Umzimba wonyana okanye wentombi yakho uyatshintsha kwaye ngokunjalo nemidla yabo. Emantombazaneni kuyacaca ukuba iimpahla zabo kunye neencoko nabahlobo babo azisekho kwimixholo efanayo, kwaye uthando, isini, izinto zokucwangcisa ziya kuphuma. Ukuba ufuna ukuba intombi yakho nonyana babe nayo ulwazi oluyinyani, kwaye luvela kumntu omthembileyo, ngoku lixesha lokuba uthethe nabo malunga nolawulo lokuzalwa.
Ngengxoxo evulekileyo, yendalo kunye nokuzimisela ukunika lonke ulwazi olufunwa ngunyana okanye intombi yakho, uya kuba nakho ukujongana ne ukukhutshwa kwezinto zokucwangcisa, ukukhulelwa okungafunekiyo, neziphumo zamantombazana kunye namakhwenkwe, kunye nezifo ezidluliselwa ngeentlobano zesini.
Kutheni le nto abantwana bam kufuneka babe nolwazi malunga nezinto zokucwangcisa?
Abanye ootata, oomama nootata bayathandabuza ukuveza umba wokuthintela ukukhulelwa ekhaya kuba Bacinga ukuba ukuthatha nje into yokuba abantwana babo, bona kunye nabo, sele benesondo okanye kukukhuthaza ukuba bayenze. Oku akunjalo, nokuba bagcina okanye abanalo ubudlelwane, ulwazi kufuneka lube ngaphambi "kokulahlekelwa yintombi."
Ukufikisa, ukuvuswa kwehomoni yinkqubo yendaloAyizukuyeka ukwenzeka kuba asithethi nabo. Isigqibo sokuba ulale ngesondo okanye hayi luxanduva lwakho. Njengomama, into esinokuyenza kukucebisa nokubazisa ngezifo ezosulela ngokwabelana ngesondo, ukukhulelwa, izinto zokucwangcisa kunye nayo yonke into esiyibona ibalulekile.
Los Iingcali zesini zihlala zicebisa ukuba uphathe umxholo ngento elungileyo. Le ayisiyonto ihlazo kwaye imbi. Ngale nto, siya kuba nakho ukukhuthaza kulutsha ukuba lube notyekelo olukhulu lokusebenzisa izinto zokucwangcisa ngendlela efanelekileyo kunye noxanduva. Ngokubanzi, oomama bathanda ukuxoxa ngalo mbandela kunye neentombi zabo kunye noyise kunye namakhwenkwe akhe.
Izinto zokuthintela ukukhulelwa kunye nolutsha
Zonke iingcali ziyavuma ukuba zombini ibhinqa njengekhondom yamadoda yeyona ndlela yokuthintela ukukhulelwa kwezibini ezingazinzanga. Kwelinye icala kuthintela ukukhulelwa okungafunekiyo, kwaye kwelinye, kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu, kwezifo ezosulela ngokwabelana ngesondo (STDs). Uninzi lwabantu abancinci, xa belahla ukusetyenziswa kwayo, kungenxa yokuba "kufuneka banxibe" ngelixa besabelana ngesondo. Ikhondom yabasetyhini, kwelinye icala, inokubekwa ukuya kuthi ga kwiiyure ezisi-8 ngaphambi kokuba wabelane ngesondo, ke oku akusasiso isizathu.
Kukho ezinye izinto zokucwangcisa ezingezizo iindlela zokuthintelaezinje ngeepilisi zolawulo lokuzalwa, inaliti ye-progestin, i-IUD, iringi yelungu lobufazi, okanye ukufakelwa kwesikhumba. Ezi abazithinteli izifo ezidluliselwa ngeentlobano zesini, Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba siyigxininise kubantwana bethu, kubo nakubo.
Baye kakhulu esebenzayo ekukhuseleni ukukhulelwa, kwaye akukho mfuneko yokuba babeke iliso kubo yonke imihla, kodwa banokuba neziphumo ebezingalindelekanga kumantombazana. Zonke ezi ndlela kufuneka bajongwe ngugqirha. Ungaluqinisa unxibelelwano nentombi yakho ngokuyikhumbuza ukuba indwendwele ugqirha wezifo zabasetyhini okanye yahlolwa.
Cacisa iintsomi kunye neentsomi zasedolophini
Kwi-intanethi, uthungelwano lwasentlalweni kunye nabahlobo ngokwabo banokuhambisa iifayile ze- ulwazi oluphosakeleyo nolungenabungqina bokuthintela ukukhulelwa Oko kunokuba yingozi kakhulu. Njengomama kufuneka senze ingxelo engqongqo.
Ngale ndlela, kufuneka sicacisele abantwana bethu ukuba iindlela ezingasebenziyo ukukhusela ukukhulelwa zizinto ezifana nokusela ilamuni eninzi, ukutya ii-ovules zangasese, ukubeka i-aspirin kwilungu lobufazi, ukuthatha iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zengca, ukuzila ukutya, ukuhlamba kwilungu lobufazi ngeviniga netyuwa ...
Kubalulekile ukuba bazi ukuba kuzo zonke iindawo zokungena kwilungu lobufazi kunokwenzeka ukuba ukhulelwe, ukubuyela umva kungakuthinteli ukukhulelwa, kwaye akuncedi nto ukuthatha ipilisi yokuthintela ukukhulelwa kuphela ngomhla wokwabelana ngesondo.
Ngokubanzi, abakwishumi elivisayo abakwishumi elivisayo bakholelwa ukuba izinto zokuthintela ukukhulelwa luxanduva lweqabane labo labasetyhini. Kufuneka sifundise kwaye sifundise abantu abatsha kuyo uxanduva kunye Zombini izini.