Iincwadi lolona nyango luphambili lokuqonda kwaye ukufunda kwazo kunokubandakanya ukungapheli kwamaxabiso kunye nolwazi. Iincwadi zobufazi esizichazayo namhlanje zihamba phambili ngakumbi kunoko kufanele ukuba ziqondwe njengobufazi, aziyonxalenye yokufunda ngokukodwa kwabasetyhini, kodwa Zonke iintlobo zobudala kunye nesini.
Ukuxhotyiswa kwabasetyhini kuye kwathetha ukuba ukufundwa okubhaliweyo okufana nezi ncwadi kugqibe ukungeniswa. Kodwa masingalibali ukuba siyafuna ukulingana kwabo bobabini isini, kuba sonke siyafana. Ukulingana kufuneka kusetyenzwe yonke imihla kwaye kuninzi ekusafuneka kusetyenzwe. Ukuze sihlale kwisigqibo sokungazi esinayo iluncedo kakhulu kwaye kulula ukuyiqonda iincwadi, Zonke zibhaliwe ukusuka emphefumlweni ukuzama ukwamkela olo tshintsho kwezentlalo uninzi lwabasetyhini oluxineneyo.
Kutheni le nto kufuneka sifunde iincwadi zobufazi?
Kungenxa yokuba ngumba olwe nabasetyhini abaninzi kangangeenkulungwane. Akungombuzo wokukhumbula yintoni abafazi abaziva ngayo kwaye bayayazi, kodwa kuba kufundwa kwihlabathi lonke kuzo zonke iintlobo zesini. Kuyimfuneko ukuba uxele ukuba yintoni imbonakalo kwaye umfanekiso wobufazi. Kuya kufuneka uliphakamise ilizwi lakho, kungenjalo liyaphuma libuyele kwelokulibala. Ukuba unolwazelelelo kokungabikho kokusesikweni okuninzi, kukho abantu ababhinqileyo abazibophelela ngakumbi bonakalisa iimvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo kwaye siyabulela ezincwadini banika indawo kwihlabathi ukuba bathathe olo luvo lokuqonda. Nazi ezinye zeencwadi onokuzifumana ezinokukunceda uqonde ngakumbi ubufazi:
Sonke kufuneka sibe ngababhinqileyo
Incwadi eqokelela zonke iinkxalabo malunga nombhali wayo uChimamanda Ngozi Adichie, apho aveza yonke into ayiqondayo ubufazi ngenkulungwane yama-XNUMX. Ayiboneleli kuphela ngethuba lokuba yincwadi efundwa ngabafazi kuphela, kodwa ivelisiwe ukuze bavelane nabantu bonke ngakumbi kuqeqesho lwabafundi abaninzi. UChimamanda wenza inkcazo ethile yokuba ngumfazi kule nkulungwane, ngokucacileyo, ngokulula ukufundwa kunye ngokuchukumisa uburharha.
Incwadi yabo
Ibhalwe nguBridget Christie, umhlekazi odumileyo wase-UK owaziwa ziingoma zakhe ezimyoli. Impembelelo eninzi ejongene nayo kwaye yahlekisa ababukeli bayo kangangokuba bagqiba kwelokuba bamnike ithuba lokudlulisela lonke ulwazi lwakhe encwadini, ngaphandle kokusilela kuburharha. Kule ncwadi zonke iingcinga ezinxulumene nazo ngaphandle kokuphoswa yindlela yokuqalisa uncumo, njengendlela ekhokelela ekuboniseni. Kodwa ayisiyiyo yonke into ehlekisayo, kuba ijongana nezihloko ezinzulu ezikhokelela ekucamngceni.
Ubufazi kubaQala
Lo msebenzi ubhalwe nguNuria Varela apho ebalisa khona umzabalazo oqhubekayo woxolelwaniso nokulingana, kwaye apho kuyimfuneko ukugxininisa ukuyifunda ngononophelo. Isicatshulwa sakhe sicacisiwe ngokuchanekileyo kuba sichaza iinkcukacha kwaye icacisa imibuzo emininzi malunga baqala njani ngokuqatha ubufazi okanye kutheni ubufazi buhlekisiwe kwaye benyeliswa.
Njani ukuba ngumfazi
Enye incwadi yobufazi ebhaliweyo kwaye ixabisiwe ngeli xesha langoku. Wenza uvavanyo oluncinci lwe wayeyintoni umfazi 'ngaphambili' Umfanekiso wakhe uza kule nkulungwane siphila kuyo. Umntu wendlela yakhe egxekwayo evela kumfanekiso ongaqhelekanga ngesondo, umfanekiso kwinethiwekhi yoluntu kunye nonxibelelwano. Umbhali wayo uCaitlin Moran ubonakalisa kakuhle ukuba ixabiso lomfazi litolike njani namhlanje kwaye linjani umlo wakhe imihla ngemihla nomzimba nengqondo yakho.
Ndibize feminazi
Le ncwadi ngu imicomic yenziwe ngokugxeka okukhulu uhlobo oluthile lomfazi ozimeleyo kule nkulungwane, kodwa wenziwe ngehlazo. Ukubonakaliswa kwayo ngokuhlekisayo kuyaphindaphinda kwindlela uluntu lwethu lwabasetyhini olwenziwe ngayo indlela yokuziphatha ethi ithiyori ayinikeli galelo. Umbhali wayo u-Bàrbara Alca unceda ukudala ukuxhotyiswa kwabasetyhini kwaye wenze i-critique yekota ye-macho.
Uninzi lwezi ncwadi nceda ukukholelwa kwigunya Unokubakho emfazini, ukuba akholelwe kuye nokwazi ukuba angakufezekisa oko akufunayo ngaphandle kokuziva ecalulwa. Ukuba ngumfazi kuthetha ukulingana kuyafana nangayo nayiphi na imbonakalo yesini kwaye ujonge ukuba ungubani na. Ukuba ufuna ukufunda okuninzi ngena "indlela yokukhuthaza ukulingana kwabasetyhini kulutsha"Okanye"ukomelela kwabasetyhini kunina".