Ukuzimela, ukuzithemba, abantwana abazithembayo. Ngaphantsi kwale bhanile kubekwe iziseko ze umzali onentlonipho, eyona ndlela yakutshanje yokukhulisa abantwana. Ijongene nenani elikhulu lezinto ezikhethiweyo zemihla ngemihla, ukusuka kwi-co-sleeping ukuya kwi-vegan yokutya, i-porterage okanye imfundo yaseMontessori. Kwaye phakathi kwee-canon ezintsha zobuzali ngentlonipho kukho iithiyori ezintsha ezinxulumene nophuhliso lwengqondo. yenzaYintoni ukuhamba ngokukhululekileyo kwiintsana?
Phakathi kwezixhobo ezitsha kunye neendlela zeendlela ezintsha zokuba ngumzali, umbono wokuhamba ngokukhululekileyo uyazalwa, ithiyori edityaniswe nophuhliso lwengqondo ephuhliswe ngugqirha wabantwana waseHungary u-Emmi Picker. Ngaba ukhe weva ngale ngcamango? Ndiyakuxelela ukuba yintoni na.
Iinzuzo zokuhamba ngokukhululekileyo
Ikwabizwa ngokuba yi-global psychomotricity, intshukumo yasimahla yazalwa emva kokujonga ukukhula komntwana. Njengayo yonke imimiselo ye ukuzala ngokwendalo, Ithiyori kaPicker yinxalenye yengcamango yokuhlonipha amaxesha endalo omntwana. Ngokusekwe kuphando lwakhe, ugqirha wabantwana uye waqaphela ukuba abantwana bafikelela 'kwimilinganiselo' ethile yophuhliso lweemoto ngokwemvelo nanjengoko bekhula. Ezi zinto zibalulekileyo zinokuphakamisa intloko yakhe, ukutyhila izandla zakhe, ukuhlala phantsi, njl.
Ugqirha wabantwana waseHungary waphanda indlela abantwana abakwazi ngayo ukwenza ezi zinto ziphawula indaleko ekukhuleni kwabo kweemoto waza wagqiba kwelokuba akuyomfuneko ukuba abantwana bafundiswe ukukhasa okanye ukuhamba. yenzaYintoni ukuhamba ngokukhululekileyo kwiintsana ngoko? Ngandlela-thile, sinokuthi njengehlaya ukuba kuya kuthulisa ixhala lethu kunye nokuhlonipha ukuphuhliswa kweemoto zomntwana ngaphandle kokuzama ukumfundisa ukuhamba, ukuhamba kunye nabanye. Ngokwahlukileyo koko, la mazwi anokuba ngumphumo.
Iithiyori ezintsha ezinxulunyaniswa ne-psychomotricity namhlanje zisebenza malunga nombono wokukhapha ukukhula kwemoto yomntwana kwaye ungayivuseleli. Kwaye kukho umahluko kwinkonzo. Namhlanje iingcali ze-psychomotricity azisathethi ngokuvuselela kwangethuba kodwa "ngokuqwalaselwa kwangethuba", oko kukuthi, ukufumaneka ukunika umntwana oko akufunayo.
Ngokuka- ithiyori yentshukumo yasimahla kwiintsana, iintsana ziyathandana kodwa zingabantu abazimeleyo. Indlela yePikler isekwe kubudlelwane obusempilweni, obusondeleyo kunye nongaguqukiyo ngokweemvakalelo oya kukhokelela kuphuhliso lwengqondo yomntwana. Kucetywa ukuzimela komntwana, kumshiya phantsi nangona enikel’ ingqalelo kumntu omdala onembopheleleko. Umntu omdala uya kuluxhasa usana, aluncede xa luvalelwe kwaye alukwazi ukuphuma, lumncedise ekuboniseni iintshukumo ebengenakuzenza yedwa, thetha nalo ngelixa lumncedayo ukuze umntwana azive ekhuselekile kwaye ezolile.
Izikhokelo zokuhamba zasimahla
El ukuhamba ngokukhululekileyo kwiintsana inxalenye yeminye imimiselo ebalulekileyo ukuba igcinwe engqondweni. Into yokuqala kukuhlonipha amaxesha omntwana ngamnye. Usana ngalunye lugqalwa njengolulodwa kwaye lungenakuphindwa. Amava akho aya kukunceda uphuhlise izakhono ezitsha nezikhulayo. Kule meko, umntu omdala ukho ukuze apheleke aze ancedise, kungekhona ukufundisa. Kufuneka unikeze indawo ekhuselekileyo ukuze umntwana akwazi ukuhamba kwaye aphuhlise. Ngale ndlela, kubalulekile ukuba abantu abadala banike ukuzithemba okuyimfuneko kusana kwaye banokuludlulisela ngaphandle koloyiko.
Olu nxibelelwano kwikhonkco lokuzimela lubalulekile kwindlela yokusebenza. Ekugqibeleni, kuyimfuneko ukuba umntwana akhululeke kwaye akhululeke. Ukunyakaza okukhululekile kufuna iimpahla ezikhululekile ukuze umntwana angabonakali ubunzima xa esenza ukunyakaza kwakhe.
Ithiyori ye ukuhamba ngokukhululekileyo kulandela imigca yokuzala kwendalo ngokugxininisa ukukhula okusekwe ekukhuleni nasekukhuleni komntu ngamnye komntwana ngamnye. Ngaloo ndlela, iyawahlonela amaxesha obuqu, ngenkangeleko ehamba ngaphandle kokufuna, nto leyo eqinisekisa ukhuseleko nokuzithemba ukuze umntwana azive ekhululekile aze ngaloo ndlela akhuthazwe ukuba athabathe inyathelo elitsha kwindaleko yabo.