I-Onychophagia: ungabathintela njani abantwana ekulumeni iinzipho zabo

Sele sithethile kweli nqaku malunga onychophagia. Yintoni le nto, ithetha ntoni, inokwenzeka unobangela kunye neziphumo. Ukuba inkwenkwe okanye intombazana yakho ingomnye wabo baluma iinzipho zabo, kweli nqaku siza kukunika iingcebiso ukuze bazame ukungazenzi. Kodwa khumbula into ebesiyithetha, enye into kukuluma iinzipho zakho kwaye enye ube ne-onychophagia, ethi ibe ngumkhwa oqhubekayo kwaye onzulu kwiimeko ezininzi unxulunyaniswa nezinye iingxaki.

Ngaphandle kweengxaki zobuhle, ukuluma iinzipho zakho kunokubangela ezinye Ukurhoxa ekuhlaleni, kuba inkwenkwe okanye intombazana iziva ineentloni xa ibonisa izandla, kwaye ikhokelela kuthotho lokukhubazeka, kokubini eminwe nasemlonyeni.

Ngaba amantombazana okanye amakhwenkwe aluma iinzipho zawo ngakumbi?

Ewe, onychophagia, ukuluma isikhonkwane Akazi ubudala okanye isondo. Phantse iipesenti ezingama-30 zabantwana abaphakathi kweminyaka emi-4 ukuya kweli-10 ubudala baluma iinzipho zabo. Lo mkhwa mbi uneepesenti eziphezulu ngexesha lokufikisa, amakhwenkwe namantombazana. Ukuya kuthi ga kwiipesenti ezingama-50 zabantu abancinci bavame ukuluma iinzipho, inani elinciphayo emva kweminyaka eyi-18, xa i-15% yabemi iligcina. Ewe ewe, kukho amadoda amaninzi kunabafazi abaluma iinzipho zabo. Nangona kunjalo, njengoko ugqirha engaqhelekanga kuboniswane kwesi sifo, kukho idatha yedatha kuphela yamatyala anzima.

Inyaniso yokuba kukho ngakumbi abakwishumi elivisayo kunye nabantu abadala abaqhubeka nokuluma iinzipho zabo Kungenxa yokuba ngokwesiko bekukho ukugxininisa ngakumbi kumantombazana, kunye namantombazana, ukuyeka ukuluma iinzipho "bekungekho kubafazi." Izandla zabasetyhini zihlala zingumqondiso wobuhle kunye nokwamkelwa eluntwini.

Sukuyalela ukuba uqhubeke nokugcina lo mkhwa mbi, ngenxa nje ye- umbuzo wokuxelisa, ukubona umntu okusingqongileyo eluma iinzipho zakhe. Okanye njengokuziphatha okufundileyo kwimeko yokuthandabuza, okanye yoxinzelelo.

Iingcebiso ukuze abantwana bakho bangazilumi iinzipho zabo

Into yokuqala kukuqinisekisa abantwana ukuba kuphela amandla abo aya kubenza baphumelele. Njengokuziphatha okunxulunyaniswa novalo, susa iziselo ezinomdla, iswekile eninzi nayo yonke into enokubangela uxinzelelo ekudleni kwakho. Ukusuka kule ndawo yokujonga, ukumiliselwa okuthile, ubisi olushushu ebusuku kunye nezinye iindlela kuya kunciphisa uxinzelelo lwakho.

Elinye iqhinga onokumxelela lona kukuba ngaphambi kokuluma iinzipho zakho, kufuneka uhlambe izandla zakho. Mhlawumbi isenzo esilula sokuba izandla zakho zimanzi ziya kuwususa umnqweno wakho. Kwiimeko ezinzima kakhulu unako beka iipleyiti kuyo okanye amakhasethi kwizikhonkwane ukuthintela ukuhlafuna.

Kulo iikhemesti kunye namayeza esintu uza kufumana iiglasi ezikhethekileyo ezinencasa eyoyikekayo. Ngaphambi kokutya iinzipho zakho kwakhona, umntwana wakho uya kucinga kabini, ngokufanayo nokuba uziphulula iinzipho ngechillies okanye igalikhi, kodwa eyona nto iphakanyiswayo yialoe vera, ekwanencasa engathandekiyo.

Unyango lwe-onychophagia

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Ukubethelwa kwenzipho ukuba ayimelanga akukho ngozi zempilo yengqondo ezinokunyangwa ekhaya, ngamayeza namaqhinga asifundisa wona oomakhulu kwaye sithethile ngawo kuwe.

Kodwa ukuba esi sifo siqala ukunxulunyaniswa nezinye iimpawu, ezinje ngesidingo sokwenza oko ukukhupha uxinzelelo okanye izizathu Ukuwohloka kobudlelwane boluntu, emva koko sicebisa ukuba uye kwingcali ukunceda unyana okanye intombi yakho ukuba ilawule olo loyiko kunye noxinzelelo olubangelwa yile okanye yile meko

Nokuba yeyiphi indlela, eyona nto ilungileyo kukusebenzisa iindlela zokuziphatha ezinceda umntwana ukuba adibanise isenzo sokuluma iinzipho zakhe nento engathandekiyo, umzekelo incasa engalunganga, ukuze bayeke ukuyenza ngakumbi okanye ngokulula. Akucetyiswa ukohlwaya abantwana abaluma iinzipho, okanye ukubopha izandla zabo ukuze bangakwenzi, kuba ezi meko ziphela zibangela uxinzelelo ngakumbi, kwaye baya kuyenza ngendlela efanayo xa benethuba ukongezwa kokuziva unetyala.


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