I-Montessori pedagogy yenzelwe abantu abaninzi ukuba babe ngumgangatho ekukhuliseni abantwana. Nangona kuyinyani ukuba kukho abo bangagqibi ukwamkela uninzi lweembono zabo, ezinje ngokuzimela kunye nenkululeko yomntwana xa kuziwa ekufundeni, iseyindlela esinokufunda kuyo izinto ezinkulu.
Indlela asinike yona uMaria Montessori kumava akhe njengoGqirha, umhlohli kunye nengcali kwilizwe labantwana, iza iluncedo, umzekelo, ukufunda izikhokelo ezithile mihla le neentsana eziphakathi kweminyaka emi-6 neli-12 ubudala. Wonke umntu ukhululekile ukuba angazithatha okanye cha, kodwa kunjalo, Ikwangumbono apho singafundisa abantwana abazimeleyo, abakwaziyo ukonwaba. Ngoko ke kufanelekile ukuyithathela ingqalelo, kwaye ekubeni «Madres hoy» siyakumema ukuba uyifumane.
I-Montessori pedagogy: iziseko zokufundisa abantwana bethu
Unokufunda iincwadi ezininzi malunga nokufundisa nokukhulisa abantwana. Ukufundisa kunye nokuba ngumama ophilayo yinto entle ayincedi nje ukufundisa abantwana bethu, ikwasinceda nokuzityebisa njengoomama.
Ukuhlala ugcina iMontessori pedagogy engqondweni mihla le kuya kusivumela ukuba sinxibelelane nabantwana bethu ngendlela esondeleyo., kumnandi kwaye kugcwele apho uya konwaba. Amazembe asisiseko asishiyileyo uMaría Montessori "kwimfundiso yakhe yenkululeko" edumileyo inokushwankathelwa kwezi ndawo:
- Iingqondo zabantwana zenziwe ngeplastiki emangalisayo kwaye banomdla wokufunda. Le yinto sonke esiyaziyo. Iingqondo zeentsana zinomdla wokufunda, kumava, apho naluphi na uvuselelo oluya kuzinceda zikhule kwaye zenze njengabantu. l
- Kufuneka sinikele ingqalelo kwinto ebizwa ngokuba "ngamaxesha abuthathaka"Kubalulekile ukuba ukhumbule ukuba ukusukela ngexesha lokuzalwa kwabantwana bade babe neminyaka emi-6 ubudala, baya kuva elona nqanaba linzima kuphuhliso lwabo. Ngamaxesha apho baya kwamkela ngakumbi, kwaye apho uncedo lwakho njengomama lubalulekile.
- Imeko-bume eyilelweyo: njengoko sele uyazi, lonke uvuselelo lucinga umanyano lwe-neural kwingqondo yomntwana, yiyo ke loo nto imfundo edibeneyo. Kungenxa yoko Kuya kufaneleka kakhulu ukuba imeko-bume eyilelwe ukukhuthaza ukukhuthaza ngakumbi emntwaneni.
- Indima yakho njengesikhokelo kubomi bemihla ngemihla bomntwana wakho ibalulekile: uyinxalenye yobomi nokukhula komntwana wakho. Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kukukhuthaza ukukhula kunye nokuzimela komntwana yonke imihla, kwaye ungumququzeleli wakhe, isikhokelo sakhe esona silungileyo.
Uyilungiselela njani eyona ndawo ibalaseleyo yokufunda ebantwaneni bakho
Mhlawumbi into yokuqala oyicingileyo xa ufunda le ... Kodwa izakuxabisa malini kum? Musa ukuphaphazela, ukuhlengahlengisa indlu ukuze utyebise ukukhula kweentsana kufuna ukucinga okungakumbi kunokubekelwa ecaleni kwemali.
Isiseko esisisiseko kukubonelela ngolona hlobo lukhulu lwezinto ezishukumisayo emntwaneni, zihlala ngendlela ekhuselekileyo kunokwenzeka, ukuthintela zonke iintlobo zobungozi. Ukwenza oku, gcina ezi ngcebiso zilandelayo engqondweni:
- Izinto zokudlala kunye nezinto zomntwana kufuneka zihlale zifikeleleka kubude bazo.
- Uku-odola kubalulekile. Kufuneka sikhathazeke yonke imihla ukuba yonke into isendaweni yayo, kwaye xa umdlalo ugqityiwe, kufuneka simncede umntwana ayibeke kwindawo yokudlala okanye abone ukuba siyenza njani.
- Vumela ukuba ibekho kwimisebenzi yakho. Ukuba uyacoca, nceda umyeke achukumise loo mtshayelo, eweukuba uyapheka mayimnukise ukutya, mlumkise ngemingcipheko, mbonise ukuba wenza njani.
- Iya kuba yinto enomdla ukuba kwigumbi lokuhlala lendlu okanye kwigumbi lakho, ubeke ingubo enkulu okanye ityali njengendawo yokwenza izinto ezisisiseko. Apha sibeka izinto ezikhuthazayo kunye nezinto zabo zokudlala.
Eyona midlalo mihle yemihla ngemihla ngokweMontessori pedagogy
Ayinamsebenzi nokuba abantwana bakho baneminyaka eyohlukeneyo. Ngokwe-Montessori pedagogy, abantwana abakwiminyaka eyahlukeneyo banokuzityebisa, bafumane uxanduva kwaye bafunde. Musa ukoyika ukubeka umntwana wakho kwinkampani yabantwana bakho abadala. Amava aya kuba mnandi kakhulu.
Idrowa yobuncwane
Endlini siyakuhlala sinebhokisi yethu yobuncwane. Ingayi ibhokisi elula apho yonke imihla siza kubeka izinto ezintsha ekufuneka abantwana bazifumanise:
- Khetha izinto ezikhuthazayo kunye nemibala eqinileyo.
- Kulumkele iplastiki, iinkuni, ilaphu liya kuhlala lingcono ...
- Kufuneka zibe zizinto ezikhuthaza ukulungelelaniswa kwamehlo
- Ungabeka ukutya, okunje ngama-apile, iziqwenga zesonka, ukuze babe namava amatsha.
Sidlala ukufihla kwaye sifuna ukukhuthaza unxibelelwano
Uluvo olukhulu lwendlela yeMontessori ukukhuthaza umdla, ulwimi kunye nokufunyanwa kosana, kukudlala ngokuzimela.
- Singazifihla kulaa rug okanye ingubo apho umntwana akhoyo, into yokudlala. Mbuze ukuba uphi, umvuselele ngamazwi nangezimbo zomzimba.
- Kuxhomekeke kubudala bakho, siya kubeka kwinqanaba elinye lobunzima. Umbono uhlala ukhuthaza ukuthanda kwabo ukwazi, ukuzimela kwabo xa bekhangela kunye nonxibelelwano lwabo nathi.
Oonodoli kunye noonodoli
Ngokuqinisekileyo unamalungu angaphezu kwelinye ekhaya. Oonodoli kunye noonodoli yindlela entle yokudibana neentsana zethu ukufumana yonke le milinganiselo:
- Bamba ingqalelo yabo
- Khuthaza ulwimi lwabo
- Ukuphucula ukucinga kwabo xa sele befumene izakhono zonxibelelwano. Umbono iya kuba kukubamema ukuba benze amabali, iimeko, iingxoxo.
- Siphucula ubudlelwane nabantwana bethu.
Imidlalo enxulumene nobomi obusebenzayo
Ukufundisa abantwana isidingo sokuba noxanduva kwaye babe ngabantu abadala, umbono olungileyo kukukhuthaza umdlalo onxulumene nobomi obusebenzayo.
- Ayisiyiyo kwaphela malunga nokubabeka ukupheka okanye ukutshintsha ivili lemoto. Kufuneka bangaze balahlekelwe yimvakalelo yokuba bayadlala, ukubaluleka kukuba baziva bekhululekile "bedlala ukuba babe badala."
- Banike umtshayelo omncinci kwaye ubavumele batshayele iibhola, iimabhile, okanye oonodoli. Imalunga nokudlala kodwa ufumane izakhono ezisebenzayo.
- Mabangene ekhitshini kunye nawe balungiselele umzekelo isaladi okanye ikeyiki elulaokanye. Akukho nto yenzekayo ukuba isiphumo asifanelekanga ukutya, mabadibane noburhabaxa, amavumba kunye neencasa. Konwabele ukudlala imidlalo yabantu abadala.
Umbono osisiseko kukuba babona umhlaba wabantu abadala njengento eqhelekileyo. Kwaye ukuze siqole kwaye sizimele kufuneka sivumele ukuba baphonononge, bazame, bachukumise ... Into ebalulekileyo kukuba usisikhokelo ngawo onke amaxesha kwaye ukhuthaza ukuhamba kwabo kunye nomnqweno wabo wokulinga.
Logama yonke imeko yasekhaya ilawulwa kwaye kungekho bungozi, siya kukhuseleka. Ukusuka apho injongo yethu kukukhokela ngaphandle kokugweba. Sukuba ngulo mama uhlala esenza ezi mpazamo zilandelayo:
- Benze lula ubomi babo ngokuchola iithoyi zabo, bebenzela umsebenzi wesikolo.
- Ukuthintela ukuba benze oku nokuya ngenxa yokoyika izinto ezithile ezenzekayo. Ukubaxeka okugqithisileyo kunika umhlaba kubantwana abangakhuselekanga. Akukho nto yenzekayo ukuba bayalahla iglasi yamanzi, ukuba bayangcola ngesityalo abafuna ukusijoja.
Mababaleke, bangcolise, bawe kwaye bavuke. Ubomi kukuzama kwaye ufunde ngokudlala ukuze izibophelelo ezizayo ngomsoa, Ijongeka ngathi yinto eqhelekileyo. Yonwabela la mava kwaye ungathandabuzi ukuzama ukufundisa iMontessori.
ukuba unomdla eMontessori bona kwakhona Montessori abantwana ukususela kwiminyaka emi-3 ukuya ku-6 ubudala