Ngokunokwenzeka, uninzi lwabazali abakhethe ukukhetha ukuthatha abantwana babo kwisikolo sabantwana abancinci, sele bekhethile ngaphambi kweeholide nkqu neziko lemfundo abaza kuya kulo. Kodwa, ndiqinisekile ukuba iintsapho ezimbalwa ziqala ukujonga ngoku kuba useholideyini kwaye unexesha elininzi lokundwendwela zonke izikolo ezinokubakho.
Nangona andikabi ngumama, ndiyazi ukuba ukuziqhelanisa nesikolo sabantwana abancinci Akunzima kuphela kubancinci. Abazali nabo banexesha elinzima kwaye bafuna iintsuku ezimbalwa ukuze baqonde ukuba yonke into izakulunga kwaye akukho nto imbi kufuneka yenzekile. Mhlawumbi, ukuba lixesha lokuqala lokusa abantwana bakho kwisikolo sabantwana abancinci, uziva usoyika, unovalo kwaye ungonwabanga. Ke ngoko, ndiza kukunika iingcebiso ezintlanu endinethemba lokuba ziya kukunceda uziqhelanise neli nqanaba litsha.
Ndwendwela ngaphezu kwesinye isikolo sabantwana abancinci kwaye ungahlali nemibuzo
Ukuba uqala ukukhangela isikolo sabantwana abancinci ngoku, ndincoma ukuba undwendwele iindlela ezininzi. Ndiyazi ukuba phantse onke amaziko emfundo anewebhusayithi apho achaza yonke into ngokugqibeleleyo. Kodwa kungcono kakhulu ukuba uzibonele ngokwakho isikolo sabantwana abancinci kwaye uthethe nomlawuli weziko. Ndikuxelela oku kuba ukusuka kwimifanekiso ukuya kwinyani kunokubakho ezahlukeneyo.
Ndiyazi ngabazali ababhalise abantwana babo kwi-intanethi ngaphandle kokundwendwela kwanto kwaye emva koko babeka iintloko zabo ezandleni ekuqaleni konyaka. Ndikwacebisa ukuba uthethe, ubuze kwaye ungathandabuzi. (akunangqondo okanye ayibonakali ngathi ibonakala). Kwaye ndikucebisa ukuba ufunde ngayo iprojekthi yezemfundo kwisikolo ngasinye sabantwana abancinci osityelelayo xa kunokwenzeka ukuba kubekho umahluko ongenakulungiseka kwimfundo obuyifunela abantwana bakho.
Ingqondo kunye nesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo kwinqanaba elitsha
Ngexesha lokuziqhelanisa nesikolo sabantwana abancinci kubalulekile Isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo kunye nengqondo. Kucacile ukuba uya kubakhumbula abantwana bakho. Kodwa kuya kufuneka ucinge ukuba baya kufunda izinto ezininzi ezintsha, kwaye baya kuba nexesha elimnandi kwaye baya kuba namava amaninzi. Ukucinga ngale ndlela, inqanaba elitsha liya kuba nzima kancinci kuwe.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba xa ushiya i-kindergarten abantwana bakho bakubone ezolile, ekhululekile kwaye onwabile. Khumbula ukuba akuncedi nto ukucinga ngamaxesha onke ukuba baya kube besenza ntoni, ukuba bayakhala nokuba baya kuba nosuku oluhle. Ukuba uyayenza loo nto, usenokuhlaselwa kukungabi nathemba. Kwaye ayizukucetyiswa konke konke.
Sukuba nexhala lokuba abantwana bakho bathatha ixesha elide ukuziqhelanisa nesikolo sabantwana abancinci
Abazali abaninzi bayothuka kwaye banexhala lokuba abantwana babo banolungelelwaniso olubi kwiziko labantwana abancinci. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha bayakulibala oko Wonke umntwana lihlabathi. Kuya kubakho abantwana abathi kwiintsuku ezimbini bonwabe kakhulu kwisikolo sabantwana abancinci kwaye abanye bathathe iiveki ukuba babekho. Kodwa ayimbi! Inye inesingqisho sayo. Kwaye umntwana ngamnye ufuna ixesha elahlukileyo. Gcina ukhumbula ukuba kubo (kunye nakuwe) lutshintsho olukhulu.
Ke ngoko, sukucinga ukuba abantwana bakho bakufumanisa kunzima ukuba kunye okanye baxhomekeke ngakumbi kwabanye. Kufuneka kucace gca ukuba abancinci basendaweni kwaye nabantu abangazi nto. Sukuphila ngokukhathazeka malunga nomhla abaya kuyeka ukukhala okanye xa beqala ukunxibelelana nabanye abantwana. Ngale ndlela, uyakonganyelwa ngakumbi kwaye ugqithisele isimo esibi kubantwana bakho.
Ungaziva ungonwabanga ngokuthatha abantwana bakho kwisikolo sabantwana abancinci
Ewe ungaziva ulusizi xa usisa abantwana bakho kwisikolo sabantwana abancinci. Akukho nto imbi uyenzileyo. Ukhangele kwaye watyelela ezona ndlela zibalaseleyo kubo. Abantwana abayi nakweyiphi na indawo. Baya kwiziko lemfundo apho bakhoyo abaqeqeshi bezemfundo abaya kubaxhasa kulungelelwaniso nophuhliso lwabo. Kwaye baya kukunceda kakhulu.
Mhlawumbi iintsuku zokuqala zibuhlungu. Usenokuba nemvakalelo yokuba uyabalahla abantwana bakho. Kodwa akukho nto inokuthi iqhubeke nenyaniso, ndikholelwe. Awukho mbi kakhulu okanye ungcono abazali ngokuthatha abantwana ubase kwisikolo sabantwana abancinci. Sisigqibo osithathileyo. Kwaye ihlonitshwa ngokupheleleyo.
Mamela ewe, kodwa sukuchaphazeleka kuwo onke amagqabantshintshi
Sele uyazi ukuba baninzi abantu abathanda ukugxeka nokungena kubomi babanye. Usenokudibana nabantu abakutyhola abazali abangalunganga ngokusa abantwana bakho kwisikolo sabantwana abancinci okanye ngamazwi ahlaselayo angapheliyo kwisigqibo sakho. Ungabamamela (ukuba uyafuna, kunjalo) kodwa ungaphenjelelwa ngabo. Kwiimeko ezininzi, ngabantu abanexesha elininzi elikhululekileyo, abanganyamezelaniyo okanye abangenantlonelo.
Kukwanjalo nakwimiba yezemfundo kunye nezimvo. Unokuva abanye abazali besithi umntwana wabo oneminyaka emithathu sele eyazi isiseko esisisiseko (impazamo enkulu kwicala lakhe, kunjalo) kwaye ufunde (ngaphezulu okufanayo). Okanye mhlawumbi, baya kukunika iingcebiso ukuze abantwana bakho nabo bakwazi ukuyenza kwaye bagqame eklasini. Ndiyakukhumbuza ngento ebesikhe sathetha ngayo ngaphambili: kubalulekile ukuhlonipha isingqisho somntwana ngamnye.