Ngexesha lokufikisa amakhwenkwe kunye namantombazana utshintshe kakhulu emzimbeni loo nto iya kubabonakalisa kuloo nguqulelo inkulu yenguquko eya ebuntwini obukhulu. Amalungu esini ngawona enza olu tshintsho kwaye kule meko nayo inento yokwenza nayo ukuphela kokukhula kwaba bafikisayo. Amadoda akhula de kube yiyiphi iminyaka ngokwenene?
Amakhwenkwe ahluke ngokupheleleyo kumantombazana ekuqaleni kokufikisa nakwinqanaba lokugqibela lokukhula. Kweli nqanaba kulapho umzimba itshintsha kakhulu ilizwe kwaye yenzeka phi umnxeba?ukukhula”. Apha amadoda anokukhula abe yincopho yokuya kutsho kuma-25 okanye ama-30 eesentimitha ngaphezulu.
Amadoda anokukhula ukuya kweyiphi iminyaka?
Kukho iimbono ezininzi malunga Bangakhula kangakanani abantwana? kude kube mdala. Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, yonke into iya kuxhomekeka kwiimeko zomzimba kunye nendlela yokuphila yomntwana ngamnye. Xa kubhekiselwa ekukhuleni, kufanele kuphawulwe ukuba xa umntwana efikisa kuxa kutheni ikhula ngesiquphe ukuza ukufikelela ukuya kuthi ga kwi-20% ngaphezulu eza kubizwa ngokuba “yisantya sokukhula kokukhula”.
Amadoda amancinci ayeza kuba sele eqala ukukhula kwaye ke ngoko bakhula ukuya kutsho kwiminyaka eyi-18 ukuya kwengama-20. Nangona kunjalo, zinokukhula ezinye 2 okanye 3 yeesentimitha ngaphezulu ukuya kwiminyaka engama-23, apho babeza kuyeka ukukhula.
Akwenzeki okufanayo kubafazi. Xa ibhinqa liphuhla okanye lingena kuye ukuya exesheni, phakathi kwe-12 ukuya kwi-16 iminyaka, kususela kulo mzuzu kuxa ukukhula kwayo kunqumama. Kwamanye amabhinqa kusenokwenzeka ukuba asakhula de abe neminyaka eyi-18 ubudala.
Kuxhomekeke kwintoni ukuba amadoda akhule ukuya kwinqanaba elikhulu okanye elingaphantsi
Imiba yemfuza zezona zithatha inxaxheba ubukhulu becala ekukhuleni nasekukhuleni komntwana. Ukuphakama kwabazali kuya kuxhomekeka kubude babo, kodwa ngendlela efanayo ezinye izinto ziya kuxhomekeka, ezifana nokutya kulo lonke ukukhula kwayo, umthambo owenzayo ngexesha lobuntwana kunye nokufikisa, njl.
Kukho ukubala kwemathematika ukwazi ukufumanisa ukuba umntwana wakho angakhula kangakanani xa efika esiphelweni senqanaba lakhe. Lubalo oluncinci ekufuneka lwenziwe ngolu hlobo lulandelayo:
- Yongeza ubude bukamama kunye notata kwaye wahlule ngo-2.
- Isiphumo sakhe masidityaniswe ngu-0,10 ukuba uyindoda okanye kutsalwe u-0,10 ukuba ungumfazi.
Njengoko sele sihlolisise, ukukhula komntu kubo bonke ubuntwana bakhe de babe bafikisa Kuya kuxhomekeka ikakhulu kwizinto ezininzi. Njengokutya kwakho, ufuzo lwakho, ukuba ukhe waphathwa sisifo…. Ngokubanzi, ngenxa yendlela abaphila ngayo. Ke ngoko, olu balo lwemathematika lunayo Amathuba okubetha ukuya kuthi ga kwi-85%, ngoko inokuthatyathwa kuphela njengesiseko.
Kwenzeka nini ukukhula kwesantya sokufikisa?
Isantya sokukhula kokufikisa Ikhula kwinqanaba lokufikisa. Iqala xa igazi lifikelela kwinqanaba elanelisayo iihomoni zesini, i-estrogens kunye ne-androgens. Ngale ndlela baya kuba noxanduva lokuphinda kabini okanye kathathu inani lehomoni yokukhula, indibaniselwano yeehomoni zokukhula kunye neehomoni zesini. Banoxanduva lokukhula kwesantya sokufikisa.
Zifakiwe uhlobo lwezenzo ezivuselelayo ezichaphazela ukukhula kwamathambo kunye ne-cartilage. Nangona ziya kuba zizo ezivala ukukhula ngexesha elifanelekileyo.
Kukho abantwana abathi amava okufikisa kwangoko, phakathi kweminyaka eyi-8 kunye ne-9. Ngale datha kukho abo bangqina ukuba abantwana bakhula kancinci ngenxa yesi sizathu. Izimvo zisenokuxutywa, ekubeni kusekho iminyaka de umntwana akhule kangangeesentimitha ezimbalwa ukuze afikelele kwisantya sokukhula.
Enyanisweni, kuthiwa umzimba uya kuba noxanduva lokwenza yonke into ngendlela efanayo, nokuba imeko enjalo ayizange yenzeke. Ezo zikhule kwangethuba zikholisa ukukhula izinga eliphezulu ngexesha lokufikisa kwaye ke babenokukhula okuthe kratya okunamandla kumakhwenkwe aqole ngokwesiqhelo okanye emva kwexesha. Ngokunikwa le nyaniso, kumiselwe ukuba Ukufikisa kwangoko akukutshintshi ukukhula, kodwa iyayiqhubela phambili kwaye ke, iyayeka ukukhula ngaphambili.