Iimpawu ezi-3 zokuxhaphaza abantwana kumabanga aphantsi

Ukuxhatshazwa esikolweni samabanga aphantsi

Unyaka omtsha wesikolo uqalile, abantwana bayo yonke iminyaka sele betywiliselwe kwimisebenzi, izifundo kunye nokufunda okutsha okuya kuthi kuncede ubomi babo. Kodwa ukongeza ekufundeni nasekukhuleni ukuze ube ngoochwephesha abaqeqeshiweyo kwikamva, abantwana bafunda esikolweni ukunxibelelana noontanga babo. Ukudlala nabanye abantwana kuyinxalenye yesikolo kwaye ngelishwa, Kwiimeko ezininzi kumdlalo apho iqala khona Ukuxhatshazwa.

Kwiminyaka yakutshanje, ukuxhaphaza iyeyona nto iphambili kubazali. Akukho mntwana ukhululekile kolu hlobo lomonakalo, kwiimeko ezininzi awunakulungiswa. Ke ngoko, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba sizilumkele iimpawu esizithunyelwa ngabancinci. Kungenxa yokuba umntwana wakho woyika ukuthetha ngokukhululekileyo kuwe, nokuba unokuzithemba kangakanani.

Ukumamela abantwana kubalulekile, nangona kunokubonakala ngathi abathethi nto ibalulekileyo, amazwi abo anokukunceda ukuba umazi ngokunzulu umntwana wakho. Kwakhona kuya kufuneka unike ingqalelo kwindlela abaziphethe ngayo, njenge naluphi na utshintsho kubuntu bakho inokubonisa into ebalulekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukwahlula into yokuhlukumeza kwinto engeyiyo.

Yintoni ukuxhatshazwa?

Intombazana ehluphekayo kwiklasi

Abantwana bayalwa, into yokuqala ekufuneka uyenzile kukuba oku kunjalo nokuba unyana okanye intombi yakho inesimilo esihle kwaye awuzange umbone esilwa. Mhlawumbi ngenye imini Unyana wakho ukuxelele ukuba uye walwa nenye inkwenkwe, okanye banomsindo kuba bobabini bafuna ukudlala ngento yokudlala. Kule meko, awuzukuyinika ukubaluleka ngakumbi kwimeko yokuqala.

Ngokubanzi, le milo iyodwa kwaye kwiintsuku ezimbalwa abantwana bayazilibala kwaye babe ngabahlobo kwakhona. Enye into eyahlukileyo kukuthukwa, ukugculelwa, izoyikiso okanye uhlaselo. Olu hlobo lokuziphatha luyaphindwa, kujika kube kukuxhaphaza xa kuqhelekile. Nangona kunjalo, awufanelanga ukuwutyeshela umlo olula, njengoko unokujika nje ube kukungcungcuthekisa.

La ixhoba lokuxhatshazwa ngesiqhelo tshintsha indlela oziphatha ngayo ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, ezi zezinye iiflegi ezibomvu.

Utshintsho kwindlela oziphethe ngayo

Eyona nto ikhuselekileyo lolu tshintsho lwenzeka ngendlela eqhubela phambili, umntwana uya kutshintsha ngokuthe ngcembe isimo sakhe. Uya kuba madolw 'anzima ukuya esikolweni, uya kuzama ukunqanda ukuya eklasini ngezizathu ezifana nokugula ngesiquphe. Unokumqaphela ukuba woyika kwaye akaphumli, kwiimeko ezininzi bathetha nje ngesikolo okanye benze umsebenzi wesikolo.

Xa imeko imbi kakhulu, umntwana angafumana iziqendu zoxinzelelo. Oku kunokubangela ukukhala ngequbuliso, ukugabha kunye neengxaki ezahlukeneyo zomzimba ezivela kwimithambo-luvo.

Iingxaki zokutya

Intombazana encinci phambi kweplate yemifuno

Olunye lweempawu ezixhaphakileyo kubantwana abaxhatshazwayo lutshintsho ngexesha lokutya. Ngokubanzi, umntwana ulahlekelwe ngumdla wokutya kunye namaxesha esidlo sesinye isizathu ixhala kancinane. Ngokufanayo, imithambo-luvo inokubangela ukuba umntwana azinkcinkce ngokutya ngenxa yoxinzelelo.


Iimpawu ezibonakalayo zokuxhaphaza

Iimpawu ezibonakalayo ziyabonakala, nangona azisoloko zingumqondiso wokuhlukunyezwa ngenxa yoko kufuneka ulumke ngazo. Ukuba uphawula ukukrwela, amanqaku okuluma, amanxeba okanye nawuphina umonzakalo, buza umntwana wakho uzolile. Zola ukuze umntwana azole kwaye azive ekhululekile xa ethetha nawe. Isenokuba sisiphumo sokulwa kube kanye, ukuwa kwiyadi yesikolo okanye kwimeko eyedwa.

Ngayiphi na imeko, qiniseka ukuba ayiphindaphindwa yonke imihla kuba kulondlela umntwana wakho angalixhoba lokuxhatshazwa.

Nangona kunjalo, iimpawu ezibonakalayo, nangona zicacile, ayisoloko ingumqondiso wokuqala wesilumkiso. Ukuxhaphaza kudla ngokuqala ngomlomo. Ngokuthukwa, ukugculelwa, ubuqhetseba obuchazwe sisikolo njlnjl., Konke oku kubangela ukonakala okukhulu emntwaneni. Umonakalo ngelishwa kwiimeko ezininzi, akunakwenzeka ukuba uwulungise.


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