Ukukhusela uxinzelelo lwabantwana yinxalenye esisiseko yefilosofi yaseMontessori. Iiklasi zaseMontessori zinika abantwana iibhloko ezinkulu zexesha elingenakuphazanyiswa, zihlala iiyure ezintathu. Oku kuvumela abantwana ukuba bakhulise ingqwalaselo enzulu, ungaphazanyiswa kuba ishedyuli ithi lixesha lokuqhubeka nokufunda enye into.
Kunokulinga ukuvuyisana nomntwana osebenza ngokumangalisayo, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kwanokudibana namehlo kwanele ukophula ukugxila kwakhe. Ngexesha elizayo xa uhamba nomntwana wakho ngelixa egxile ekuzobeni umfanekiso okanye ekwakheni inqaba, zama ukuhamba endaweni yokumxelela ukuba umhle kangakanani. Unokwenza inqaku ngengqondo kwaye Mxelele kamva ukuba uqaphele ukuba wayejolise kwindalo yakhe kangangokuba wawuthanda ukumbona kakuhle.
Ukongeza kuxinzelelo, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba kwifilosofi yaseMontessori ngumntu omdala ekufuneka elandele umntwana ekufundeni kwakhe. Umntu omdala sisikhokelo kuphela esinika amandla kuye ukuze inkuthazo yakhe yokufunda ivele ngaphakathi. Yithemba ukuba umntwana ngamnye ukwikamva lakhe lokukhula ngaphakathi, esenza into ngesizathu.
Oku kusikhumbuza ukuba sijonge izizathu zokuziphatha. Isikhumbuza ukuba ayingabo bonke abantwana abaya kuhamba kwenye okanye bafunde ezine. Ukulandela umntwana kuthetha ukukhumbula ukuba umntwana ngamnye wahlukile kwaye uneemfuno ezizezakhe, inkanuko kunye nezipho. nokuba afundiswe kwaye akhokelwe ngokufanelekileyo.
Ukuba awukwazi ukwenza umntwana wakho anomdla wokufunda, zama ukubona ukuba ufuna ntoni; Ukuba uthanda ukuhlekisa, kusenokwenzeka ukuba incwadi yeqhula yiyo ebangela umdla wakho, hayi eyakudala yabantwana onayo engqondweni. Khumbula "ukulandela umntwana wakho" inokukunceda ukuba uyibone ngendlela eyahlukileyo kwaye usebenze nayo kunokuba uchasane nayo.