Munyika iri kure inonzi Sweden, kune chikoro chevanochengeta vana (kindergarten, kana uchida) chinonzi Nicolaigarden, icho chave muenzaniso wekusarerekera muvakadzi. Uye sezvo madaro asiri akawandisa paInternet, Ndiri kuzomira kutaura nezvenyaya, uye ini ndave kuzokuudza zvishoma nezve izvo nzira yekudzidzisa iyi zvinoreva, uye ini zvakare ndichakufadza nehumwe hunhu hunoita kuti nzvimbo dzekudzidzisa (5 munyika yese) nzvimbo dzakasiyana.
Isu tataura pane dzimwe nhambo nezve dzinopokana dzechikadzi (pano chiratidzo pane zvinogona kukanganisa mhirizhonga kubva kuvanhukadzi), saka ini handisi kuzotsanangura tsananguro yaro; kunyangwe ini ndichida kurangarira kuti kana tichitaura nezvavo, tinoreva 'kuvaka munharaunda kwekusiyana kwehupenyu kunowanikwa nevarume nevakadzi'. Kukwidziridzwa kwekusangana pabonde kunofungidzirwa, nekuti ivo vanodzikamisa kugona kunoenderana pabonde. Chero ani ane mabasa edzidzo anofanira kunge akajeka kuti kuvaka magariro kwevanhukadzi hakuna kufananidzwa nehupenyu. Chikoro chinogona kana kusabereka mamodeli echirume neechikadzi (zvingave zvinodikanwa kana zvikasadaro) zviripo munharaunda; uye zvese muchikoro nemamiriro epamba ichiri nyaya yakamirira.
Chikwangwani kubva kuSINC Agency, yakadzvanywa makore matanhatu apfuura chidzidzo chakavakirwa padandemutande reEurydice: chirevo kubva kuEuropean Commission chakataura kuti 'chinangwa chikuru kuputsa mabasa echinyakare uye anopokana' Basa racho raidaidzwa kuti "Gender mutsauko mukuita kwechikoro." Chirevo ichi chakangosimbisa izvo zvinoonekwa sezvazviri: nzira dzekudzivirira dzinopokana dzechikadzi musarudzo yebasa, uye zvimwe zvirongwa zvakanangana nekuzvityora, hazvipo; Uye kuti misiyano iriko yazvino yakaoma nekuti kunyangwe kusiyiwa kuchikanganisa varume vazhinji, ivo ndivo vanonyanya kumhanyisa masangano. Gwaro iri rinoratidzawo kushomeka kwekudzidziswa kwemhuri kusimudzira kuenzana.
Kana iwe uchida kutsvaga kusarerekera kwechikadzi sedzidziso, tarisa kuSweden.
Muenzaniso waNicolaigarden unoongororwa nguva nenguva munhau dzepasi; Asi ndisati ndaenderera mberi, rega ndiwedzere kunyange zvishoma, pane iyi 'kusarerekera kwevakadzi'. Icho chiitiko chinokwezva kutarisisa kwakawanda muSweden, uye chinoshandurwa mukushandisa kwe "genuspedagogik" (jekiseni redzidziso). Tinowana pano iyo 'iyo pfungwa yekutanga ndeyekubvisa kucherechedzwa kwevadzidzi vechirume neechikadzi zvichibva pahunhu hwavo, pamwe nezvinotarisirwa nevadzidzisi zvinogona kugadziriswa neizvi.
Iyo yambotaurwa chirongwa inoburitsa mhedzisiro mikuru miviri:
- Kana heteronormativity yabviswa, rusununguko rwekuita usingaenderane pabonde unofarirwa, asi zvinoenderana nezvavanofunga.
- Kusapindira mune zvematongerwo enyika kune dambudziko rakakosha: vasikana nevakomana pavanopedza chikoro, ivo kusangana neichoicho cheiyo nharaunda ichiri kutongwa nehunhu hwechikadzi.
Nicolaigarden: kusiyanisa kwedzidzo kwakabviswa mabasa echikadzi.
Misiyano isimba: pane iyo façade, mireza yenyika dzakatangira vadzidzi vavo vari kusimudzira, timu yevadzidzisi inoshamisika zvakasiyana kubva mavambo, chitendero, zvebonde ... Mutungamiriri waro anosimbisa kuti hachisi chinhu kunze kwekuedza kushanda zvakasununguka.
Kubudirira kunoenderana ne:
- Vana ndizvo zvavanoda kuva:
- Matoyi haana kugoverwa nemakona, asi akasanganiswa.
- Vakomana havasi ivo varidzi venhandare, nepo vasikana vachizevezera mumakona: munhu wese ane kodzero imwechete yekurovedza pakati penhandare.
- Zvemagariro echikadzi hazvina kugadziriswa: Mwana haatadziswe kutamba nechidhori, kana nemota..
- Kukakavara kunogadziriswa pasina mhirizhonga.
- Manzwiro anoratidzwa uye anofambiswa.
- Idzo nyaya dzinoverengwa dzine vanhuwo zvavo sevaperekedzi; uye zvetsika nyaya chikamu cheraibhurari yemabhuku ekare. Nekudaro zvinonzwisiswa kuti nzanga inochinja.
- Chirevo 'hen' chinotsiva 'hon' (iye) uye 'iye' (han) pane imwe nguva
Uye kana vadiki kuNocolaigarden vasingaverenge nyaya dzepabonde nezvehumambo hwekufungidzira uye machindakadzi anokundwa nerudo rwerudo, mu Madres Hoy Tinoda kuva chikamu kuti magariro shanduko kuti banishes stereotypes evanhukadzi kuti chikoro nekuzvara patsva mamodheru, kuratidza vakomana nevasikana, kuti ivo vanogona kuva izvo zvavakatarisira kuita.
Iyo ogre (pamwe nekuregererwa kwema ogres) yenyaya iyi ndeyekuti munyika medu, tinozviona takanyura mune yemagariro system iyo isina kungokonzeresa muhombe muhoro wekubhadhara, asi inomanikidza vakadzi kusarudza zvakanyanya pakati pehunyanzvi basa uye hupenyu hwemhuri, nekuda kwekushayikwa kwe kuyanana chaiko (kwete senge kuSweden - nenzira - uye ndinotaura izvi rimwe zuva mushure meiyo Saved chirongwa chiri pamiromo yemunhu wese nhasi); uye izvo zvinoonekwa nevasikana nevakomana.