Un umntwana ngaphambi kwexesha ozelwe ngaphambi kweveki ye-37, unokuba neengxaki ezininzi zempilo kulo lonke uphuhliso lwabo. Namhlanje umgangatho wokukhula kwezi ntsana uqinisekisiwe ngakumbi, nangona kunjalo, kuyimfuneko gcina iliso kuphuhliso lwabo kwiinyanga zokuqala. Sihlalutya ukuba yeyiphi iminyaka abantwana abazalwa phambi kwexesha abakhasa ngayo kwaye injani indalo yabo.
Ngokutsho iSpanish Association of Pediatrics, iintsana ziqala ukukhasa phakathi kwe 8 kunye neenyanga ezili-10. Nakwezi datha, umntwana ngamnye uya kuxhomekeka ekutshoniseni nasekuzimeleni kwakhe, kuba zinokwahluka kwezinye iintsana. Abantwana abazelwe ngaphambi kwexesha banenye indlela yokusombulula ukukhula kwabo ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo, kuba oku siza kuhlalutya indlela abakhula ngayo ekufundeni kwabo.
Iintsana ezizalwa phambi kwexesha ziqala nini ukukhasa?
Ukuvuselela, uthando kunye nokungazinzi komntwana Ziya kuba zizizathu eziya kuqhubela phambili umzuzu wokukhasa. Asingabo bonke abantwana abakhasayo, njengoko abanye bevuma ukuhamba kunokukhasa. Iintsana ezizelwe ngaphambi kwexesha zigcina elona xesha licothayo lokufunda, kuba ziyakwazi ukulibazisa ukuzimela kwayo ukuya kwiinyanga ezimbini ngaphezu kwesiqhelo.
Iintsana ezizelwe ngaphambi kwexesha zifikelela kwiinyanga ezili-10 ukuze ziqalise ukukhasa. Kumalunga neenyanga ezisi-8 xa beqala ukuma nkqo, yinyani leyo. Ukuba, emva kweenyanga ezili-10, awukafikeleli kwiinjongo ezithile, kufuneka uzithathe njengedatha, kodwa ngaphandle kokuba luphawu lokuxhalaba.
Ngethuba lokutyelela ugqirha wabantwana, inkqubela yomntwana kufuneka ihlale ihlaziywa, ukuba kukho into engahambelaniyo, kulapho kukho isizathu sokukhathazeka. Akukho kungxama kuba ukuhamba kwakho kusesekuseni, kodwa ukuba umntwana unobunzima, kufuneka umncede ukuba amkhuthaze.
Imithambo yokukhuthaza usana ukuba lukhase
Abazali banokunceda ukuzama ukukhasa, kwanakwenye inkqubela, njengokuhlala nkqo okanye ukukwazi ukuhambisa izandla neenyawo zabo ukuba zihambe. Iya kuba ngumzuzu wokugqwesa apho inokwandiswa kwiiveki zokuzama, ngamanye amaxesha iya kuyifezekisa injongo yayo kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ayizukuyifeza.
Beka iithoyi zakho ozithandayo kude kancinci ngaphandle kokufikelela, ukumkhuthaza ukuba adlale. Ngale ndlela uya kukhasa okanye azame ukukhasa xa efuna ukubamba. Unokuba nabantwana bakowenu okanye abazali bakhase ecaleni kwabo ukuze baxelise iintshukumo. Beka isangqa semiqamelo emjikelezileyo kwaye umkhuthaze ukuba azame ukuyibamba.
Ukukhula komntwana ngokuzalwa okuqhelekileyo xa kuthelekiswa nomntwana ozelwe ngaphambi kwexesha
Ukubala ukukhula komzimba womntwana ozelwe ngaphambi kwexesha kulula. Emva koko, sichaza indlela umntwana ozelwe ngokuqhelekileyo aqhubela ngayo kunyaka wokuqala wobomi bakhe. Ukubala izakhono zomntwana ozelwe ngaphambi kwexesha kufuneka uthabathe iiveki. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba i-16 yeeveki ezidlulileyo zidweliswe, kodwa umntwana wayeneeveki ezi-6 ekuqaleni kokuzalwa kwakhe, ngoko kufuneka silibazise ezo veki zi-6 kwangaphambili.
- Kwiiveki ezi-4 (iinyanga ezi-2) umntwana uqala ukuphakamisa intloko. Uqalisa ukuhambisa iingalo nemilenze kwaye sele ephethe ezinye izinto ngezandla zakhe.
- Kwiiveki ezi-16 (iinyanga ezi-6) umntwana uqala ukukhasa kunye nemilenze yakhe phezulu, ubeka izandla zakhe emlonyeni wakhe, usebenzisana nabantu.
- Kwiiveki ezingama-32 (iinyanga ezili-9) Sele ekhasa aphakame encediswa ziingalo zomntu omdala. Uzama ukulinganisa izandi azivayo kwaye sele ethetha amagama angatshatanga afana nomama notata. Sele ebambe izinto ngezandla.
- Ngeeveki ezingama-40 (kwiinyanga ezili-12) umntwana sele eqalisile ukwenza amanyathelo okuqala. Yongeza amagama angakumbi kwisigama sakho kwaye uqale ukuzimela ngakumbi.
Iingxaki zokufunda kwiintsana ezizalwa ngaphambi kwexesha
Iintsana ezizelwe ngaphambi kwexesha zinokuba nengxaki yokufunda ngenxa yengqondo engekakhuli nenkqubo yemithambo-luvo. Basenokuzisa iingxaki kuphuhliso lweemoto ukugcina i cabeza, ukukhasa o uhamba. Nangona ufunda ukutya kunye nokugqoka ngokuzimeleyo. Kwezi meko, inkwenkwe okanye intombazana inokufuna uncedo kunyango lomzimba okanye lomsebenzi.