Iimpazamo ezenziwe ngexesha lokususa i-diaper

Koomama abaninzi notata abaninzi inkqubo yokususa i-diaper kunokuba ngumceli mngeni omkhulu. Kodwa ayifanelanga ukuba njalo, enyanisweni, abazali akufuneki benze ngaphezulu kokukhokela abantwana babo kule nkqubo kuba yinto yendaleko eya kuhamba nokukhula komntwana. Kukho abantwana abakwaziyo ukuzikhulula kwindlu yangasese kwiminyaka emibini ubudala, ngelixa abanye ukuya kuthi ga kwiminyaka emi-4 ubudala bakhetha ukhuseleko lwe-diaper, kwaye akukho nto yenzekayo.

Kodwa kuyenzeka ukuba uninzi loomama baziva benoxinzelelo xa abantwana besuka enkulisa besiya esikolweni kwaye kubonakala ngathi ngequbuliso ukungxama ukufikelela kuyo kuyaqala. Xa abanye ofunda nabo kwigumbi lokugcina abantwana beqala ukushiya amanabukeni kubazali, ixhala lingena kubo, ngaba singayiphumeza? Yinkqubo ecothayo ekufuneka inganyanzelwanga, Kungenxa yoko le nto kufuneka kuthathelwe ingqalelo ezinye zeempazamo ezihlala zenziwa ukuthintela ukusukela ngoku. Ukungazenzi ezi mpazamo kubalulekile ukuze umntwana azive ekhuthazwa ukuba ayiphumeze, okoko bekhulile ngokwaneleyo.

Uqeqesho lwendlu yangasese yinkqubo yomntwana ngamnye kwaye into yokugqibela ekufuneka uyenzile kukuthelekisa isingqisho somnye umntwana kunye nesomnye, masiyeke sibangxamele! Kufuneka umjonge umntwana kwaye wazi ukuba ukulungele na okanye cha: ukuba uyahlula ukuba i-diaper yakhe imdaka, ukuba uyakwazi ukubamba ipee iyure (i-diaper eyomileyo), ukuba ucela ukuba uchame "kwindlu yangasese yomdala", njl.

Kukho abantwana abathi xa begqiba iminyaka emithathu babonakalise ukungakhathali kwindlu yangasese nangona onke amaqabane akhe engasenazo i-diapers. Kodwa bonke abantwana bafunda ukuya kwindlu yangasese, musa ukoyika ukuba abayi kuphumelela kuba ngokhokelo kunye nomonde wakho, baya kuphumelela. Kodwa ke ukuze inkqubo ingacothisi ngaphezulu kokuyimfuneko okanye ukuba umntwana angaziva edidekile, kubalulekile ukuba ungenzi iimpazamo.

Ukujonga ngaphezulu kwee-sphincters

Umntwana wakho uya kufezekisa uqeqesho lwangasese olukhuselekileyo, sukuyithathela ingqalelo, jolisa nje ekumkhokeleni ukuze akufezekise. Kungcono ulinde ukuba kwenzeke ngokwendalo. CHn umntwana wakho ulungile, yonke into iya kuba lula kakhulu, Ukuba utyekele kwaye uzama ukumenza ukuba akwenze ngaphambi kwexesha, inokukhathazeka kwaye into ekufuneka yenzekile ngokwendalo ijike ibe liphupha elibi, nobabini.

Ndiva ukuba uyasilela njengomama

Oomama nootata banoxanduva lokukhokela abantwana babo kuzo zonke iinkqubo zobomi, nakule ikwayenye. Uziva ngathi usilela njengomzali xa abanye abantwana besiya kwigumbi lokuhlambela ngaphambi kokuba umntwana wakho angabi yindlela elungileyo yokuhamba. Inyaniso kukuba umntwana ngamnye unesigqi sakhe kwaye uya kuphawula ixesha lakho. Ukuba umbona elungiselelwe, ungamenza abone ukubaluleka ukuya kwindlu yangasese kwaye umkhuthaze, kodwa ungamnyanzeli xa ubona ukuba uyonganyelwa, ngekhe usilele kuye! Wakhe wambona umntu omdala enxiba amanabukeni? Wonke umntu uyayifunda! Kungokwemvelo!

Ukucinga ukuba akukho ziphazamiso

Uqeqesho lwangasese luyafezekiswa, kodwa yinkqubo ende kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kunokubakho ukubuyela umva. Abanye abantwana abafundanga ukusebenzisa igumbi lokuhlambela de babonise umdla, abanye bathatha ithutyana kwaye abanye banokuzikhulula kuba bengalawule ngokwaneleyo indlu yangasese ... kodwa into ebalulekileyo kukuba umntwana ngamnye afunde ngokuhamba kwexesha kwaye umonde wakho kunye nothando ziya kuba ngundoqo kuyo yonke le nkqubo.

Jonga iingozi njengokungaphumeleli

Ukujonga abantwana xa bechama okanye bekhupha iingozi njengokungaphumeleli yimpazamo enkulu. Asikokungaphumeleli kwakho, kwaye ayingobantwana bakho. Uvakalelo lomsindo okanye ingqumbo kufuneka ihambile. Abantwana banokuphinda baphinde baphinde babe neengozi kwiimpahla zabo zangaphantsi ngamaxesha angazinzanga ngokweemvakalelo kwaye oku ayisosizathu sokukhathazeka, kodwa endaweni yokuqonda kunye nenkxaso.

Bonke abantwana bafuna ukuyeka amanabukeni kungekudala

Hayi, oku akuyonyaniso. Wonke umntwana uya kufuna ukuphuma kwi-diapers ngexesha elithile, kodwa akudingeki ukuba kube naliphi na ixesha kungekudala. Abantwana abanamandla amaninzi bakufumanisa kukhululeka ngakumbi ukunxiba amanabukeni kwaye kungafuneki bayeke imisebenzi yabo ukuya kwindlu yangasese. Iyasebenza kwaye ilula, kwaye bayayazi.

Ukungabi namonde

Umonde sisitshixo kuyo yonke le nkqubo yokutshintsha kwe-diaper. Ukuba unovalo, ukuba nomsindo okanye ukumgxeka ngenxa yokuba ezenzile, kungenzeka ukuba inkqubo yokususa amanabukeni izakuthatha ixesha elide kwaye niyakhathazeka nobabini, kuba nilindele lukhulu emntwaneni wakho nakumntwana wakho kuba baziva bengenakukwazi ukuyenza le nto uyibuzayo ngokungxamisekileyo.

Kungcono usebenzise ukucenga, ukuvuza, kunye nokuninzi (okuninzi!) Kwempahla yokugcina Kwaye emva koko, ndinokuqinisekisa ukuba niyakuyifumana, nobabini. Nawe. Kuya kufuneka uyamkele into yokuba akukho qhosha lomlingo lokuba abantwana bafunde ukulawula indlu yangasese, kukho amaxesha apho abantwana bengakulungelanga kwaye kufuneka uyihloniphe.

Ukungathengi izinto zangaphantsi ezaneleyo

Xa uqala inkqubo yokubeka amanabukeni, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ube neempahla zangaphantsi ezaneleyo ukuze umntwana ahlale enotshintsho olucocekileyo lokunxiba kwanokuba unengozi ngamanye amaxesha. Fumana iimpahla zangaphantsi ozithandayo nezinomtsalane, ukuze xa uyifaka uyithande kwaye uzive kamnandi kwaye ukhululekile ukuyinxiba.

Nangona banokukunika isikhokelo malunga nendlela ekufuneka isuswe ngayo i-diapers yomntwana, ayinakwenziwa ngokubanzi, kwaye akufuneki ukhathazeke ukuba into esebenzela umntwana womhlobo wakho ayisebenzi kumntwana wakho. Yonke inkwenkwe kunye nayo yonke intombazana lihlabathi elahlukileyo kwaye nguwe kuphela owaziyo ukuba umntwana wakho ukulungele okanye akunjalonokuba uneenyanga ezingama-24 okanye ezingama-36 ubudala. Musa ukunyanzela kwaye niya kuyiphumeza kunye.