Amabali oopopayi ama-6 kunye nezifutshane ezimfutshane zokufundisa abantwana bakho kubukrelekrele boMvakalelo

Ukufundisa kubukrelekrele boMvakalelo yimfuno edlula ngaphaya kweklasi kunye nekharityhulamu yesikolo. Kubalulekile ukuba sibenze abantwana bethu bathathe inxaxheba kwezi zakhono zisisiseko eziya kubanceda kungekuphela nje ukuba bazazi ngcono, kodwa kunye nokuququzelela ubudlelwane babo nabanye babancede bonwabe.

Iifutshane ezimfutshane ziyiwindow emphefumlweni eya kukwenza ucinge ngendlela elula kakhulu kunye nemizobo, kwiimeko apho iphupha libasondeza kwizinto zokwenene ezicacileyo: ukulawula umsindo, ukuqonda usizi, ukuhlonela abanye okanye ukuphucula ingcamango yabo. Ngoko ke, ekubeni «Madres Hoy» Siyakumema ukuba uhlale phantsi nabantwana bakho kwaye kunye, niphengulule kwezi mveliso zimangalisayo uya kuzithanda.

Mfutshane ukufundisa kubuNzululwazi boMoya: «INyanga»

Sijongene nemveliso entle yePstrong apho siza kudibana nomntwana ongena kwihlabathi labantu abadala okokuqala, kuxanduva lokulandela isithethe sosapho: leyo yokucoca inyanga yazo zonke ezo nkwenkwezi ziwayo zivela esibhakabhakeni.

Kuyo, uya kufumanisa yonke le miba:

• Isidingo sokumamela ilizwi labantwana kwaye baqonde ukuba banelungelo lokukhetha iindlela zabo, ukuba nobuchule kunye nelizwi labo.
• Abantwana bakho baya kuba nakho ukuqonda Ixabiso lokuba yinxalenye yosaphoYokukhathalela abazali, ootatomkhulu noomakhulu, yokuzibandakanya kwezi projekthi ziqhelekileyo, uhlala unikela ngento yabo. Kuba nabo banazo ilungelo lokumanyelwa, lihlonitshwe kwaye lithandwe.
• Iyakubavumela ukuba baphucule ukucinga kwabo, babone ngaphaya koko banako phambi kwabo kwaye bazi ukuba uxanduva luthetha ntoni. Iprojekthi.

Mfutshane ukufundisa kubuNzululwazi boMoya: «Mosterbox»

IMonsterbox ngamava abonwayo adalwe ngamagcisa aselula aseFrance: uLudovic Gavillet, uDerya Kocaurlu, uLucas Hudson noColin Jean-Saunier. Konke Ukuqhuma kwemibala kunye nezidalwa ezingaqhelekanga apho siza kungena kubuhlobo obunomdla phakathi kwentombazana nendoda endala.

• Nge-Mosterbox abantwana bakho baya kufunda ukukhulisa iikhonsepthi ezisisiseko zengqondo yeemvakalelo: imbeko, ubuhlobo, ukuzibeka endaweni yomnye, ukuzibophelela nothando.
• Eyona nto inomdla nge-Mosterbox ubudlelwane bezalamane, kwaye kutheni ungatsho, ubuhlanga. Siza kubona ukuba ubuhlobo benziwe njani phakathi kwentombazana kunye nendoda endala, kunye nendlela izidalwa zeemilo ezahlukileyo kunye nemibala ezakha ngayo iseti yeemvakalelo, uvelwano kunye nentlonipho.
• Elinye icala le-Mosterbox ekufuneka lithathelwe ingqalelo ngumbono "womonde". Ngamanye amaxesha ubudlelwane abuhlali buqala ngonyawo lwasekunene, senza iimpazamo kunye "nobubi" obuncinci. Kodwa Ukuba abanye bayasihlonipha kwaye bayasithemba ngokusinika amathuba amatsha, ubuhlobo buyakhiwa ngokukhawuleza.

Mfutshane ukufundisa kubuNzululwazi boMoya: «Umsindo»

Kukangaphi kufuneka uzolile umntwana wakho emva komsindo ombi okhokelele kumsindo ongalawulekiyo? Uninzi, ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo. Abantwana baziva bexinekile ziimvakalelo kwaye abazi ukuba bazilawule njani nokuba bangayiqonda njani into eyenzekayo kubo. Kunzima kakhulu ukuqonda ukukhathazeka, okanye loo mizuzu xa bengayifumani into abayifunayo.

Ke ngoko, oku kufutshane okumnandi kuya kuba luncedo kakhulu ukuba abantwana bakho baphakathi kweminyaka emi-2 nengama-6 ubudala.

• Iya kubavumela ukuba baqonde indlela abaziva ngayo, kwaye kutheni beziva ngathi bayalila okanye baphosa izinto.
• Bayakuqonda ukuba kuthetha ntoni umsindo.
• Iya kubanceda ukuba bavakalise kwaye bahambe bade bafumane iziqwenga ukuya kuthi ga kwinqanaba apho ulwimi lubavumela khona, okungaphakathi kubo kunye nento ebakhathazayo.
• Baya kuba nakho ukuhambisa kunye nokulawula loo msindo, into ebalulekileyo.

Mfutshane ukufundisa kubuNzululwazi boMoya: «Intyatyambo enkulu emhlabeni»

Sijongene nebali elinomtsalane nguJosé Saramago. Njengoko sele uyazi, amabali abantwana kufuneka abaliswe ngendlela elula, ecacileyo kunye namandla. Ngale mfutshane abantwana bakho bazokonwabela ngoku sebenza kwimiba ebalulekileyo yoBukrelekrele bokweemvakalelo njengokubumbana, indalo, ubuntwana okanye ubuhle.

Yimizuzu nje eyi-10 apho ungonwabela umyalezo kunye nomculo, owenziwe ngu-Emilio Aragón. Ikwabaliswa nguJosé Saramago ngokwakhe, ubugqi buthanda phantse kwasekuqaleni kwaye busenza ukuba sicinge, busenza silile.

Mfutshane ukufundisa kubuNzululwazi boMoya: «Isoyikiso»

"Intsomi ithi oogqogqa abakwazi ukuba nabahlobo ..." Akufanele uphoswe leli lifutshane lifutshane apho iimvakalelo zisibambisa phantse kwasekuqaleni. Ukuba uyayithanda indalo iphela kaTim Burton, le mveliso igqwesileyo ilungisa umtsalane ocekeceke apho i-chiaroscuro ixubana nobumsulwa kunye nesidima. Apha, iinyembezi ziqinisekisiwe ngakumbi.

• Isikrelemnqa sichitha usuku kumhlaba wengqolowa sibukele ixesha lihamba ... Kwaye iintaka: ulangazelela ukuba ngumhlobo nezi zidalwa zincinci zinamaphiko zibhabha zimjikeleze imini yonke. Nangona kunjalo, kukho into angayiqondiyo: Wonke umntu uyamoyika!
• Abantwana baya kufunda ukuba akufuneki sithwalwe yimbonakalo kunye namarhe. Abantu abanentliziyo ebekekileyo bayakwazi ukwenza izinto ezintle, kwaye ubuhlobo, intlonipho kunye nesibindi ziimpawu ekufuneka sizibethelele kuzo kwaye, ukusukela kule mfutshane, ziya kusinceda ukuba sizidlulise ngendlela elula nengummangaliso. Kuyinto evuyisayo yoopopayi kunye nobukrelekrele beemvakalelo.

Mfutshane ukufundisa kubukrelekrele boMvakalelo: «Ukumanga ngaphambi kokuba ulale»

Umsa, uthando, ukuthantamisa… Le yimiba abantwana abaqhele ukuyifunda kuthi kuba bayayibona yonke imihla, kuba siyayidlulisela kubo. Nangona kunjalo, oko kuchukumisa kungaphaya kwezimbo zomzimba ezilula. Molo ekuseni, ukwangana, ukuphulula kunye nokuphuza luhlobo lolwimi lweemvakalelo oludala umanyano, kwaye ukuba abantwana kufuneka bazi ukuqonda.

• Imvakalelo eyakhayo ifundisa ngaphezu kwelizwi. Ukwanga kunika ukhuseleko kunye nokwamkelwa, ngaphandle kokulibala nokuba, ukuba ukudibana ngokwasemzimbeni kubalulekile kwiminyaka yokuqala ukukhuthaza ukukhula kunye nokukhula komntwana.
• Njengoko abantwana bethu bekhula baya kufuna ukwenza ngaphandle kolo nxibelelwano kancinci. Baya kusixelela ukuba "badala." Nangona kunjalo, into ekufuneka beyiqonde kukuba izimbo zethenda ziyanxibelelana, kwaye banxibelelana nezinto zendalo iphela eziya kuthi zibonakalise ubudlelwane babo kwezentlalo kunye ne-Emotional Intelligence.
• Isenzo sokuxhawulana ngezandla, sokuqonda ukuba ukuphululwa yinto ehlala ixabiswa, ekhulula uxinzelelo, uxinzelelo kunye namaxhala, ziintsika ezibalulekileyo kubomi bethu bemihla ngemihla.

Ngale mfutshane ilula kakhulu, abantwana abangaphantsi konyaka ubudala banokuliqonda ixabiso lokupha abantu babo abathandayo kwasekuqaleni kakhulu. Siyakumema ukuba uyonwabele.

Ukuqukumbela, kubaluleke kakhulu kwaye kuyasebenza njengale ibhulukhwe imfutshane yemfundo kunye nomlingo, kukuba nathi ngokwethu ekhaya, siyakwazi Yakha imeko efanelekileyo yabantwana ukuba benze izinto ezisisiseko kubukrelekrele boMvakalelo, njengokuzazi, uvelwano, imbeko, ukwazi ukunxibelelana ...

Konke oku kufunyanwa kancinci kancinci kwaye ngokuhamba kwexesha, nangona kunjalo, khumbula ukuba thina, oobawo noomama, singoyilo lwako konke oku kusenzeka ngendlela elula neyona ilungileyo.