Nangona inokubonakala ngathi yinto elungileyo xa uyijonga kuqala, Uninzi lwabantwana abanesiphiwo bathambekele ekubeni neengxaki ezinzulu zokuziphatha okanye zeemvakalelo. Oku kwenzeka ngenxa yokuba abo bantwana bengekho kwimeko efanelekileyo yokuphucula amandla abo okuqonda. Kwiimeko ezininzi, umntwana onesiphiwo uyadikwa iklasi kwaye kulapho iingxaki zifika khona.
Ngabazali abathi, nangaliphi na inqaku lokukholelwa ukuba umntwana wabo unesiphiwo, abo kufuneka baye kwingcali eyaziyo indlela yokuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana unesiphiwo kwaye unamandla okuqonda aphezulu kakhulu kunabanye abantwana.
Iimpawu zabantwana abanesiphiwo
Ixesha elinikiweyo lisetyenziselwa ukubhekisa kwabo banobukrelekrele obungaphezulu komndilili. Ukuba umntwana kuthethwa ngaye, uthathwa njengesiphiwo xa i-IQ yakhe ingaphezulu kwe-130. Ke siza kuthetha nawe ngezinye izinto abaqhele ukuba nazo abantwana abanesiphiwo.
- Bahlala bengabantwana abahlala bethetha igama labo lokuqala ngeenyanga ezi-6. Isivakalisi sokuqala senziwa kunyaka omnye ubudala.
- Ukusuka kwiinyanga ezili-18 bayakwazi ukuqhubeka nencoko kwaye Isigama esicocekileyo.
- Ngeminyaka emibini enesiqingatha unokuba sele ukwazi ukongeza.
- Bangabantwana abaqhele ukuba nabo iingxaki ezinzulu ngexesha lokulala kwaye ukwazi ukulala.
- Bayakwazi ukufunda ukufunda ngexesha elifutshane kakhulu.
- Buza imibuzo ngalo lonke ixesha kwaye banomdla omkhulu wokwazi yonke into.
- Baqwalasele kwaye banobuchule bokwenza abantwana.
- Bayakwazi ukugxila okuninzi besebancinci.
Iingxaki zabantwana ezinesipho esikolweni
Aba bantwana banobuchule obuphezulu bengqondo bahlala benengxaki ezimbalwa zokuya esikolweni:
- Abafuni kunxibelelana nabantwana abakwiminyaka yabo njengoko bephela bekruquka, nto leyo ebangela ukuba bahlupheke bodwa ekuhlaleni. Bakhetha ukunxibelelana nabantwana abadala njengoko befumana benomdla ngakumbi.
- Eklasini bayadika kuba amandla abo obukrelekrele angaphezulu kwawabanye abantwana. Ekuhambeni kwexesha oku kuthetha ukuba banengxaki yokuzithemba okuphantsi kwaye bayasilela kwindawo yokujonga yesikolo.
- Konke oku kudala imeko eqinileyo yoxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo. nefuthe elibi kubudlelwane babo nosapho kunye nakubo bonke ubume boluntu.
- Ukuqokelelwa okukhulu kwezi ngxaki kuya kubangela Baziva bengaqondwa ngamaxesha onke.
Ukunceda abantwana abanesiphiwo
- Ukuba uqaphele ukuba umntwana wakho unengxaki yezi ngxaki Kulungile ukuba uhambe ngokukhawuleza uyokufuna ingcali enokukunceda uqinisekise ukuba umntwana wakho unesiphiwo.
- Kwimeko apho umntwana wakho efumaneke ukuba nobuchule obuphezulu bengqondo kunabo bonke abanye abantwana, kulungile ukuba uqokelele ulwazi oluninzi kangangoko ukuze wazi indlela yokujongana neengxaki ezahlukeneyo ngeyona ndlela ifanelekileyo. Oku kuya kukunceda ukuba uzilungiselele kwaye uya kuyazi indlela yokwenza ngokufanelekileyo.
- Kuhle ukuba uhlale nomntwana wakho umxelele ukuba i-IQ yakhe iphezulu kunabanye. Umntwana kufuneka azive ekhuselekile kwaye ekhuselekile xa enabazali ngamaxesha onke. Ingxoxo ibalulekile xa kuziwa ekuphepheni iingxaki ezizayo umntwana anazo.
- Kubalulekile ukukhuthaza umntwana ngawo onke amaxesha ukuze angadikwa kwaye angakhathazeki. DKuya kufuneka uphakamise izinto eziza kumkhuthaza kwaye athande izinto ukuze azonwabise kwaye athobe umnqweno wokwazi.
- Xa kuziwa ekufundeni kulungile ukuba uyenze kwindawo efanelekileyo kwaye ukhululeke kangangoko kunokwenzeka.
- Ngoncedo lweengcali, kuya kufuneka uphucule ezo zakhono zilungele wena. Kuya kufuneka uthathe ithuba lokuba unamandla okuqonda aphezulu ukuze ufumane okuninzi kuwo.