Kunzima kakhulu. Uxelelwe ukuba umntwana wakho, intombazana yakho encinci okanye inkwenkwe inomhlaza. Emva komzuzu womothuko akukho nto yimbi ngaphandle kokubuyisela. Ngokuba ewe, ngenxa yokuba Ukuthanda kwakhe kuxhomekeke kuvuyo lwakho nakumnqweno wakho wokuphila, oya kuthi ngokuqinisekileyo abe ligorha kunye neqhawekazi lakho.
Recuerda que Ayifani yonke imihlaza. yaye azikho kumlinganiselo ofanayo okanye zibonisa umphumo obulalayo. Amakhwenkwe namantombazana amaninzi achacha. Ngokutsho kweSpanish Federation of Parents of Children with Cancer, kubantwana abali-1.400 abanomhlaza, ngokomlinganiselo, abafunyaniswa ukuba baxilongwa, yi-280 kuphela abangaphili. Apha Unenqaku elinedatha eninzi.
Joyina kwaye wabelane
Asinguwe wedwa intsapho ekwixesha elibi. Kwaye akunyanzelekanga ukuba uyenze wedwa. ESpain kukho imibutho emininzi eya kukunika intuthuzelo, inkxaso, amava kunye nalo lonke uncedo oludingayo ngeli xesha. Kubalulekile Yikhathalele impilo yesigulana, kunye nempilo yakho yeemvakalelo. Ungalibazisi ukucela uncedo lwengcali malunga nendlela yokwenza nomntwana wakho.
La Umbutho ochasene nomhlaza waseSpain, Inesebe elithile lokunceda ukunyanga umhlaza wabantwana kusapho. I Cris Foundation ineSikhokelo sokuSebenza kweKlinikhi yoLawulo lweeNtlungu kuBantwana abanoMhlaza, olujongene ngokubanzi nonyango lweentlungu kubantwana abane-leukemia, kunye nonyango ngongenelelo lwe-pharmacological and non-pharmacological. Unokuyikhuphela kwiphepha lesiseko.
Yaziwa kakhulu kwaye iyakhunjulwa yile iphulo ukuba imvumi Macaco kunye nabanye baye benza kunye nabantwana bewadi ye-Oncology yeSibhedlele sase-Sant Joan de Déu e-Barcelona. Kwaye iphulo eliphuma kwiLittle Wish Foundation likwathi qatha engqondweni apho bazama ukukhuthaza abantwana abagulayo kunye neentsapho zabo ngobungqina obuvela kubantu aboyise esi sigulo besengabantwana. Bathetha ngokusuka kumava abo angqalileyo.
Umhlaza ukwiminyaka emingaphi
Njengoko sanixelelayo kwasekuqaleni Umntwana onomhlaza akafani nomntwana oneminyaka emi-6 ubudala, osele enenkqubo yentlalo ebonakala ngathi yaphukile. Inkxaso esimele siyinike omnye komnye njengentsapho yahlukile, kodwa uthando nokuzinikela kuyafana.
Ngexesha leminyaka emi-3 yokuqala yobomi, yintoni amakhwenkwe namantombazana aya kuyifuna ukunxibelelana ngokuqhubekayo nabazali babo kunye nabantakwenu ukuseka ibhondi yokuncamathela ekhuselekileyo. Ngamanye amaxesha abazali, ngenxa yomsebenzi okanye ezinye izizathu, kufuneka batshintshisane ngokubona umntwana.
De i Abantwana abaneminyaka eyi-9 bayazi ngakumbi ngotshintsho olwenzekileyo ebomini babo. Ukungabikho esikolweni, ukubona abahlobo babo bengaphantsi, ukutyelela esibhedlele. Akumangalisi ukuba iimpawu ezithile ze-maladaptive zenzeka, ezifana nokukhwaza, iimpendulo ezingazange zinikwe ngaphambili, umsindo kwihlabathi okanye iifomula ezintsha zokufuna ingqalelo.
Ukuba kwenzeka umhlaza Ukususela kwiminyaka eyi-9 okanye eyi-10, umntwana sele eziva ekhululekile. Nangona kukho ukungaqondi okunengqiqo, apho thina njengabantu abadala sivakalelwa kukuba, lixesha lokuziphendukela kwemvelo apho ubuncinci baya kuzama ukwakha isazisi kunye nokulungelelanisa utshintsho lomzimba. Yonke iminyaka isesichengeni, kunye neenkcukacha zayo. Ngethamsanqa, amaziko ezibhedlele neengcali ezisebenza kuzo, kunye namatsha-ntliziyo amaninzi, baqeqeshwe kakuhle kakhulu ukuze bancede intsapho nabantwana ngokwabo.
Abantakwabo babantwana abanomhlaza
Besifuna ukunika isithuba abazalwana noodade ababona ubomi babo buguquka emva kokufunyaniswa komhlaza. Abantakwenu banokuziva uxinezelekile, kwaye ndiziva ndinetyala ukuze babe sempilweni. Kusengqiqweni ukuba baqonde ukuba ngoku abazali babo bazahlulele kubo ingqalelo encinci.
Abazali kufuneka bacacisele okwenzekayo, ukuthetha nabo ngendlela abavakalelwa ngayo. Kucetyiswa ukuba unyaniseke kubantakwabo, ulungelelanise ulwazi kunye nendlela yokuyixela kwiminyaka kunye nokukhula komntwana ngamnye.
Abanye buchule Okulandelayo kwezi meko kukutyelela umzalwana ogulayo nokudibana neqela loogqirha. Cacisa ukuxilongwa kunye nesicwangciso sonyango ukuze umntwana akwazi ukusiqonda. Bavumele bona babelane ngolu lwazi esikolweni kunye nabahlobo kunye nosapho. Yaye babonise ukuba babaluleke njengomzalwana ogulayo.