Indawo engwevu. Ukukhubazeka okugqithisileyo, xa kufuneka uthathe isigqibo sokuba ngaba kunokwenzeka okanye hayi.

Iingcali zilumkisa ukuba yonke imihla kubakho ukuzalwa ngaphambi kwexesha kwaye baya besanda nangakumbi ...

Izizathu ezinokubakho zezona zahlukeneyo, ukwandisa iminyaka yoomama xa ujongene nokuba ngumama, ukuncedisa iindlela zokuzala, inkqubela phambili kwezonyango ezivumela ukukhulelwa ukuba kuqhubeke ngaphambili bekungadluli kwiiveki zokuqala ...

Ngaphandle kwayo yonke into echazwa kukungakhuli kuqala, akukho mntu usisindisayo ukuba umntwana ongaphambi kwexesha oneeveki ezimbini ukusuka kwikota akafani nolunye oluneeveki ezili-12.

Ithuba lokuphila, i-sequelae enokwenzeka, lilibi ixesha elincinci umntwana abe ngalo esibelekweni sikanina.. Kukho ixesha apho imiphunga yomntwana yenziwe kwaye ikamva lomntwana ngaphambi kwexesha licacile, kodwa kwenzeka ntoni xa usana luzalwa kumda wokusebenza weveki yokukhulelwa?

Namhlanje siza kuyeka ukujonga zonke ezo ntsana zizalwe kwiiveki ezimbalwa zithathela ingqalelo umda wokusebenza, abantwana abazelwe "kwindawo engwevu".

Ubungqambi

Ukukhulelwa ebantwini kuhlala iiveki ezingama-40. Usana luthathwa ngokuba luzelwe "ngokupheleleyo" xa ukuzala kwenzeka phakathi kweeveki ezingama-37 ukuya kwezingama-42 zokukhulelwa.

Ukuzalwa kwangoko, ngakumbi ukwakheka kwemveku engekakhuli ngokwaneleyo. Ngokukodwa, ukukhula kwemiphunga yinto ephawula umda wokusebenza komntwana.

Yintoni esiyiqondayo ngo "mda wokusebenza"

Umda wokusebenza lixesha lokukhulelwa xa umbungu ufikelela kwinqanaba lokuvuthwa kwamalungu kunye neenkqubo eziyimfuneko ukuze ube nethuba elifanelekileyo lokuphila ngaphandle kwe-sequelae enkulu ngaphandle kwesibeleko.

Nangona ukukhula kombungu kunye ne-fetus kufana okanye kuncinci kubo bonke abantu, ukusebenza komntwana akuyiyo "into evaliweyo", asinakumisa iveki apho zonke iintsana ezizelwe ngaphambi kwexesha zinokwenzeka.

Zininzi izinto ekufuneka zivavanyiwe xa ujongene nokuzalwa kwangaphambi kwexesha: ixesha lokukhulelwa, isini, ukukhulelwa okungatshatanga okanye okuphindaphindiweyo, ukukhula kwemveku yomntwana, kunye nobunzima bomntwana obuqikelelweyo.

Ukuvuthwa kwemiphunga yabantwana

Xa sithetha ngokukhula kwemiphunga engekazalwa, sibhekisa kubuchule bemiphunga yosana yokuphefumla.

Yeyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu ekukhuleni kosana olungekazalwa ukuvavanya ukuba ingaba umntwana angazalwa na okanye hayi nokuba angasebenza.

Umphunga womntu uqala ukubakho ukusuka kumanqanaba okuqala okukhulelwa kwaye uqhubeke nenkqubela phambili de kube yiminyaka emi-3 ubudala.

Ngaphambi kweveki ye-23 iiseli ezenza imiphunga engekazalwa azinakho ukutshintshiselana ngegesi, ukusuka kwiveki yama-25 yokukhulelwa izakhiwo zemiphunga ezinoxanduva lokutshintshiselana ngegesi ziqala ukubakho, kunye nesixhobo esisisiseko sokuphefumla, umphunga osebenza ngemiphunga.

Ke ngoko, okwangoku, Kwimeko-bume yethu, kucingelwa ukuba kufanelekile ukuzama ukuvuselelwa kosana olusanda kuzalwa ukusuka ngeveki yama-25, kodwa akukhuthazwa ngaphantsi kweveki yama-23.

Emva kweveki ye-30, ukusinda ngaphandle kwe-sequelae enkulu kunokuba kunokwenzeka, kuba imiphunga ikhula ngokwamkelekileyo. Ukuqala kwiveki yama-26, kunye neeyunithi zokunyamekela ngoku, sinokunika umntwana ngaphambi kwexesha lonke ukhathalelo lokugqiba ukukhula kwakhe.

Kwenzeka ntoni kwamanye amalungu abalulekileyo okanye iinkqubo zomntu?

Ukukhula kwemiphunga kusinika ithuba lokuphila ngalo mzuzu. Izinto ezinokubakho ngokulandelelana zinokwenzeka ngenxa yokunqongophala kwenkqubo esisiseko, inkqubo yeemvakalelo., zona kunye neliso nendlebe zezona zichaphazeleka kakhulu kukuzalwa ngaphambi kwexesha.

Indawo engwevu yokuqhayisa

Indawo engwevu yokuthwala iqondwa njengexesha eliphakathi kwe-23 kunye ne-24 yeveki yokukhulelwa. Iiveki apho kunzima khona ukufumanisa ukuba ngaba usana olungekazalwa luyasebenza okanye hayi.

Ngeli xesha iingcali ziya kuzama ukunqanda ukuzalwa ngazo zonke iindlela, zizama ukunqanda ukuzalwa kangangoko kunokwenzeka.

Kodwa kuthekani ukuba akunakwenzeka ukwandisa ixesha lokukhulelwa? Kuthekani ukuba ukuhanjiswa kwenzeka nokuba kunjalo?

Kule meko sijamelene nengxaki yokuziphatha kunye neyabantu. Iingcali zezempilo kufuneka zikhokelwe yimigaqo esisiseko yokuziphatha.

Umsebenzi wokugcina ubomi ungangqubana nomsebenzi wokubonelela ngowona mgangatho uphakamileyo wobomi, kodwa ngekhe sazi kwangaphambili umgangatho wobomi obunokuphunyezwa lolo sana.

Ngubani onokukwazi nokuba uza kukhubazeka ngenxa yokuba wazalwa ngaphambi kwexesha? Ngubani onokwazi kwangaphambili ukuba uya kusinda okanye hayi? Yonke imihla zininzi iimeko zeentsana ezizalwe ngaphambi kwexesha kwaye ziye zakwazi ukuhlala ngaphandle kwe-sequelae ephambili.

Ukuzama ukufumana umhlaba ophakathi phakathi kwale migaqo mibini akunakuba lula.

Kubalulekile ukuzama ukunqanda ukubandezeleka okugqithileyo emntwaneni ozelwe enangaphambi kokukhulelwa, kodwa kubalulekile ukumnika ithuba lokuphila.

Kuzo zonke iimeko kuyacetyiswa ukuba wazise ngokwaneleyo abazali kwaye babe nezimvo zabo. Kule ndawo "ingwevu" okulindelweyo, amaxabiso kunye neenkolelo zabazali zibalulekile xa kusenziwa isigqibo okanye ukujongana nokhathalelo oluza kunikwa olo sana.

Isigqibo sokugqibela kufuneka sibe nemvumelwano yoogqirha bezonyango, oogqirha babantwana kunye nosapho, indlela eya phambili ayilulanga ngoko ke kufuneka sazisiwe kwaye sizilungiselele ...