Kubantu abangawuphiliyo, becinga ukuba umfazi osandula ukuba ngumama unokufumana uxinzelelo kunye neengcinga zokuzibulala, kunokuba nzima ukubonakalisa. Nangona kunjalo, inyani yile Ipesenti ephezulu yabasetyhini banengxaki yoxinzelelo lwasemva kokubeleka, nangona kungenjalo onke kwinqanaba elifanayo lobunzima. Kweminye, ziintsuku nje ezimbalwa zosizi ezibangelwa lutshintsho olukhulu olwenzeka emva kokuba nomntwana.
Ukungalingani okubalulekileyo kwehomoni, ukungabikho kophumla, utshintsho kwindlela yesiqhelo Ngokubanzi, ukuziqhelanisa nobomi obutsha kunokuba nzima kakhulu kubafazi abaninzi. Ngaphezulu kwako konke, kuthathelwa ingqalelo ukuba kufuneka bakhathalele umntwana oneemfuno ezininzi, ngelixa bengekafumani kumzamo obalulekileyo wokuzala. Ukuba sidibanisa konke oku, iziphumo kumatyala amaninzi zizinto ezifikayo Uxinzelelo lwasemva kokubeleka.
Uxinzelelo lwasemva kokubeleka
Ukuba ngumama yenye yezona zinto zinomdla ebomini bomfazi. Kubo bonke ubomi bakulungiselela imvakalelo yothando olwahlukileyo phakathi kukamama nomntwana, olo nxibelelwano lukhethekileyo lwenziwe ukusuka kumzuzu wokuqala. Kodwa Akukho mntu ulungiselela i-roller coaster yeemvakalelo Ezi zenziwa ngeentsuku zokuqala. Bathetha kancinci ngayo kuwe, uva ngoxinzelelo lwasemva kokubeleka kwaye ucinga ukuba ayizukwenzeka kuwe.
Kodwa ngequbuliso uba ngumama kwaye uzifumanisa usekhaya usentlungwini, kuba umzimba wakho wenze owona mzamo ubalulekileyo ebomini. Ngequbuliso awunakwenza nantoni na ngaphambili, kuba umntwana wakho ufuna iingalo zakho rhoqo. Ubomi bakho buyekile ukuba bobakho ngeentsuku ezimbalwa, ngelixa ixesha lokuziqhelanisa nale meko intsha lihlala.
Abanye abantu basetyhini bayigqitha kwiintsuku ezimbalwa, abanye baya kufuna iiveki ezimbalwa, kodwa Kwiimeko ezininzi ukuba lusizi kungekudala kudlula. Nangona kunjalo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukunika ezi mvakalelo ukubaluleka okubalulekileyo, kuba kwiimeko ezininzi, zijika zibe kukudakumba okunokuba kubi kakhulu kunina omtsha. Xa ezo mvakalelo zosizi, ukucaphuka, unxunguphalo okanye ukuhlala wedwa ekuhlaleni ziqhubeka emva kweeveki ezimbalwa, kunokuba sisiphumo soxinzelelo lwasemva kokubeleka.
Iimpawu zokulumkisa
Nangona naliphi na ibhinqa linokubandezeleka ngenxa yoxinzelelo lwasemva kokubeleka, kuxhaphake kakhulu kwiimeko apho kukho nayiphi na kwezi mpawu:
- Iingxaki zokukhulelwa okanye xa kuzalwa
- Ukuzalwa okuninzi
- Iingxaki ezivela ngexesha lokukhulelwa, ezinje ukuphulukana nomsebenzi, ukubekwa ecaleni kwezentlalo, iingxaki zobudlelwane
- Imbali yosapho yoxinzelelo okanye ukuphazamiseka kwemood
- Iingxaki zoqoqosho
- Ukungabikho kwenkxaso ukukhathalela nokukhathalela isidalwa
- Un ukukhulelwa okungacwangciswanga
- Emva koxinzelelo ngaxa lithile ebomini
Zininzi iimeko ezinokukhokelela ekubeni umama wakutsha nje acinge ngokuzibulala, ke ngoko kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba abantu abenza isangqa sentlalo Nika ingqwalaselo kwiindlela ezithile zokuziphatha. Nangona uninzi lweemeko, usizi emva kokubeleka kunye nabasetyhini abanengxaki yoxinzelelo, bahlala beloyisa emva kweeveki ezimbalwa, kwabanye abantu imeko inokuba nzima kakhulu.
Kwabasetyhini abaneengcinga zokuzibulala emva kokuba ngoomama, kunzima kakhulu ukufuna inkxaso kwabanye abantu. Kuba basifundisile ukuba ukuba ngumama kuyinto entle Kwaye ukuziva ungonwabanga njengoko kufanelekile kunokuba neentloni okanye kunzima ukukuchaza. Nangona kunjalo, kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba baninzi abantu basetyhini abaziva ngokufanayo, abadlula kule meko kwaye ngethamsanqa bayoyisa.
Ukuba usizi, unxunguphalo okanye naziphi na iimpawu zoxinzelelo ziyaqhubeka ngaphezulu kweeveki ezimbini, kubalulekile ukufuna uncedo ngokukhawuleza. Ukuthetha ngokuphelisa yonke into, ukukhala rhoqo, ukungaziva unakho ukukhathalela umntwana, ukuveza ubunzima bokuqhubeka nokuphila ngolu hlobo, ziimpawu ezilumkisayo ezicacileyo. Funa uncedo lobuchwephesha, thetha noGqirha wakho, umbelekisi wakho okanye nayiphi na ingcali ekunika ukhuseleko lokujongana nengxaki ngokukhawuleza.