Zisekhona iintsuku ezimbalwa kude kufike iKrisimesi, kodwa kuyinyani ukuba iiholide zabantwana sele ziseduze. Ngabo, abanye abazali bathatha isigqibo sokuthatha ikhefu lokuchitha kunye nosapho. Ukufundisa ngexabiso kukufanele ukwenziwa unyaka nasesikolweni nasekhaya. Kodwa kule mihla kuxa ezinye zeekhonsepthi ezibalulekileyo ezinjengokubumbana, uvelwano nokunyamezelana kugxininiswa kakhulu.
Ke Zeziphi iindlela zokuziphatha ezibalulekileyo ekufuneka zifundwe ngabantwana ngeKrisimesi? Ndibhalile uluhlu olufutshane lwexabiso ezintlanu ezisisiseko kum kwimfundo nakuphuhliso lwabantwana luphela. Ngokuqinisekileyo, unokucinga ngezinye ezininzi kwaye ndingathanda ukuzazi ukuba ziyintoni kwaye ukuba wenza nayiphi na into enamandla okanye eyenziwayo ekhaya okanye ezikolweni nabantwana bakho okanye abafundi. Unganqikazi ukushiya izimvo kunye nemibono yakho!
Umthengi onoxanduva: awunakuhlala unayo yonke into
Ndiyazi ukuba eli candelo kunzima kakhulu ukulenza. NgeKrisimesi kubonakala ngathi zonke iintengiso ezibonakalisiweyo zezokudlala. Koko kufuneka songeze ukuba uya kwindawo yokuthenga oya kuyo, iishelfu sele zigcwele iimoto, oonodoli, izilwanyana ezifakiwe, ii-video consoles ... Ngokucacileyo, konke oku kubamba umdla wabancinci. Kwaye ukugcwala kweethoyi kudala isidingo esifanelekileyo kuzo. Kwizinto zokudlala abazithandayo, wonke umntu uyazifuna. Ke ngoko, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqala ukusebenza ukusetyenziswa ngendlela efanelekileyo ngexesha leKrisimesi nabantwana.
Anditsho ukuba izipho ziyasuswa, kodwa nditsho ukuba zilinganiselwe. Abantwana banokuxelelwa ukuba kwiZazi kuphela izinto zokudlala ezintathu. Kucacile ukuba abancinci bazokucela izinto zokudlala abazithandayo ngaphandle kokucinga amaxesha amaninzi ukuba zilungile okanye zimbi. Ke ngoko, kufanelekile ukuba abazali babonise abantwana babo imidlalo ekhuthaza izakhono kunye nezakhono (ubuchule bokufunda, ukuqonda ukuqonda, ukucinga okuqiqayo, ukucinga ...) Ngokuqinisekileyo, imidlalo yemfundo ye-neuro ayizukugcinwa nje embokweni okanye kwidrowa.
Ukumamela ngokukhutheleyo: unxibelelwano losapho
Njengoko benditshilo ngaphambili, ngeKrisimesi abazali abaninzi bathatha iintsuku ezimbalwa zeholide ukuze bachithe ixesha elininzi nosapho. Ukuba kunye lonke lixesha elifanelekileyo lokukhuthaza ukumamela okusebenzayo, unxibelelwano kunye nencoko. Ukwazi indlela yokumamela kunye nokunxibelelana nabanye (ukuzithemba) kubalulekile kwimfundo yabantwana. Ngale ndlela, abancinci baya kuba ukuqonda ngakumbi, ukuziva ngakumbi kunye nokuzimisela ngakumbi kwindalo esingqongileyo.
Uvelwano: ukuzibeka endaweni yabanye
Ndingomnye wabo bacinga ukuba abantwana abaninzi banovelwano ngokwemvelo kwabanye. Ndizokuxelela ngemeko eyenzekileyo ngenye imini kumhlobo wam. Undixelele ukuba ukuhamba ezitalatweni nonyana wakhe oneminyaka esixhenxe, wavuma wathi: «Kulo nyaka uPablo angacela nje isipho kwaZazi eziThathu kwaye ulusizi. Ndingacela ezintathu, ke ndicela enye yazo kuye ukuze abe nokuninzi«. Zezizenzo ezenza ukuba uqaphele ukuba abantwana baneyona ntliziyo inkulu emhlabeni. Kum, uvelwano lelinye lamaxabiso aphambili kwimfundo yabantwana kwaye kufuneka ithathelwe ingqalelo unyaka wonke, kodwa ngeKrisimesi, lixesha elihle lokufundisa abantwana ukuba bazibeke endaweni yabanye. .
Umanyano: ukubaluleka kokunceda abanye
Ngelishwa, abantu abaninzi eSpain bahlala kwiimeko ezimbi. Ukunqongophala komsebenzi kunye nezixhobo kubangela ukuba abantu bahlale ezitalatweni. Xa abantwana abaninzi bebona umntu elele esitratweni, babuza abazali babo ukuba kutheni. Lixesha elifanelekileyo lokuchaza ukubaluleka kokuzama ukutshintsha umhlaba ukuze kungabikho mntu ushiyekileyo esitratweni engqeleni eqhaqhazelis 'amazinyo. Kubalulekile ukuba iintsapho kunye namaziko emfundo abonakalise ukunceda kunye nokusebenzisana nabanye ukuze abantwana bafunde ngomzekelo. Kunye iinkcukacha ezincinci unokuba nehlabathi elingcono.
Ukungacalucaluli: ukufundisa ukungabagatyi abanye
Amanye amaziko emfundo, xa kusondela iKrisimesi, aqala ukulungiselela nokwenza imisebenzi kunye nezinto ukuthintela ucalucalulo nokwaliwa phakathi kwabafundi. Kweli candelo, izikolo zinomsebenzi obaluleke kakhulu: ukufundisa abantwana ukuba wonke umntu unamathuba alinganayo kwaye akukho mntu ufanele ukwahlulwa kwiqela. Ngemfundo yomzimba kunye nemidlalo, ezi zixabiso zinokukhuthazwa kakhulu. Ngale ndlela, imeko-bume yesikolo engcono iya kufezekiswa: iyanyamezelana, izimisele ngakumbi kwaye inovelwano. Ngokucacileyo, ayilulo lonke uxanduva olusezikolweni. Abazali nootitshala kufuneka basebenze kunye ukuphelisa ucalucalulo, ukwaliwa, kunye nocalucalulo.