Ukunyuka kwe ubuchwepheshe obutsha iyasahlula, kunye nabantwana, kubumnandi bokuzintywilisela kwizigigaba ezibhalwe ku ncwadi nokuba kwifomathi yedijithali okanye yephepha (nangona, ngokobuqu, ndikhetha incwadi yexesha lokuphila labantwana bethu)
Ngelixa kuyinyaniso oko kude kube yiminyaka emi-6 okanye esi-7 ubudala uninzi lwabantwana alukwazi ukufunda kuba ingqondo yakho ayikakhuli ngokwaneleyo ukwenza isenzo esinje, akufuneki silinde kude kube lelo xesha ukuziqala ngokuzonwabisa okunempilo engqondweni kunye nokucebisa umoya njengoko unjalo ukufunda. Ukuba unomntwana ophakathi kweminyaka emi-2 kunye ne-6 kwaye uyafuna kukukhuthaze ukufunda, unokuba nomdla kwezi iingcebiso:
- Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu sukuyenza into oyithandayo ukuba ibe yimbopheleleko. Xa ukufunda kuba ngumyalelo kwicala labantu abadala, umntwana akazukuqhubekeka efunda njengento ayithandayo ukhetho lwakho, ukuba ayisiyonto ekufanele ukuba uyayithanda ukusukela oko abadala bakho bekuxelela njalo.
- Shumayela ngomzekelo, kwaye le yinto ekufuneka siyenzile ngayo yonke into, kubandakanya nokufunda. Ukuba abantwana bethu basibona imini yonke sincanyathiselwe kumabonakude, ikhompyutha, iifowuni eziphathwayo, njl. Ke ngoko, kubalulekile ukuba babone kuthi umzekelo abaza kuwulandela.
- Zimasa ukuthanda kwakho, mthathe ayokuthenga iincwadi kwaye ibe nguye onokuzikhetha. Oku akuyi kukubonisa kuphela oko Uyazihlonela izigqibo zaboUkuba akunjalo, ukhethe into onomdla kuyo, uya kukhuthazeka ngakumbi ukuba wazi okukulindeleyo kula maphepha.
Ungalibali Bapheleke xa befunda. Kuya kufuneka usombulule amathandabuzo ambalwa ekupheleni kwexesha labo lokufunda kodwa uya kubona ukuba ngumzuzu onomdla kakhulu apho uya kuphinda ukhuphe umntwana wakho wangaphakathi kwaye Uya kuqinisa ubudlelwane obunomdla Phakathi kwazo zombini.