Abantu baseNarcissistic ngabantu abacinga ukuba bangaphezulu kwabanye, Banovelwano oluncinci kwaye bayakuxabisa impumelelo yabanye, besithi bangcono. Bacinga ukuba amalungelo abo abaluleke ngaphezu kwamanye. Abantwana abakhuliswa ngumzali othanda ukusebenzisa iziyobisi bakhula bedidekile, bengasiqondi isizathu sokuba babaphathe ngolu hlobo.
Ukuba iqabane lakho lingumntu othanda ukusebenzisa iziyobisi, awunakumtshintsha, kodwa ungagxila ekuzameni ukuba nobudlelwane obukhuselekileyo nobunothando nabantwana, ukuze ifuthe elibi lokuziphatha kwakhe lincitshiswe.
Ukuba, umzekelo, umntwana uziva kakubi ngempendulo embi evela kumzali wakhe ongathandekiyo, ungatsho ibinzana elinje: 'Ujongeke wonzakala xa utata ekuxelela ukuba imizobo yakhe yesikolo ibhetele kunale yakho. Ngamanye amaxesha uTata uyalibala ukuqonda iimvakalelo zabanye kwaye ayilunganga. Uziva njani? '.
Ukongeza, unokuba luncedo ekusekeni izinto ezingenakuthethathethana kunye neendlela zokwenza yonke usapho, nokuba ngumzali oyinaricist. Kwaye ngelixa kunokuba nzima, abazali abaninzi abakhulisa abantwana nomntu onale ngxaki yobuntu bahlala befumana izisombululo ezenza izinto zibe lula. Umzekelo, unokuthi kumzali othanda ukusebenzisa iziyobisi: 'Abantwana bakho bayathanda ukukubona ubonwabisa ngelixa udlala ibhola ekhatywayo.'
Kukho abo bacinga ukuba amaqabane abo ayathandana, nangona kunjalo, ukuba ngumntu onzima okanye ozithandayo akuthethi kuthi umntu unesifo sokungaziphathi kakuhle esihlala sivela kwingxaki yobuntwana engasebenziyo kunyango.
Abantu abangamaNarcissistic bazifumana bevaleleke kwiimvakalelo zokujongela phantsi abazama ukuziguqula kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke, kwiimvakalelo zabo ezihlala zibuhlungu, nokuba bazama ukuyifihla. Emva komaleko wobungangamsha kunye nokuzixabisa kulele ukungazithembi okukhulu, kodwa iindlela zokhuselo ziphantse zangenelela. Ukuba ucinga ukuba uliqabane elingumzali kunye ne-narcissist yokwenyani, funda ngakumbi ngale ngxaki kwaye ufumane inkxaso ukuze impilo yakho yeemvakalelo ibe ntle kwaye abantwana bakho bakhuliswe ngokulinganayo.