Vana havangoteedzera chete zvavanoona, ivo vanodawo kunzwa kunge chikamu chevanhu uye vanoziva zvinoitika kune vanhu vasina rombo rakanaka.
Imwe yetsika idzo chero mubereki waanoda kudzidzisa muvana vavo kubatana. Vana vanoita pane izvo zvavanoona, zvinoreva kuti varairidzi vakanyanya ndevaya vanogara navo zuva nezuva. Tevere, uye tikapihwa zuva repasirese rekubatana, tichaenda kuratidza nzira dzinoshanda idzo vana vanogona kudzidziswa nadzo kutsigira.
Dzidzisa muhunhu
Maitiro, senge kubatana, anoratidzwa nenzira dzakawanda muhupenyu hwezuva nezuva: nemushandirapamwe weKisimusi, mumaNGOs, nevavakidzani vanoenda panguva yakaoma yehupfumi kana yemanzwiro, nhengo dzemhuri kurwara… Kana mwana akaona kubatsira kwevabereki, uye vachibatsirana, kushandira pamwe mumabasa akasiyana uye vachibvumirana pazvinhu zvezuva nezuva, zvichava nyore kwavari kuti vazive chinhu chakakodzera vozviita zvakare. Mwana anogona kuudzwa nyaya dzevanhu vanopinda nemamiriro ezvinhu akashata, votaura nezvevanhu vanoita kupemha, chevanhu vanosiiwa vasina pekugara nekuda kwekusarongeka ... Zvirokwazvo iye ndiye achave anofarira uye anoda kuziva zvakawanda.
Kwete kungobatsira pamba chete, vana vanogona kuona kuti ndevapi vanotsigira, maitiro ekutora chikamu mumishandirapamwe yekubatsira vana vane mikana mishoma, mhuri dzisina zviwanikwa ... Kubatsira shamwari, kana hama pavanenge vachichida, dzinova pfungwa dzavanofunga nezvadzo. , kuti nemazuva aachaona akajairwa uye akarurama. Maitiro senge kubatana haadzidziswe ne bhuku muruoko, zvinotsanangurwa, zvinodzidziswa zuva nezuva kugadzira denti muvana uye kuvasimbisa. Izvo zviri kumuita kuti arambe ari muchokwadi uye achimusanganisira, kunyangwe kumuita akakosha mune mamwe sarudzo anotorwa semunhu mukuru.
Kuva vanotsigira vana
Kubatanidzwa kwevabereki kwakanangana nekuzivisa mwana kuti mubairo mukuru wekubatsira vamwe, mukubatana, ndiko kunzwa kunotevera.
Vadzidzisi vekutanga ndivo vabereki. Vanofanira kukurudzira vana kunzwa tsitsi, rubatsiro, kunzwira tsitsi, rupo, kubatana, ndine urombo… Ivo vadiki vanogara munzvimbo yemagariro, uye kubva pazera diki kwazvo vanofanirwa kunzwisisa kuti ivo chikamu chemunharaunda, yemadenderedzwa akasiyana ari kukura. Mwana ari pamba nevabereki vake, kuchikoro kana kukireshi uye mune yakaoma nzanga. Haasi munhu akasarudzika, waanofanira kuziva mararamire, uye nawo, kunzwira vamwe uye kufunga nezvevamwe.
Kubatanidzwa kwevabereki kwakanangana nekuzivisa mwana kuti mubairo mukuru wekubatsira vamwe, mukubatana, ndiko kunzwa kunotevera. Kubatsira kunounza mufaro, uye kuona kuti mumwe munhu anokunda sei kubatana kwako mubairo. Unogona kuvatsanangurira kuti rubatsiro rwavo runodiwa pamba nekumba, uye taura nezvenyaya idzi zvakakomba uye pachena. Iyo vabereki Ivo vangangoda kubatana kwavo, vavanodzidza navo vangasanzwisisa chimwe chinhu kana kuda toyi, uye vane mukana wekutsiva nechiratidzo chekubatana. Ichi chiratidzo chinodzoserwa kwavari munguva yakafanira.