Nangona kubonakala kuyinto engaqondakaliyo, ukuncancisa lihlabathi elingaziwa kwaphela ngoomama abaninzi abatsha. Ngokwesiqhelo, ithambekele ekugqibeleleni ngokuncancisa okumangalisayo, apho umama wamva nje akonwabela ukubukela usana lwakhe lusitya ebeleni lakhe. Kwaye nangona ngamanye amaxesha ukuncancisa kuba ngoluhlobo, inyani kukuba ngeentsuku zokuqala (kwaye kwaneeveki) kunokuba nzima.
Ngaphandle kweengxaki, ukuncancisa sisipho somntwana wakho, okona kutya kunokukufumana kunye neyona ndlela ilungileyo zikhusele kwaye womeleze amajoni akho omzimba. Ke ngoko, sifuna ukukhuthaza nina nabo bonke oomama abatsha abakwiqalo elinzima lokuncancisa. Kuba ngaphandle kwemizamo, ukuzincama okanye ukukhathazeka, kufanelekile.
Iingcebiso zokuncancisa iigilts
Qaphela kakuhle ezi ngcebiso zokuncancisa, nokuba ungumama omtsha, okanye ukuba sowuza kuba nosana lwakho nokuba ukhangela ukukhulelwa kwakho. Kuba eyona nto ibalulekileyo sisiqalo, ukufunda ukubeka umntwana wakho okanye Fumana eyona ndlela ifanelekileyo yokubonelela ngokutya kwakho. Emva kokuba ukuncancisa kusekwe ngokupheleleyo, uya kuthatha isigqibo sokuba ufuna ixesha elide kangakanani, ukongeza kweminye imiba.
Fumana eyona ndawo intle
Ukufumana eyona ndawo ifanelekileyo yokuncancisa usana lwakho kubalulekile, oku kuya kwenza ukuba kube lula kulowo mncinci yenza ukubamba ngokuchanekileyo kwaye uthathe iithoto ngokufanelekileyo. Ukuba umntwana akahambi kakuhle, kusenokwenzeka ukuba uya kukwenzakalisa ingono, aqhekeke, kwaye asokole xa encanca. Ukongeza, omncinci akazokwazi ukondla kakuhle kwaye uya kukhathazeka, enze ukuba kube nzima ukuncancisa ukuzinza.
Zama ukonwaba kusondlo ngalunye, sebenzisa imiqamelo emqolo kwaye ugcine iingalo zixhaswe kakuhle ngelixa ubambe umntwana wakho. Ngeentsuku zokuqala, uya kuzifumana ukhululekile ngakumbi xa ungqengqile. Zama ukubeka icala lakho kwaye ubeke umntwana wakho phambi kwakho, kubafazi abaninzi yindawo efanelekileyo kwiintsuku zokuqala.
Soloko unebhotile yamanzi
La ukuncelisa ivelisa unxano oluninzi, ukusukela Yenziwe yipesenti enkulu yamanzi. Uya kudinga ukusela ubuncinci i-2 ukuya kwi-3 yeelitha zamanzi ngosuku ukuhlangabezana neemfuno zakho zolwelo. Ukongeza emanzini, zama ukuthatha iziqhamo ezityebileyo emanzini ezinjengevatala, ivatala okanye ipere.
Imigca ye-silicone
Ekuqaleni, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba umntwana wakho onakalise iingono zakho ngelixa efumana eyona ndlela yokuncancisa. Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kufumana iintanda ezicaphukisayo, onokuzinyanga ngekrimu ethile okanye ngobisi lwakho lwebele. Ingxaki kukuba xa uneentanda, ngalo lonke ixesha ubeka umntwana ebeleni uya kuva iintlungu eziqatha. Kodwa ungayicombulula le ngxaki ngokusebenzisa i-linicone liners elula. Uya kuzifumana ekhemesti kwaye zilula kakhulu ukuzisebenzisa.
Ngokukhusela ingono, akusayi kuqaphela ukungakhululeki kwaye kuya kuba lula kakhulu ukuba usana lufumane ubisi. Oku kunokuba sisicombululo sethutyana, nangona Akufanele uyongeze ixesha elide ukuze umntwana wakho angahlali.
Fumana umcebisi wezokuncancisa
Ngaphambi kokuba uyeke ukuncancisa, fumana umcebisi oya kuthi kukunceda ukusombulula iingxaki ezivelayo. Abasetyhini abaninzi bayayeka ngaphambi kwexesha okanye baguqukele ebhotileni ngenxa yokoyika ukuba abantwana babo bangalamba okanye babe neengxaki zokukhula. Kodwa kwakhona, khumbula ukuba ubisi lwakho kokona kutya kulungileyo umntwana wakho anokukufumana, kunye nokukhuselwa kunye nentuthuzelo. Ngaphandle kokulibala ubudlelwane obukhethekileyo obumiselweyo phakathi kukamama nomntwana ngexesha lokuncancisa.
Kumaziko amaninzi ezempilo iinkonzo zonikezelo ngeengcebiso zisanyisa ziyafumaneka, kwaye ukuba abanazo, umbelekisi wakho uya kuba nakho ukukucebisa ngalo mbandela. Khangela i-Intanethi ukuze ufumane iqela lokuncancisa kwindawo yakho, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kufumana umcebisi oza kukunceda ukuba ube nokuncancisa okunempumelelo kunye nokuhlala ixesha elide.