Ixesha lokuhlamba linokuba lixesha elihle lokonwaba kosapho, ingakumbi kweyona incinci indlu. Lixesha lokuphumla, ukudlala kunye nokufumanisa uburhabaxa obutsha, iikhonsepthi kunye neemvakalelo (ukusuka ekutyibilikeni kwesepha eluswini, ukuya kwincasa yayo (engazukulunga xa ugweba intetho yabantwana emva kwesepha encinci umlomo ungaqondanga).
Kodwa ayingabo bonke abantwana abonwabela ixesha lokuhlamba. Ngapha koko, inokuba lidabi elikhulu ukuba abanye abazali bathathe iingelosi zabo ezincinci bazise ebhafini ekupheleni kosuku ... I-Tantrums inokuba sisalathiso sokuba abafuni kuhlamba, ke ukutshintsha oku, uya kuthi kufuneka nditshintshe indlela abantwana abaqonda ngayo ixesha lokuhlamba. Inokuba lixesha elimnandi kakhulu kunye nelonwabisayo.
Ungaphoswa yile mivundla ukuze ixesha lokuhlambela libe ngcono, libe mnandi kwaye nokuba umntwana wakho ngalo lonke ixesha ethinta indlu yangasese, ufuna nje ukuba kunye nawe kwaye abe nexesha elimnandi ... Ngelixa indlu yakhe yangasese isabaluleke kakhulu, kunjalo.
Igumbi lokuhlambela elinomxholo
Igumbi lokuhlambela elinomxholo lilungele eyona ndlu incinci endlwini, ngakumbi kwabo banovalo ngexesha lokuhlamba okanye boyika amanzi. Iseshoni ye-spa kunye nezinto zakho zokudlala zamanzi ozithandayo zinokwenza imimangaliso. Igumbi lokuhlambela elinemixholo efana 'negumbi lokuhlambela amadada' (ngamadada erabha) unokwenza umahluko kwaye omncinci wakho unqwenela ixesha lokuhlamba.
Iibhola zesepha
Qiniseka ukuba yisepha engaginyisi amehlo kwaye ngombhobho onepompero unokwenza amaqamza ngexesha lokuhlamba. Uluvo lokuba umntwana wakho uza kuthanda kuba iisepha ziyamnandi kwaye sonke siyayithanda. Ukuba umntwana wakho uyazi indlela yokuvuthela, kunokwenzeka ukuba naye ufuna ukubenza. Kumnandi kwaye uya kuba nexesha elimnandi. Yintoni egqithisile, ukuvuthela ukwenza isepha amaqamza kuyehla kakhulu.
Igumbi lokuhlambela nabazalwana
Kukho abantwana abanolwalamano olukhulu nabantakwabo abadala okanye abancinci. Ngale ndlela, umbono wokonga ixesha kunye namandla kukuhlamba abantwana bakho kunye, (babini ngababini ubuninzi). Abantwana banokuba nexesha elimnandi kunye emanzini. Kodwa khumbula ukuba uyakuhlala ulindile kwaye ecaleni kwakhe ukujonga ukuba yonke into ilungile.
Nokuba omnye wabantwana bakho mdala kancinci, ungaze umvumele ukuba anyamekele umntwana wakho okanye umntwana omncinci emanzini. Iintsana zingarhaxwa ngamanzi ukuya kuthi ga kwi-3 cm yamanzi… Ke ngexesha lokuhlamba, uya kusoloko kufuneka ujonge ukuqinisekisa ukuba abantwana bakho bakhuselekile ngamaxesha onke.
Amava emizwa
Oku kubaluleke ngakumbi kubantwana abancinci. Ungabandakanya imibala eyahlukeneyo kwigumbi lokuhlambela elinokonwabela umntwana wakho. Ayinamsebenzi nokuba ziziponji ezenziwe ngezinto ezahlukeneyo okanye izinto zokudlala, okona kubalulekileyo kukuzama ukuba umntwana wakho uza kuba nakho ngexesha lokuhlamba. Bangabaphicothi abancinci kwaye nantoni na efumanisa izinto ezintsha iya kuba ntle.
Iibrashi, iisepha, iibhaluni ezinomoya ... Ungajika ixesha lokuhlamba libe lelokufumanisa kwaye lelona xesha limnandi ukonwaba nomama okanye notata.
Fihla uze ufune izinto zokudlala
Ngale nto uzakufuna amaqamza ebhafini, okanye iziponji ezahlukeneyo ezinobungakanani obahlukeneyo kunye namalaphu okuhlamba ukufihla iithoyi. Vumela umntwana wakho azifihle iithoyi ngelixa wena okanye ungazifihla kwaye uzikhangele kunye kamva. Ngumdlalo ungangxami ufumane iinqanawa zabaphangi ozifihlileyo ...
Emva koko, xa ujonga iithoyi, zive ukhululekile ukuba nomsindo kancinci ukuze umntwana wakho ahleke kwaye onwabe. Izinto ezifihliweyo ziyimfihlakalo, kodwa xa ifunyenwe ... yeyona nto imnandi!
Ibhafu egcwele amagwebu
Ngubani ongathandi ibhafu yokuhlambela? Oku kuhlala kumnandi kubazali nakubantwana bayo nayiphi na iminyaka. I-foam ilungele ukwenza iindevu okanye iinwele eziphambeneyo ezihamba namanzi amancinci ... I-foam inika iindlela ezininzi zokonwabela ibhafu emnandi. Yintoni egqithisile, Uya kuba nakho ukuthatha eyona mifanekiso imnandi ngeli xesha lokuhlamba oya kuthanda ukuyibona xa ixesha lihamba.
Iincwadi zexesha lokuhlamba
Ngokucacileyo ngekhe ubeke iincwadi zamaphepha okanye amakhadibhodi ebhafini, kufuneka zibe ziincwadi ezizodwa ukuze zikwazi ukumanzi kwaye umntwana wakho omncinci onwabele ixesha lakhe lokuhlamba. Abantwana bayathanda ukuba bafundelwe amabali kwaye babone imifanekiso ezincwadini. Kukho neencwadi ezinesandi esithandayo ukuba angathanda ukufunda kunye nawe amaxesha ngamaxesha.
Umculo kwigumbi lokuhlambela
Ixesha lokuhlamba linokuba lixesha elihle lomculo. Ungacula kwishawari, kwigumbi lokuhlambela, ubeke umculo ukucula kunye, ukhethe iingoma ... Olunye uluvo kukusebenzisa intloko yeshawa njengemakrofoni kwaye ikuvumele ukonwabele iingoma ezenziwe okanye ezidlalwayo kwisidlali somculo. Ayinamsebenzi ukuba ucula kakuhle okanye kakubi ... Into ebalulekileyo kukuba nobabini ninexesha elimnandi ngexesha lokuhlamba.
Usapho ngalunye lwahlukile kwaye eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba wenza ezinye iinkqubo zemihla ngemihla zokuhlamba. Ngale ndlela, umntwana wakho uya kwazi ukuba uye nini kwigumbi lokuhlambela kwaye uya kukwazi ukuziqhelanisa naloo mikhwa. Kananjalo, ukuba naye uyazi ukuba xa esiya kuhlamba ixesha uya konwaba kunye nawe. Kancinci kancinci, umntwana wakho uya kuziqhelanisa nokwazi ukuba lifanelekile nini ixesha lokuhlamba kwaye uya kukhululeka kungekuphela kokonwaba, kodwa nangenxa yokuba uya kuchitha ixesha elifanelekileyo kunye nawe.