Iindlela zokunceda ukuzolisa abantwana ngexesha lokuvalelwa bodwa

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Abantwana abakaphumi endlwini isithuba esingaphezu kwenyanga zilandelelana, yaye nangona bengabantwana abakhulele ekhaya, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba babe namaxesha okoyika ngakumbi okanye ukucaphuka. Ubomi babo buye batshintsha ngokupheleleyo kwaye kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba ezo mvakalelo zingachazwanga ziphume ngendlela yokuziphatha ephazamisayo, Yiyo loo nto kubalulekile ukuba ubancede bazole ezo mvakalelo.

Indlela yokuqala yokubenza bazolise ezo mvakalelo kukubanceda ukuba baziveze, baveze indlela abaziva ngayo kwaye bakubuze yonke into abayidingayo ukuze bafumane uxolo lwengqondo abaludingayo. Kubalulekile ukuba uqonde ukuba kutheni uziva ngolu hlobo, cinga ukuba abantwana abayikhathaleli inyani eyenzekayo kwaye baziva kwaye banamava afana nathi.

Ukuba unesimilo esibi, musa ukuzibeka ityala okanye yena... Yindlela yakhe yokukuxelela ukuba akaphilanga ngokweemvakalelo. Ke ngoko, kuyimfuneko ukuba unxibelelane ngokweemvakalelo nabantwana bakho ukuze bazive bekhuselekile kwaye bethuthuzeleke ngakumbi. Sukucinezela iimvakalelo zabo ngamabinzana anjengokuthi “musa ukulila” okanye “kulungile”, “ungazikhathazi ngayo”, njl. Mhlawumbi ucinga ukuba iimvakalelo zabo azibalulekanga kodwa zibalulekile kwaye kufuneka uyihloniphe kwaye uyiqonde loo nto.

Ungasebenzisa amabali abantwana okanye iividiyo ukuthetha ngesi sihloko. Kubalulekile ukuba umncede aveze iimvakalelo zakhe kwaye azi ukuba uya kuba secaleni kwakhe ngalo lonke ixesha. Usenokuchaza indlela ovakalelwa ngayo ngendlela umntwana wakho ayiqondayo kwaye Ngale ndlela kuya kuba lula kumntu wonke.

Khumbula ukuba iinkqubo kunye nokuzinyamekela kubaluleke kakhulu. Abantwana bakho bafanele babone into eqhelekileyo ekhaya, phezu kwazo nje iingxaki ezinokubakho. Isimo sakho sengqondo sinempembelelo kwimfundo yabantwana bakho, ngoko akufanele ukususe oku kwimbono yakho. Qaphela ukuba yimeko engasayi kuhlala ngonaphakade kwaye intsapho imele imanyane.


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