Rhoqo ngo-Agasti 8 kubhiyozelwa usuku lomfazi, umhla wokuthetha ngesini kunye nokuzonwabisa kwabasetyhini, Ke ukuba uneentombi ezikwishumi elivisayo namhlanje, ingasisizathu esivakalayo Thetha ngayo naye. Akuyi kuba lula. Ulutsha oluninzi olungafuni ukuthetha ngesondo kunye noonina, kodwa ungazama.
Kungenzeka ukuba wena Intombi ekwishumi elivisayo inemibuzo emininzi. Phantse ngokuqinisekileyo sele uguqukile wabahlobo, i-intanethi, okanye eminye imithombo, kodwa oomama abahlali phakathi kwabo. Sikunika iingcebiso onokuzisebenzisa ukuba ufuna ukuthetha naye ngalo mbandela. Kwaye khumbula ukuyenza naye imbeko ephezulu kunye nendalo.
Yintoni i-orgasm yabasetyhini, kwisayensi?
Zininzi iintsomi malunga ne-orgasm yabasetyhini. Amagumbi okufundela isini solonwabo, kodwa njengenkqubo yokuzala, kwaye abantu abancinci, bona kunye nabo, banokuba nemibono engeyiyo malunga nayo. I-Orgasm inokufezekiswa ngu ukuphulula amalungu esini okanye ngokwabelana ngesondo. It wakhululwa yioxytocin, prolactin kunye endorphins.
Ukuze uthethe nentombi yakho malunga ne-orgasm yabasetyhini, siza kukuxelela ukuba yintoni a indlela yesayensi. Le inokuba yindlela yokusondela kuyo, uthabathe yonke into yobuqu kunye nobusenyongweni. Menze aqonde ukuba yinkqubo yendalo ngokwasemzimbeni, ekungeyomfuneko ukuba nolwalamano ngokwesondo. Yena ngokwakhe unokuyicaphukisa ngokusetyenziswa, okanye hayi, kweithoyi zesini.
I-orgasm yabasetyhini yi uvakalelo olunzulu noluthandekayo Ukukhutshwa koxinzelelo oluqokelelweyo ukusukela ukuqala kwesigaba sokuvuka, ukusuka kuthotho lwezihlunu ezinamandla ezijolise kwingingqi ye-pelvic. Uphawu lwe-female orgasm kukukhawulezisa kwenqanaba lentliziyo. Ilungu lobufazi, isibeleko, i-anus, kunye nezihlunu ze-pelvic zisebenza izihlandlo ezi-XNUMX ukuya kwezilishumi kumanqanaba angaphantsi komzuzwana. Kukho abafazi abanokwenza i-orgasm kuwo wonke umzimba wabo kwaye banokuba ne-orgasms ezininzi.
Umahluko phakathi kwelungu lobufazi nelokuhlangana
Thetha nentombi yakho malunga Umsebenzi weclitoral, unokukwenza uthethe nge-orgasm. Ngokwenyani ungayiphatha inyani yokuba iphonografi, kunye nenkcubeko yoosolusapho, ibeke ukubaluleka ngakumbi kwilungu lobufazi lobufazi kunelinye leqela.
Eli candelo liza, phakathi kwezinye izinto, livela kuFreud nakwithiyori yakhe yengqondo. Wayengowokuqala ukubhekisa kwilungu lobufazi, lahlukile kwi-clitoral orgasm, awayichaza njengesiqhelo sobutsha. Kuye, umfazi okhulileyo kwafuneka athambekele kwi-orgasms yangasese, oko kukuthi, ngaphandle kwayo Ukuvuselelwa kobuntu. Le ngxelo kunye neziphumo zayo ziyaqhubeka kude kube namhla. Xelela intombi yakho ukuba kwisifundo seKinsey, udliwanondlebe nenani elikhulu labasetyhini lafumanisa ukuba uninzi lwabo aluzange lubenamava obufazi.
Kwakhona ngo-2005, ukuba ngaba lusuku oluphambi kwezolo, ugqirha wezamachiza uHelen O'Conell ucebise ukuba izicwili zomzimba zandiswe eludongeni lobufazi. Oku kubonisa ukuba ubufazi kunye nelungelo lobufazi le-orgasm linayo imvelaphi efanayo.
I-Orgasm kwingqondo yabasetyhini
Siyathemba ukuba ngalo lonke olu lwazi ungahlala phantsi nentombi yakho, namhlanje, usuku lwe-female orgasm, okanye naluphi na olunye usuku kwaye nithethe nge-orgasm ngaphandle koxinzelelo okanye i-taboos. Unokumxelela ukuba abanye abantu basetyhini bayakwazi ukufikelela kwi-orgasm ngokusebenzisa i-caresses emabeleni, kunye nokukhuthaza i iingono. Olu khuthazo lwenza indawo yengqondo eyaziwa njenge i-cortex yovimba wesini, kwawona mmandla wenziwa ngokuchukumisa i-clitoris, ubufazi kunye nomlomo wesibeleko, ke ingqondo iyenza ngendlela efanayo.
Khumbuza intombi yakho ukuba abafazi kufuneka ixesha kunye nenkululeko yokufikelela kwi-orgasm. Ukwabelana ngesondo ngempumelelo, ukuphulula amalungu esini (okanye enye into yesondo) kunxulumene namandla omfazi okuziyolisa.
Isibini Ukufumana i-orgasm akufuneki kube kukuphela kwesondoKubalulekile ukonwabela ukudlala ngesondo ngokwakho, kodwa inyani kukuba ulutsha oluninzi kwaye hayi ulutsha olufunayo. Kwaye ukungayifumani okanye ukuyibangela kunokubangela unxunguphalo kuzo.