Ukuqeshwa kwabantwana kunyeOhlutha abantwana ubomi bobuntwana babo, kwaye ke ngoko, ibafaka kwimisebenzi engalunganga yobudala babo. Izigidi zabantwana emhlabeni zizifumana zikule meko kwaye, ngelishwa, umbono wexesha elizayo awukhuthazi kangako. Ukuphelisa le meko imbi kangaka Kungumsebenzi wabo bonke, hayi kuphela kwinxalenye yezikhundla eziphezulu, kodwa nakwintsapho nganye ngendlela yokufundisa abantwana.
Kuyimfuneko ukugcina engqondweni ukuba Indlela yakho yokufundisa abantwana iya kuchaphazela indlela yabo xa befikelela ebudaleni. Sifuna abantu abadala beplanethi ukuba babe ngabantu Ukunyaniseka, Inkxaso kunye nokuzibophelela kwabo bayifuna kakhulu. Ukuze oku kwenzeke, kubalulekile ukuba abantwana abonwabela amalungelo abo apheleleyo bazi ukuba baninzi abanye abantwana ehlabathini abanawo.
Ungathetha njani nabantwana malunga nokuqeshwa kwabantwana?
Nangona kubalulekile ukubandakanya abantwana kwimicimbi yezentlalo, kubalulekile kuthathelwe ingqalelo ubudala kunye nokuvuthwa komntwana ngamnye. Ayisiyonto yokwenza umothuko emntwaneni, nangokwenza ukuba abone inkohlakalo yenyani yoluntu lwangoku. Kodwa, ngezimbo zomzimba, ngamazwi nangemisebenzi efanelekileyo kubudala babo kunye nokuqonda, ungabanceda baqonde ukuba umhlaba awufani kubo bonke abantwana.
Ngenxa yokuba ukubhiyozela uSuku lweHlabathi ngokuchasene nokuSetyenziswa kwaBantwanaSiphakamisa umsebenzi wokuchazela abantwana ukuba yintoni umsebenzi wabantwana. Kwaye inokuba yeyiphi enye indlela, ngumdlalo olungelelaniswe nobudala bomntwana.
Usuku ebomini bomntwana osebenzayo
Lo msebenzi wenzelwe ukuba, ngendlela elula, abantwana banokuthelekisa indlela usuku oludlula ngayo ebomini bomntwana osebenzayo ngemini yabo yanamhlanje. Ngalo msebenzi baya kuba nakho ukusebenza ngobuchule, kuba kuya kufuneka benze ubugcisa kunye nemizobo, kunye nokuqonda nokulinda. Umdlalo unezigaba ezibini, kwisigaba sokuqala:
- Uya kudinga ikhadi elikhuluKuyo uzobe indawo enkulu emele iwotshi. Ipeyinti kwiwotshi iiyure ezingama-24 ngosuku uze wohlule iyure nganye ngemigca, ukuze Inqanaba lahlulwe langamacandelo.
- Emva Cela abantwana ukuba bacinge ngemisebenzi abayenzayo yonke imihla. Umzekelo, ukuvuka, ukutya isidlo sakusasa, ukuhlamba amazinyo, ukuya esikolweni, ukudlala nabahlobo, ukwenza umsebenzi wesikolo njl. Xa benoluhlu olupheleleyo, banokuzoba imifanekiso ukubonisa imisebenzi. Bangazipeyinta ngewotshi enye okanye basike kwiimagazini okanye kwiikhathalogu ozifumana ekhaya.
Isigaba sesibini siqukethe ukwenza umsebenzi ofanayo, kodwa kule meko, kuya kufuneka zimele imisebenzi eyenziwa ngumntwana osebenzayo kwiiyure ezingama-24. Kule meko, kuya kufuneka uncede abantwana, kuba ngethamsanqa, abayazi yonke into ekufuneka yenziwe ngumntu yonke imihla ukuze asebenze, kungasathethwa ke ukuba ngumntwana wabo.
Ungasebenzisa izinto ezibonakalayo ozifumana kwi-Intanethi, kunye nezalathiso okanye imifanekiso ukukunceda ukulungiselela uluhlu. Khetha ilizwe elisaphuhlayo kwaye chazela abantwana bakho ukuba uquka ntoni umsebenzi wabantwana kwelo lizwe. Ngale ndlela, ngokudibeneyo unokulungiselela uluhlu lwemisebenzi kwisigaba sesibini, emva koko:
- Lungisa iwotshi yesibini enobukhulu obufanayo ngaphezu kweyokuqala. Kwakhona, cela abantwana ukuba bazobe imiboniso ebonisa imisebenzi okanye babasike kwiimagazini.
- Nje ukuba iiwotshi ezimbini zigqitywe, ungaqala ukuthelekisa.
Thelekisa imisebenzi yeewotshi ezimbini
Ngaba unale nkxaso ebonakalayo yokuba baya kuzenzela bona, bancede baqonde ngcono ukuba bunjani ubomi bomntwana ukuba kufuneka asebenze, endaweni yokudlala okanye ukuya esikolweni njengabo. Ngendlela elula kodwa esebenzayo, baya kuwazi amalungelo abanawo abanye abantwana abangenalo. Mhlawumbi, ngenye imini bangalwa nale nkqantosi ebonakala ngathi ayinasiphelo.