Enye yezona zinto zixhalabisayo abazali, emva kwempilo, Uqhuba njani umntwana wakho esikolweni?. Kwenzeka ntoni esikolweni kwaye asiyiboni, kukuba kubaluleke kakhulu kuphuhliso lwakho lweemvakalelo abantwana bethu.
Ukongeza kwizinto abazifundayo, ubuhlobo busungulwa, mhlawumbi ukuxhatshazwa, iimeko zovuyo kunye nosizi, nokuba bavuya okanye cha ... Yingakho kufuneka sazi ukuba yeyiphi imibuzo esinokuyibuza ukuze sazi olu lwazi kuqala.
iimonologues eziqhelekileyo
Yonke imihla babuya esikolweni kwaye sibuza imibuzo efanayo: Ubuqhuba njani esikolweni? Unemisebenzi? I-monologue eqhubekayo, apho sihlala sifumana ulwazi oluncinci kakhulu okanye singabinalo ulwazi kubo. Baphendula ngokuthi "ulungile", "ewe" kunye nokunye okuncinci. Le yimibuzo enzima kakhulu kubo.
Kodwa ngaba le mibuzo ngokwenene ufuna ukuyazi? Le mibuzo Zinxulumene kakhulu nokufunda kodwa azinanto yakwenza nobomi beemvakalelo yabantwana bethu, eyona nto ibalulekileyo: ukuba ngaba unabahlobo, ukuba bonwabile okanye yintoni ubudlelwane abanayo noontanga babo.
Imibuzo engama-25 yokufumanisa ukuba uqhuba njani umntwana wakho esikolweni
Emva kokubona imibuzo esihlala siyibuza kwaye ayisebenzi, masiqhubele phambili ukuze sibone Imibuzo engama-25 yokufumanisa ukuba uqhuba njani umntwana wakho esikolweni. Baya kusinceda siqokelele ulwazi oluninzi kwaye ngaloo ndlela sifezekise ubudlelwane obumanzi. Zijolise kubantwana besikolo samabanga aphantsi kodwa zinokuhlengahlengiswa kubantwana abadala.
- Yeyiphi eyona nto ilungileyo eyenzekileyo kuwe namhlanje?
- Ngaba ikho into ekukhathazayo?
- Ufunde ntoni entsha esikolweni?
- Ubutye ntoni namhlanje kwigumbi lokutyela?
- Ubudlala nabani xa ukwikhefu?
- Ngowuphi umdlalo owuthande kakhulu ngexesha lekhefu?
- Ngaba kukho umntu okwenzele into entle ngokwenene namhlanje?
- Yintoni ekwenze wancuma esikolweni namhlanje?
- Ngaba wenze into entle komnye wogxa bakho?
- Ngaba ukhona umntu okwenze wancuma?
- Ngobuphi obona budenge buyenzeke eklasini yakho namhlanje?
- Ungawulinganisa njani usuku lwakho eklasini ukusuka ku-1 ukuya ku-10 kwaye ngoba?
- Ngubani ongathanda ukuba ngumhlobo wakho kwaye ongekabikho?
- Ngaba kukho umntu ombi kuwe namhlanje?
- Ukuba ubungumfundisi-ntsapho ngomso, yintoni obungathanda ukuyifundisa abantwana ofunda nabo?
- Ngaba ikhona into ebikwenza uhleke kakhulu?
- Ngaba wakha wabuhlungu ngenxa yento eyathethwa okanye eyenziwe ngomnye umntu?
- Ngowuphi umthetho katitshala onokuthi uwutshintshe?
- Ngowuphi umfundi ofunda naye ongathanda ukuba ngutitshala wakho omtsha?
- Kwi-apocalypse ye-zombie, ngowuphi utitshala oza kusindiswa?
- Ufunde ntoni namhlanje kubahlobo bakho?
- Ngowuphi umgaqo obekunzima ukuwulandela namhlanje?
- Ngowuphi umntu eklasini yakho ochasene nawe?
- Yintoni oyithanda kakhulu ngesikolo sakho?
- Kunini apho uye waziva unelunda ngawe?
Imibuzo onokucingisisa ngayo
Le mibuzo khuthaza ukucinga komntwana wakho, ukongezelela ekufumaniseni ukuba bunjani ubomi babo kwindawo abachitha kuyo iiyure ezininzi size singabikho ukuze sibabone. Ngaphandle koko iya kuphucula unxibelelwano kunye nokuguquguquka phakathi kokubini, eya kuhlahl’ indlela eya ebutsheni.
Kuba khumbula ... kobu bomi imfundo ibalulekile kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu ukwazi ubomi beemvakalelo zabantwana bethu.