Kubonakala ngathi ixabiso lobubele liyalityalwa kwiintsapho, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba sikwazi ukonwabela ubomi obugcweleyo, hayi ekuhlaleni kuphela, kodwa nakwisiqu sakho. Abafikisayo kufuneka bafunde ixabiso lobubele, imfesane kunye nokuziphatha okuhle kuwe nakwabanye. Yinto ebalulekileyo ebomini engafanele ukutyeshelwa kwaye abazali banoxanduva lokufundisa abantwana babo.
Ukufunda ixabiso lobubele yeyona nto ibalulekileyo ekufuneka umntwana eyazi, kubaluleke ngakumbi kunokuba ngumfundi olungileyo. Kuba ukuba ngumfundi olungileyo kulungile, ngokucacileyo ikamva labantwana, kodwa… Ukuba ngumntu olungileyo kubaluleke kakhulu ebantwaneni ukuze babe nempumelelo yokwenene ebomini.
Ububele sisakhono sobomi esibalulekileyo
Baninzi abantwana abafikisayo abangayiqondiyo into yokuba igama ububele lithetha ntoni okanye ukuba bayayazi ithiyori, abayazi indlela ekufanele ukuba injani ngayo. Ukuba ngumntu onomdla kuzalisa umphefumlo wakho ngaphakathi Kwaye ngaphezulu, ikwagcwalisa ngaphandle kuba ikwenza uzive ulungile nabanye, kwaye kunjalo, nawe ngokwakho. Ububele ngokungathandabuzekiyo lixabiso ekufuneka libenalo ngonaphakade kwaye liyinxalenye ebalulekileyo yobuntu babantu.
Imeko yomntu iyamangalisa kwaye sinelungelo lokufunda ngeziqu zethu. Kukho abantu abasokolayo ukuhlala nabanye, abafuna ukufumana intlonipho yabanye kwaye bazive bethandwa ... Kodwa ukuze bafike kuqala Kufuneka uzive ulungile kwaye uzithande, uzihloniphe kwaye uzithande nzulu ngaphambi kokwenza kwabanye.
Xa umntu enobubele kwabanye, abanye baya kufuna ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye nawe. Ukuba uzama ukuba nobubele kwaye ubakhathalele abanye abantu, uyakuqonda ukuba baya kufuna njani ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye nawe, into eya kukonwabisa.
Ububele kunye nolutsha
Kumaziko amaninzi ungabona ukungabikho kobubele ezintliziyweni zolutsha. Uninzi lwabo, ngelishwa, bayasokola ukugculelwa ngabanye kwaye zininzi kakhulu iimeko zokuxhatshazwa apho amakhwenkwe namantombazana bafumana ubunzima obukhulu kumanxeba. Amakhwenkwe namantombazana abaziva bebodwa ngalo lonke ixesha elisebenza ngalo iziko kwaye unxibelelwano oluncinci abanalo nabanye lunokujika lube kukungcungcutheka.
Ulutsha luyakwazi ngokugqibeleleyo ukuba yintoni ububele kwaye kunokuba luncedo kangakanani ukuyisebenzisa ebomini ... kodwa kubuhlungu ukubona indlela abakwishumi elivisayo abangakwaziyo ukusebenzisa ixabiso lobubele ebomini babo nakwimpilo yabanye. Ububele ayisiyongcinga eqhelekile kubomi babafikisayo, kwaye ukuba olo tshintsho, izinto ezinkulu zinokutshintshwa, njengokuthintela iimeko ezininzi zokuxhaphaza kwizikolo eziphakamileyo.
Ngokwesiqhelo thina bantu badala sicinga ukuba abakwishumi elivisayo ngabantwana abanyanzelekileyo nabatshintshayo, abachukunyiswa ngoontanga babo ... Kwaye nangona inyani inezinto ezininzi., inyani kukuba kukho enye impembelelo enamandla ngakumbi kubomi babafikisayo: abazali babo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuyigcina le nto engqondweni, ububele bubaluleke kakhulu kulutsha njengokuba kunjalo nakweliphi na elinye iminyaka. Bazama ukukhula, ukuba babe ngabantu abadala abaphumeleleyo, kwaye bafuna ukuba nesazisi sabo. Ukwenza oku, abazali kufuneka bazisuse iigloves zabo zomdlalo wamanqindi kwaye baqale ukugxila ngakumbi kwiimvakalelo zolutsha lwabo.
Ulutsha kufuneka lufunde ngobubele
Abakwishumi elivisayo kufuneka bafunde ukuba buyintoni na ububele, malunga nokuziphatha okuhle nokuba nemfesane, kufuneka bazi kwaye baqonde ukuba bubuchule obubalulekileyo ebomini, ukuba nobubele ... okubaluleke ngakumbi, impumelelo yobuqu, impilo-ntle yeemvakalelo, ukonwaba nesiqu sakho kunye nabanye.
Ububele buya kubenza abantwana bakho bazive bonwabile, kodwa nezenzo zabo zobubele zobuntu xa zidityanisiwe zinokwenza inkcubeko kunye noluntu lwethu lube nokunyamezelana ngakumbi kwaye baphile ngcono ngokuvisisana. Ukufundisa abantwana bakho ububele kunokubenza bakhulele kwindawo ekhuselekileyo, kuba baya kuyinyamekela ngokwabo, ngenxa yenyani yokuba abazali balifakile eli xabiso likhulu kubo!
Zininzi iindlela zokufundisa ulutsha ukuba nobubele, ububele, kwaye luthathele ingqalelo abantu abalungqongileyo. Yonke imihla kukho amathuba okukwazi ukwenza ububele kwaye zonke zibalulekile ukuba zithathele ingqalelo. Nangona ukuqala ukufundisa ububele, eyona nto ibalulekileyo kule meko ngokungathandabuzekiyo kukuba ngumzekelo omkhulu wobubele kunye nobubele kwabanye nakwisiqu sakho.
Iindlela ezi-5 zokufundisa ububele kulutsha
Apha ngezantsi ungafumana uluhlu lweengcebiso ezi-5 eziya kukunceda ufundise ububele ebantwaneni bakho, ungabafundisa eli xabiso libalulekileyo eliya kubakhonza ebomini babo bonke, kwaye oko kuyakwenza ubuntu obukhulu obuya kubavumela ukuba babengcono abantu, ngokwabo.kwaye nabo bonke abantu abangqongileyo
- Cebisa ukuba abantwana bakho bancume rhoqo. Uncumo sesona sixhobo sinamandla sokuba nobubele kwabanye, uncumo lukuvumela ukuba unxibelelane ngokufanelekileyo nabanye.
- Bafundise ukuba babe nomkhwa wokuba nobubele nomntu omnye ubuncinane kanye ngemini. Oku kufanele ukunyaniseka, ngaphandle kokuziva unyanzelekile ukwenza njalo. Ngaphandle koko, banokuthathela ingqalelo ukuyenza ngokwabo, oku kuya kubanceda bahlakulele imfesane.
- Mamela abantwana bakho kwaye uphucule unxibelelwano. Ngokumamela yonke into abantwana bakho abafuna ukukuxelela yona, uya kugxininisa ukubaluleka kokuba bamamele nabanye. Ukumamela kakuhle bubuchule obunqabileyo, sisenzo esibuxabisileyo ngokunzulu.
- Fundisa abantwana bakho ukuba nobuhlobo. Yindlela entle yokuphucula usuku lwabantu. Baninzi abantu abangamalolo abafuna ukwenza abahlobo abatsha.
- Khuthaza isisa somoya, ukubandakanywa, kwaye ungatyhafisi ububodwa kunye nokuziphatha kakubi kuwe okanye kwabanye.