Amabele, amabele, amabele... Akukhathaliseki nokuba uwathiya liphi na igama, ukukhulelwa phantse kuqinisekisa utshintsho kwimilo kunye nobukhulu bayo. Kodwa njengoko oogqirha begxininisa ukuba ukukhulelwa konke kwahlukile, akukho kulindeleka okusemgangathweni malunga nokuba amabele akho aya kukhula ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Sekunjalo, unokucinga ukuba amabele akho akhulelweyo aya kuba makhulu kunokuba ayenjalo ngaphambi kokuba kuboniswe intonga eyongezelelweyo kuvavanyo lokukhulelwa. Okanye hayi?
Iihomoni zokukhulelwa, i-progesterone kunye ne-chorionic gonadotropin yomntu, ibangela ukwanda kwevolumu yegazi, okubangela ukuba izicubu zebele zidumbe. Kungenzeka ukuba oku kunyuka kunokunyuka ubungakanani beebra ezimbini kwiinyanga ezine zokuqala zokukhulelwa. Kodwa inyaniso kukuba akukho mgaqo jikelele xa kuziwa ekuqikeleleni ukuba amabele akho aya kwanda kangakanani yowesifazane ngexesha lokukhulelwa.
Kutheni ibele lam lingakhuli ngexesha lokukhulelwa?
ukwanda kwebele ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka kwiinyanga ezintathu okanye ezine zokuqala zokukhulelwa, kodwa oku kunokwahluka ukusuka kwelinye ukuya kwelinye. Abo basetyhini sele benebele elikhulu abanako ukubona naluphi na utshintsho, kodwa banokufumana ukwanda okukhulu. Noko ke, ukuphoxeka ngokuqhelekileyo kuvela kwelinye icala.
Abasetyhini abanamabele amancinci bahlala belindele ukubonisa i-cleavage ethile ngexesha lokukhulelwa, kodwa olo nyuso alusoloko luza. Xa kungekho tshintsho lwenzekayo, kudla ngokuba yinto exhalabisayo. Ngamanye amaxesha, nangona kunjalo, abafazi abanamabele amancinci bafumana ukwanda okukhulu. Ayinakwenzeka kwaphela utshintsho oluya kubangela ukukhulelwa emizimbeni.
Ngaba ndiya kukwazi ukuncancisa kakuhle ukuba amabele am awandi xa ndikhulelwe?
Kule meko, kuyinyaniso ukuba ubungakanani abunamsebenzi. Nangona ibele lakho lihlala lincinci nasemva kokubeleka, ukukwazi ukondla kukho. Ngoko ke, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kukwazi ukwanelisa iimfuno zesondlo somntwana wakho. Ngoko ukuba iphupha lakho kukuncancisa umntwana wakho, unokwenza kungakhathaliseki ukuba ubungakanani bebele lakho. Ngoko unokuyonwabela i ixesha lokuncancisa nosana lwakho ngaphandle kwengxaki. Umzimba wabo bonke abafazi ulungiselelwe lo mzuzu, ngoko qiniseka ukuba unokukwenza.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba uyathandabuza unokuxoxa ngezinto ezikuxhalabisayo malunga nokuncancisa nogqirha wakho. Kuya kuqinisekisa ukuba akukho ngxaki yokondla umntwana ngokwemvelo ngamabele amancinci. Ukuba unomdla, mhlawumbi baya kukuxelela ngezinye iindlela zokutyisa ukuze uzole ngokondla unyana okanye intombi yakho.
Ubungakanani abubalulekanga kangako
Njengoko sibonile, Kwabasetyhini abaninzi, ukukhulelwa kuthetha ukunyuka kwekomityi yebra ngaphandle kokuhlinzwa.. Olu lwando lunokuqhubeka ixesha elide emva kokuba umntwana ezelwe. amabele nawo inokuba novakalelo ngakumbi okanye banokulimaza, ngakumbi ngexesha lokuqala lokukhulelwa. Iihomoni zokukhulelwa, ezifana ne-estrogen kunye neprogesterone, zisebenza ukwakha izicubu ezinamafutha angaphezulu, ukwandisa ukuhamba kwegazi, kwaye zibangele olunye utshintsho kwibele ukuzilungiselela ukondla usana xa luzelwe.
Nangona kunjalo, ayingabo bonke oomama abaza kuba notshintsho olukhulu kumabele abo ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Iingcali azisazi ngokuthe ngqo ukuba kutheni, kodwa inokuthi inento yokwenza nesixa seehomoni ezichaphazela amabele. Kodwa akukho sizathu sokukhathazeka, kuba ukuba amabele akho awakhuli ngexesha lokukhulelwa, ngokuqinisekileyo baya kuthi emva kokunikezelwa, xa ubisi lwakho lungena.
Ukuba amabele angakhuli ngexesha lokukhulelwa akuyona into engaqhelekanga. Inyaniso, kukho inkolelo ethandwayo yokuba ukuba amabele awakhuli kakhulu ngexesha lokukhulelwa luphawu lokuba uza kuba nenkwenkwe.. Nokuba uyakholelwa kwezi ziqikelelo okanye awuzikholelwa, akuthandabuzeki ukuba ukuba kudlule isizukulwana emva kwesizukulwana kungenxa yokuba le nkxalabo ibisoloko ikhona. Okucacayo kukuba yinto ethi, nangona ingalindelekanga, inokwenzeka kwaye ayilulo uphawu lokuba kukho undonakele.