudo mune ruzha uye zvinyararire!